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re: Can a guy/girl in a relationship have a close friend of the opposite sex?

Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:38 am to
Posted by AnorexicGator
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:38 am to
Yes. I'm good friends with a girl from my HS days and I've been married for 20+ years.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:38 am to
Can easily happen. You recovered well it seems. All that matters. Her loss.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38233 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:39 am to
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Yes absolutely. But it hast to be established LONG before you two meet.


Aren’t you on wife #3?


Sorry man. I couldn’t resist.


Posted by DemonKA3268
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:39 am to
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And it cuts both ways really. From the male partner's perspective, the more attractive the single friend is, the greater the temptation. From the female partner's perspective, the more attractive the single friend is, the greater the threat.
Exactly!
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:39 am to
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how many men do you know of that keep a close female friend who is unfrickable ugly?



Yep, it's rare and typically involves working with that close friend in most cases but if you share some of the same interests, it can happen.
Posted by 632627
LA
Member since Dec 2011
15405 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:40 am to
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Yeah I’ve had several friends that were girls throughout high school to now. I ended up hooking up with all but 2.



Same here. Ended up marrying one of them.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61575 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:40 am to
What is considered "friend zone"?

I have a female friend that I talk to pretty regularly, but I'm not doing big favors for her or anything like that.
Posted by CptRusty
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Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:41 am to
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I have a female friend that I talk to pretty regularly, but I'm not doing big favors for her or anything like that.




Do you want to frick her?

Be honest. Given the opportunity, she's coming on to you, do you lay the pipe?
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:41 am to
Ask sfp.

It's when the guy wants to frick and the girl is like nah, we just friends.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:41 am to
"lol so btdubz Ben came over last night and he was like stupid wasted LMBO anyways I couldn't let him drive so he crashed here we slept in the same bed but omg nothing happened obvi cuz it's you know Ben XD"
Posted by mikelbr
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Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:42 am to
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Aren’t you on wife #3?


Sorry man. I couldn’t resist


understandable.

She's still just a girlfriend but we've been together longer than either wife. Next Wednesday makes 7 years.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:43 am to
She gone leave you when you turn 50 old man.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:43 am to
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Probably depends on the person. Speaking for myself, NO. If the female is attractive, inevitably I will attempt to enter her.


My best gal friend is very attractive and that thought never crosses my mind.

As Fr33. He really wants to bone her.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38233 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:43 am to
Damn it’s been that long? Congrats. Good luck on the road to together forever.



That’s a staggering thought isn’t it?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:44 am to
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She gone leave you when you turn 50 old man.


Probably so. But that'll give us 15 good years together.

Can't complain about that kinda longevity in today's world.

Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:44 am to
Nah.

I haven’t had many “close” friends that are girls in my life, but I have had sex with all of them except one. And that one, I really would have liked to.

Same with co worker women. The closest one who I used to chat with daily, see outside of work in groups is also another one I haven’t slept with but would have in my single days if given the chance. No way in hell I was going to ruin what has been a great career thus far over pussy though.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37479 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:44 am to
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In your opinion, can someone in a committed relationship have a close friendship with a single person of the opposite sex?

Yes, one of my best friends is a female. We've been friends for over 10 years. At some points we were single, but we're now both married. We went to undergrad together, and we now work together.

It's never been more than a friendship.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49099 posts
Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:46 am to
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Damn it’s been that long? Congrats. Good luck on the road to together forever.



Yes seems like yesterday I was posting a batshit meltdown culminating with my Slinky's Shitter Pic and 18 month ban. That was June 2011.

Posted by Chad504boy
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:46 am to
No
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 6/7/18 at 9:46 am to
I'm just fricking with you. Iirc you and I are same age with same age women.

Daddy issues ftmfw!
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