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re: Beef with girlfriend. Curious to hear from both genders about who's right/wrong.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 12:13 am to Ernest T Bass
Posted on 7/30/23 at 12:13 am to Ernest T Bass
quote:complete and total bullshite. He has weeks to find a movers. He may not get his first choice but to say he can’t find movers is just a lie
For the millionth time.
He was planning on hiring a mover. He can afford to hire a mover. HE CAN'T FIND A MOVER THAT IS AVAILABLE THAT WEEKEND !
What city is this in? Let us prove how full of bs he is
This post was edited on 7/30/23 at 12:32 am
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Posted on 7/30/23 at 12:26 am to Ernest T Bass
Why can't you do both?
Posted on 7/30/23 at 12:39 am to Ernest T Bass
Just remember, if you skip the party. Women never forget. But its better to call her bluff now and find out if you have any pull. If not then end it now before its too late
Posted on 7/30/23 at 1:28 am to Pelican fan99
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What city is this in? Let us prove how full of bs he is
Seems like a lot of work.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 1:36 am to Ernest T Bass
I have to side with her.
You generally side with the gf. I'm not saying kiss her butt or anything like that but she is expecting you to be there for her. Instead, you are going to help out a buddy of yours move.
I get it. You want to be there for your friend but you also want to be there for her. When you side with helping your buddy instead of her, she'll get ticked.
It's not "just" a birthday party. It's something she expected you to be there for.
I get it's confusing and sometimes doesn't make sense but it's how it is.
Oh dear.....
No fun for you for a while.
You generally side with the gf. I'm not saying kiss her butt or anything like that but she is expecting you to be there for her. Instead, you are going to help out a buddy of yours move.
I get it. You want to be there for your friend but you also want to be there for her. When you side with helping your buddy instead of her, she'll get ticked.
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it's just a birthday party.
It's not "just" a birthday party. It's something she expected you to be there for.
I get it's confusing and sometimes doesn't make sense but it's how it is.
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I told her that I could understand if her mother was dying in the hospital with 72 hours to live
Oh dear.....
No fun for you for a while.
This post was edited on 7/30/23 at 1:49 am
Posted on 7/30/23 at 1:46 am to la_birdman
Girl friend always right. You are wrong. Period.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 1:59 am to Ernest T Bass
You’re getting a bunch of horrible advice in here.
It’s a stupid birthday party. You’re not kids anymore. And it’s not even her birthday, it’s her sister’s. Your girl needs to get over it.
It’s a stupid birthday party. You’re not kids anymore. And it’s not even her birthday, it’s her sister’s. Your girl needs to get over it.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 2:12 am to OKBoomerSooner
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Your girl needs to get over it.
How old are you? Really asking.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 3:40 am to LRB1967
A reasonable response? I’d say we’d get along
Posted on 7/30/23 at 4:14 am to Ernest T Bass
At first I thought that said “beef in girlfriend” with these cataracts acting up. So I was like “this is where I parked my car, guys.” But then I saw the with part and then was like “forget this doggone bullshite, I’m out.”
Posted on 7/30/23 at 4:51 am to Ernest T Bass
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HE CAN'T FIND A MOVER THAT IS AVAILABLE THAT WEEKEND !
I just moved yesterday. I had a friend and family help me move all the big stuff. When I rented the truck, they referred me to dozens of moving services that offered labor. Outside of the Uhaul property, there were day laborers that I could have paid cash.
I'm pretty sure there are people if you really look hard enough.
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Pretty interesting the differing opinions on this.
No wonder married people fight so much.
It's cause you are so vague about details. I still don't understand the timing and why you couldn't do both. Are they both planned for a whole day or at exactly at the same time?
Posted on 7/30/23 at 5:34 am to OKBoomerSooner
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You’re getting a bunch of horrible advice in here.
It’s a stupid birthday party. You’re not kids anymore. And it’s not even her birthday, it’s her sister’s. Your girl needs to get over it.
No kidding. I'm a little shocked at the trembling before a girlfriend. Not very Baw of them. There's more vagina in this thread than a sorority rush.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 5:47 am to Ernest T Bass
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I was supposed to attend her sisters birthday party in a few weeks.
