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At what age can a kid handle staying home alone for a little while?

Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:13 am
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21079 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:13 am
I can remember being around 7 when my mother would run to the grocery and leave me at home.

I just read an article saying that 12 should be the youngest, but that seems really old and over-protective.
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161246 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:14 am to
Kids now are fragile, so 22-23
Posted by BestBanker
Member since Nov 2011
19724 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:15 am to
It's apparent that you should never separate children from their parents ever. (See the poli-board.)
Posted by Open Dore Policy
The Commodore State
Member since Oct 2012
5451 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:15 am to
Our 10 year old could probably do well on her own, but we couldn't trust her to watch her younger siblings.
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
86725 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:15 am to
completely dependent on the kid, but 9 or 10 seems like a good average age

kids have access to cell phones these days, so it's not like they are completely out of contact
Posted by csorre1
Member since Apr 2010
7329 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:16 am to
I think 12 would probably be the new norm. I remember being a little younger than that.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37536 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:17 am to
10-12 would be a good estimate.
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10951 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:19 am to
The law says you gotta be older than 10 right? I got off the bus in 1st grade with a key and watched cartoons till my parents got home.
Posted by fishfighter
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Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:19 am to
All depends on the child. Some at 8-9 and others at 20-21.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:19 am to
I was CPR certified and baby sitting (for families with babies under 1) at 12 years old fwiw.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
104459 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:20 am to
Pretty sure I was 11 (start of 6th grade) when my parents let me go home from school every day without them.

I have two younger siblings, so don't remember them leaving all three of us home along before then.

Posted by Jimbeaux28
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2007
4087 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:20 am to
Depends on the kid.

I would leave my 8 year old alone before I would even think about leaving my 10 year old to himself.
Posted by SeeeeK
some where
Member since Sep 2012
30763 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:22 am to
I begged my parents to leave me home in my 10-11 aged years.


But honestly, here is how you should think about it:

1. At what age, can i leave my child alone, something happens, and i'm not arrested for child endangerment. Because that is how it plays out these days, especially with the pc laws.
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
56166 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:24 am to
Well we know that is one 30 year-old man out there that never stayed home alone.
Posted by Bazzatcha
Member since May 2017
979 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:24 am to
Age is just a number. If you believe your kid is mentally ready, start it off slow by leaving them inside while you go for a walk/jog around the block and then work it up from there. I think the main thing is to not make it such a big deal because if the kid views you being gone as a big deal, they will probably go bat sh$t crazy, however if you being gone is no big deal, they will just stay focused on their ipad/tv show or legos while you are gone.
Posted by ItNeverRains
Offugeaux
Member since Oct 2007
28166 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:35 am to
I'd say 10-13 depending on the kid. Just don't tell facebook how you're finally trusting your oldest to stay home by themselves tonight while you go out like my dumb arse sister in law did.
Posted by Modern
Fiddy Men
Member since May 2011
17025 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 8:44 am to
I got my key to the house and started staying home with my sister when I was 10 and my sister was 6.

We had family that lived 3 houses down, Incase something happened.

We made it a lot of summers with those cheap $1 frozen pizzas and patio frozen burritos.
This post was edited on 6/18/18 at 8:44 am
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 9:12 am to
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Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
30471 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 9:22 am to
I started testing mine at 8, I'd leave him for an hour or so when I went shopping.

He'd still be sitting in the same place usually when I returned. Playing the PS4.

He started staying home alone all day, if there was a school holiday that we didn't get off for, at age 9. He had a cell phone and we called every hour.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43534 posts
Posted on 6/18/18 at 9:24 am to
If you were born in the 1980's or earlier, you were definitely a latch-key kid.
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