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re: Dad's letting daughters date.

Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:16 am to
Posted by Sidicous
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Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:16 am to
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No 13 year old, with the attention span of a goldfish, is actually watching a movie, when a 3 minute youtube is a "long show", dummy
Posted by VooDude
Member since Aug 2017
1079 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:18 am to
Yeah, sorry OP, there's no keeping the genie in the bottle. Just have to let nature take it's course. The more resistance you apply now, the worse the decisions she makes later.
Posted by Crow Pie
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Member since Feb 2010
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Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:24 am to
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OK baws......my daughter (13) asked to go to the movies with a boy (14) earlier today. I said NO!
So now she's not talking to me and my wife says I am being harsh. WTF?
Rut Roh. Mark this day down as the starting point of about 10 years of chaos and misery for you. The good days are officially OVER!
Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
38852 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:24 am to
I dont see how it’s overbearing to have them chaperoned. They can sit a few rows away, but within sight.

There’s no reason for kids that young to be alone. That’s not unreasonable. Some parents wouldn’t allow dating at all.
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 8:25 am
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:33 am to
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 dont see how it’s overbearing to have them chaperoned. There’s no reason for kids that young to be alone. 


Yeah she's going to be an absolute staple for frat bro toss around.

Good luck with that. Hope she uses protection.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57579 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:45 am to
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I think its wrong to assume all teenagers are sneaky manipulative just because of age alone.


This is kind of like saying “I think it’s wrong to assume all strippers are whores” you assume based on the observed behavior.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15293 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:50 am to
My baw. Me too. That shite used to pop off on a Friday.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:51 am to
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think its wrong to assume all teenagers are sneaky manipulative


Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27348 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 9:07 am to
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Not like he is going to try and hump her in the theater.


I'm in my 30s and pretty much harass my wife in every theatre and dressing room we go to.
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
14395 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 9:13 am to
quote:

quote: Scruffy thinks you are being harsh. Scruffy believes that practice makes perfect, and she needs to have that fiya before her body goes to shite.

quote: TSLG Did scruffy just out his alter?


Posted by FreddieMac
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
20962 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 9:40 am to
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I'm in my 30s and pretty much harass my wife in every theatre and dressing room we go to.



Not likely with her mother sitting one row behind you in the theater and if you where 14. Newsflash, your daughter will have sex no matter what you do. Been my experience the more intractable you become as the parent, the worse it will be when she acts out.
Posted by 0
Member since Aug 2011
16624 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:08 am to
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OK baws......my daughter (13) asked to go to the movies with a boy (14) earlier today. I said NO!


She is going to whore it up if you keep being over bearing.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
51345 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:11 am to
Hell no.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:15 am to
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If his daughter does not respect him already then she will do that.


If he doesn't treat his daughter like a human that has agency then she will not respect him. These things are tied together. That's the point. Not letting your children do things within reason will drive them to having other issues.
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 10:16 am
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
35348 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:41 am to
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Not like he is going to try and hump her in the theater.
Shhhhiiiiiddd... theater head and bathroom pussy is some of the best around. The adrenaline makes it great.

Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52910 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:46 am to
I don't have kids but back in the day the girls that were putting out at the movie theatre at that age had divorced parents
Posted by VaBamaMan
North AL
Member since Apr 2013
7649 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:48 am to
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13 is too young to date.



He's right. When I was 14, I took a 13 year old on her first date.

I ended up marrying her when we were old enough.

It's easy to get way too attached at that age. You don't have the wisdom to combat the feelings you start getting.
Posted by nola000
Lacombe, LA
Member since Dec 2014
13139 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:52 am to
Why do y'all restrain your kids from early responsibility especially at a time when the consequences matter the least? My wife and I are both the most responsible adults I know and we both got a really early start on life in general. We both started working at a really really young age, we both started dating at a really young age, driving, partying, Etc. This teaches you responsibility early so you don't make those mistakes later on in your twenties when you should be trying to get your life in order. Your teenage years are there for you to be an early adult and feel out the world and find your place and develop your personality and you can't do that without Life Experiences. There's been a trend since probably about the thirties or forties in this country to keep pushing adulthood back. Now we're in a place today where you have 35 year olds living with their parents still and in college with no kids. That's a lot of wasted years in the prime of you life
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 11:05 am
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63192 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 11:01 am to
At that age, I wouldn't consider anything besides group activities.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
98915 posts
Posted on 12/3/17 at 11:02 am to
The wildest girls I knew in college were the ones who had super overbearing parents. They can't be trustworthy unless you give them the opportunity.

Tell her she can go if an adult also goes (and let them sit in another part of the theater). Or at the very least tell her she can go only after you've met the boy. But she should be allowed to go.
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 11:04 am
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