Its a girlfriend, not a wife. Do what you want.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 6:05 am to Ernest T Bass
Choice one:
- help a long term friend with his problem. Put your blood, sweat, and tears into SERVING your fellow man and showing him what it means to be there for him.
Choice two:
- go with a girl, that you are not married to, to a party to celebrate her sister. To “socialize” with a group of people who don’t even care if you are there or not.
Fun fact: I established with my wife (when we got married) that my family will never care if she is there for a family event. They love her, but not in the way they love me and their grandchildren. I told her, whether she believed it or not, her family felt the same way. Now, that does not mean that we don’t make effort to go to visit with the extended family - we actually do it 95% of the time. But no one “gets their feelings hurt” if the other spouse has better options.
A few years back, my wife’s best friend since high school had a daughter getting married on the day of Auburn vs LSU (in Baton Rouge). I went to the game. The only text I got from her was “Send me a picture with a drunk LSU fan you are with so I can make it my phone wallpaper. I want to quickly explain where you are when people ask.” I was hanging at a tailgate (LSU fans are always the best) and asked the guys hosting it to snap a photo. It ended up being me and my buddy in Auburn gear - surrounded by at least 20 LSU fans. My wife loved it.
Summary version: Establish healthy boundaries now. Try to spend as much time together and become best friends and hopefully marriage partners. But you won’t get there with guilt and hurt feelings.
(All of the above is wrong if she is really hot and the sex is great)
- help a long term friend with his problem. Put your blood, sweat, and tears into SERVING your fellow man and showing him what it means to be there for him.
Choice two:
- go with a girl, that you are not married to, to a party to celebrate her sister. To “socialize” with a group of people who don’t even care if you are there or not.
Fun fact: I established with my wife (when we got married) that my family will never care if she is there for a family event. They love her, but not in the way they love me and their grandchildren. I told her, whether she believed it or not, her family felt the same way. Now, that does not mean that we don’t make effort to go to visit with the extended family - we actually do it 95% of the time. But no one “gets their feelings hurt” if the other spouse has better options.
A few years back, my wife’s best friend since high school had a daughter getting married on the day of Auburn vs LSU (in Baton Rouge). I went to the game. The only text I got from her was “Send me a picture with a drunk LSU fan you are with so I can make it my phone wallpaper. I want to quickly explain where you are when people ask.” I was hanging at a tailgate (LSU fans are always the best) and asked the guys hosting it to snap a photo. It ended up being me and my buddy in Auburn gear - surrounded by at least 20 LSU fans. My wife loved it.
Summary version: Establish healthy boundaries now. Try to spend as much time together and become best friends and hopefully marriage partners. But you won’t get there with guilt and hurt feelings.
(All of the above is wrong if she is really hot and the sex is great)
Posted on 7/30/23 at 6:20 am to Ernest T Bass
Can’t help your friend another day? He’s got 7 days, he can do it earlier. You had a prior commitment. Your gf is in the right baw
Easy, fair rule is prior commitments win out except in cases of serious urgency/emergency
Easy, fair rule is prior commitments win out except in cases of serious urgency/emergency
This post was edited on 7/30/23 at 6:28 am
Posted on 7/30/23 at 6:51 am to Ernest T Bass
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I'll help as much as I can and then go to party.
This was always the answer. Your friend can’t possibly have that much shite if he’s a 24 year old single man.
I could have moved myself at 24 in a couple hours.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 6:56 am to OKBoomerSooner
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It’s a stupid birthday party. You’re not kids anymore. And it’s not even her birthday, it’s her sister’s.
Exactly. Shes overreacting.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 7:02 am to Ernest T Bass
Bros before hoes. The older I get the truer this is. Chances are in 10 years she will not be a part of your life and your buddy will.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 7:28 am to MRTigerFan
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Bros before hoes.
My wife ran off with my best friend.
After ten years I still miss him.
Posted on 7/30/23 at 7:34 am to Ernest T Bass
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her thinking that she bullied me into it.
You’ve got a lot to learn. You treat your woman right and she will take care of so many needs you have. Act like the fakers and losers on her and you will be stacking beer cans into your 40’s. Trust me, I lived out the bro’s before ho’s and it isn’t worth it. You promised, she made plans and now she has to adjust her plans so you are not being fair to your girl
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