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Being told constantly "it's time to have kids.."

Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:54 pm
Posted by CoeJ
Member since Oct 2010
1827 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:54 pm
Another Christmas another chance for everyone to make us feel guilty for doing what we want.

My wife and I don't want kids right now, maybe not ever, why is it anyone else's business?

I'm sure having kids is so fulfilling and omgzzz you don't understand that kind of love until you have a child...

But you know what I do understand? Doing whatever the frick we want, when we want. I'll stick with being the fun uncle.

Anyone else catch shite from family constantly?


Posted by Yellerhammer5
Member since Oct 2012
10850 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:55 pm to
Posted by skullhawk
My house
Member since Nov 2007
22937 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:55 pm to
Probably just suspect you’re gay
Posted by 99BLKBRD
Member since Mar 2015
575 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:55 pm to
Just say “okay” and proceed to bang your wife on the dining table.
Posted by ellishughtiger
70118
Member since Jul 2004
21135 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:55 pm to
Welcome to every married couple w/o children’s Christmas get together with the family.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123814 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:56 pm to
Just remember, if you, who I assume are a stable, responsible, productive person, don’t have kids, don’t be surprised when your families are pushed out by trash who have 7 kids before they are 30.

Demography is destiny.




Idiocracy cometh.
This post was edited on 12/26/17 at 2:00 pm
Posted by FreddieMac
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
20942 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:57 pm to
Do not worry what anyone’s else thinks...
Posted by CoeJ
Member since Oct 2010
1827 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:58 pm to
quote:

trash who have 7 kids before they are 30


bigger epidemic than opioids.
Posted by diat150
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2005
43442 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 1:59 pm to
No matter what people are still going to do it so don't let it bother you. Unless you guys are having problems I don't see why it would matter.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20014 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:00 pm to
Luckily my family isn’t filled with pushy counts

And congrats on the consequence free sex!
Posted by Cousin Key
Member since Dec 2017
982 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:00 pm to
Just tell them you're shooting blanks. They'll leave you alone.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:01 pm to
quote:

Anyone else catch shite from family constantly?


not anymore. Beauty of getting older, I guess. You'll catch shite here for your sentiments tho. frick the haters. outside of maybe being able to use the help around the house occasionally, I don't regret not having kids one minute.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68435 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:01 pm to
Christmas was going fine yesterday until my mom in law brought it up

then the so brought it up

i am perfectly fine with just our little girl (shell be 2 in March). I just want to be able to have a job after i graduate before i have another kid.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8361 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:01 pm to
Yeah man. Let me give you the honest truth. When you and your wife decide you have too much free time and too much money, have kids.

People did the same shite to me. Of course I love my kids but they're a lot of work. I think other people just do that shite because they're trying to convince themselves that they didn't frick their lives up. They'll ruin yours too.

Don't do it bro.
Posted by Statestreet
Gueydan
Member since Sep 2008
12898 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:02 pm to
Tell them that you almost have her talked in to switching to vaginal sex. That usually shuts them up.
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
57211 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:02 pm to
Cliche incoming

I hated hearing this but it’s one of the most truest truths

Having kids is the hardest most rewarding things in life.
Posted by CoeJ
Member since Oct 2010
1827 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:03 pm to
quote:

No matter what people are still going to do it so don't let it bother you. Unless you guys are having problems I don't see why it would matter.


On the surface it doesn't bother me. It's as generic as "how bout that weather" small talk for us. The part that bothers me is the reaction when we say we don't want kids. It's like I just took a shite right where we stand.

Why is it so appalling?
This post was edited on 12/26/17 at 2:04 pm
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
65559 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:03 pm to

Do your job, Jr. Time to trade that 280ZX in for an SUV.
Posted by BloodSweat&Beers
One Particular Harbor, Fl
Member since Jan 2012
9153 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:03 pm to
I have kids but I am not going to tell another adult how to live.

Jump the conversation with parenting advice. Tell them they need to home school Johnny or Jane looks like she will be prego by 14 if they don't watch out.
This post was edited on 12/26/17 at 2:04 pm
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83510 posts
Posted on 12/26/17 at 2:04 pm to
“When are you going to find a good girl?”

“When are you going to marry that girl?”

“When are y’all going to have kids?”

“When are y’all going to have another kid? Little Bobby needs a baby brother/sister”

“Y’all need to have another kid. 3 is a lucky number!”

It never ends so stop letting it bother you.
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