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re: Can a guy/girl in a relationship have a close friend of the opposite sex?
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:47 am to Bluefin
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:47 am to Bluefin
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Of course. There is no way something like that could foster jealousy from your partner. Go for it
I've always tried to be with level-headed, trustworthy, and confident partners. That way, we never have to act like middle schoolers and tell each other who they can and can't be friends with.
To each his/her own, though.
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:47 am to tigrbabe08
I am assuming you mean the person of the opposite sex is heterosexual and attractive. I am going to lean toward a no on this.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:48 am to Tigerfan56
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I've always tried to be with level-headed, trustworthy, and confident partners. That way, we never have to act like middle schoolers and tell each other who they can and can't be friends with.
I haven't seen anyone say that they tell their SO who they can and can't be friends with.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:49 am to LNCHBOX
If I had to do that she wouldn't be my SO.
frick that crazy type shite.
frick that crazy type shite.
This post was edited on 6/7/18 at 9:50 am
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:52 am to Tigerfan56
quote:women are awful. No self respecting man would ever choose to be close friends with a woman if they didn't have at least some intention of trying to bang them.
've always tried to be with level-headed, trustworthy, and confident partners. That way, we never have to act like middle schoolers and tell each other who they can and can't be friends with.
This post was edited on 6/7/18 at 9:52 am
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:56 am to tigrbabe08
Yes but it's rare. I think one is the limit.
If a woman or a man is in a relationship and has lots of close friends of the opposite sex, then they're probably whoring.
If a woman or a man is in a relationship and has lots of close friends of the opposite sex, then they're probably whoring.
This post was edited on 6/7/18 at 9:57 am
Posted on 6/7/18 at 10:01 am to Titus Pullo
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If I had to do that she wouldn't be my SO.
This.
It all boils down to being honest with yourself and evaluating your partner honestly.
If your partner is actively seeking out attention of the opposite sex, then cut that shite off immediately.
From a man's perspective: your SO knows damn well what men want, and if she's indulging the attention of men other than you, then there's a problem.
From a woman's perspective: you know damn well what men want, and if your SO is spending time with another woman, you can be sure he wants to frick.
Keep in mind this has nothing to do with "keeping your partner satisfied". Some people are just broken. They have issues you (as their partner) cannot fix, and will engage in behavior detrimental to a committed relationship no matter what you do.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 10:03 am to tigrbabe08
Absolutely it's possible.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 10:24 am to tigrbabe08
"So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?"
"No, you pretty much want to nail 'em too."
-When Harry Met Sally
"No, you pretty much want to nail 'em too."
-When Harry Met Sally
Posted on 6/7/18 at 10:39 am to mikelbr
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My best gal friend is very attractive and that thought never crosses my mind.
What do y’all have in common?
Posted on 6/7/18 at 10:43 am to mikelbr
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Yes absolutely. But it hast to be established LONG before you two meet.
My gf and I both have very close friends of the opposite sex.
Great advice. How many divorces are you on baw?
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:05 am to mikelbr
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My best gal friend is very attractive and that thought never crosses my mind.
Do you actually wear your testicles? Or, wife keep em in her purse? If in purse, that could account for your low testosterone levels... and lack of sex drive!
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:13 am to Lester Earl
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What do y’all have in common?
Isn't Mikel gay? Completely nulls his input
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:14 am to Lester Earl
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My best gal friend is very attractive and that thought never crosses my mind.
What do y’all have in common?
They both like dick.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:24 am to tigrbabe08
Just from a guys perspective. If your SO thinks the friend is even slightly better looking than her, then no.
Plus, what woman would let you go hang out with your female friend? do fun things with the friend instead of with her?
Plus, what woman would let you go hang out with your female friend? do fun things with the friend instead of with her?
This post was edited on 6/7/18 at 11:27 am
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:38 am to tigrbabe08
I would say:
Possible? Yes.
Advisable? No.
Possible? Yes.
Advisable? No.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:48 am to tigrbabe08
Yes, but any sexual tension has to be acknowledged and dealt with. Be it by getting it out of the way or acknowledging a reason that both of you will not act on it. (Wife of a friend, work together, etc.)
If it isn’t then it will spoil the friendship.
If it isn’t then it will spoil the friendship.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:50 am to StealthCalais11
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Isn't Mikel gay? Completely nulls his input
man y’all fall for that old hat shite? Mikel has a hot gf and hot ex-wives. He may have no filter but he isn’t a Peter puffer.
Posted on 6/7/18 at 11:51 am to tigrbabe08
Danger Will Robinson
Posted on 6/7/18 at 12:00 pm to tigrbabe08
It honestly just depends on the other person in the relationship. Is the other person insecure and will get jealous? Then it probably won't work out well. If not, then it can work.
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