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Any OT Parents Refuse to Let Your Kids Celebrate Santa?
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:23 am
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:23 am
Seen this from some parents I know. Here's an article that was posted on Facebook (I know, I know) yesterday.
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There's a lot of easy pickings in that article, so I'll leave that up to you to discuss if you want. I don't see anything wrong with celebrating or "believing in" or including Santa Claus in your holiday traditions.
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We’ve been asked by several friends this year whether or not we “do Santa” – and the answer is we do not. In a nutshell, here’s why:
We LOVE Jesus. We want to celebrate Him. We want to honor Him. And teach our kiddos the true meaning of Christmas. It’s all about Jesus’ birth. Receiving the GREATEST GIFT EVER. And in our society, Santa has stolen the spotlight. Santa is on our Christmas cards, he’s in our public schools, he’s in the mall, he’s on the TV, and he’s in the Christmas music. News flash: Christmas is NOT about Santa. Not about gifts. Not about hyper-commercialism. We want our kiddos to appreciate that Jesus’ birth alone is the BEST GIFT we could ever hope to receive. And we still have tons of fun. We fellowship with friends and family. And we give gifts because we love each other. Our kids just know that their gifts come from their parents, grandparents and aunts and uncles.
We want to be HONEST with our kids. We emphasize that we want them to always tell us the truth. And it would be hypocritical of us to tell them that Santa is real when he is not. We want our kiddos to know that when they come to us and ask us about anything – that we will tell them the truth. The original sin was Satan subverting the truth. He deceived Eve. He pointedly questioned God’s motives and he lies and tells Eve that if she eats of the fruit of the tree she will not die. But the truth – as God had already told her – was that she would die if she ate the fruit. Satan is the father of lies (John 8:44). If I were to tell my children Santa is real, that’s a lie. I just don’t want to do it.
Society has created Santa to be this Jesus-like person. He is able to visit every home in one night (omnipresent) and he knows whether you’ve been naughty or nice (omniscient). We actually had someone tell our children to pray to Santa about what they want for Christmas. I just about fell out of my chair when she said it. Pray to Santa?! Can you imagine how Jesus must feel when His beloved creation says things like that? It is HIS birthday. HE is REAL. HE answers prayers. Santa is not real. Can’t answer prayers anymore than he can hear them.
Finally, the idea of Santa comes with the underlying premise that if you’re NAUGHTY, you won’t receive gifts, but if you’re NICE, you will find gifts under your tree. Santa gives gifts based upon behavior. It teaches our children that if they are good enough then they can earn their way into Santa’s good graces. That is the diametric opposite of what Jesus teaches. Jesus tells us we can’t earn anything. We cannot ever be good enough to earn salvation. It is by GRACE that we receive salvation because Jesus died for us. He did everything that needed to be done. According to God’s Word, WE are ALL NAUGHTY (unrighteous) but Jesus still gives us the best gift ever because HE is GOOD.
So, what do we do?
We equip our kiddos for the world they live in. We’ve told them all about St. Nick. All about Santa. And that he is just like Ariel or Minnie Mouse. He is a fun character, but he’s not real. We watch some movies with Santa in them, but my kiddos know that he is just a character – that he doesn’t really come down our chimney or visit our house.
There's a lot of easy pickings in that article, so I'll leave that up to you to discuss if you want. I don't see anything wrong with celebrating or "believing in" or including Santa Claus in your holiday traditions.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:25 am to StringedInstruments
I grew up without Santa. Dad didn't want Santa to overshadow Jesus during Christmas. I turned out fine.
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Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:29 am to StringedInstruments
If my kids are going to celebrate a mythical being on Christmas, it's going to be Jesus.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:32 am to StringedInstruments
Jesus doesn't have a sleigh or reindeer so he can take a back seat for the holiday season.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:33 am to StringedInstruments
One of my best friends from HS does this with their girls. They're full on hippies, he's got dreadlocks and everything. They've got 3 little girls now, oldest is 4. This came up a year or two ago when we were talking about Elf on a Shelf and we all agreed it was stupid. They took a step further though and said "We won't even do Santa. We already told her Santa isn't real." (oldest was 2 or 3 at the time). "I just think it's sick how kids lie to their children about some magic guy who watches them all the time."
I thought it was a little much. Just because you don't want to lie and tell your kids Santa is real doesn't mean you can still have fun with the idea while they're little.
I thought it was a little much. Just because you don't want to lie and tell your kids Santa is real doesn't mean you can still have fun with the idea while they're little.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:34 am to StringedInstruments
Some people are no fun.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:39 am to StringedInstruments
Lot of shitty parents in this thread and in that article.
You can keep Jesus in the season and still have fun with Santa.
You can keep Jesus in the season and still have fun with Santa.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:40 am to StringedInstruments
I couldn't get past how many times that douche parent kept saying "kiddos" smh
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:40 am to TulaneUVA
I have raised three children (now adults) without celebrating Santa (I used the same he is a character like mickey mouse route). The children are fine with it and expressed that they would like to do the same with their children. We still did wake up to a tree full of surprise gifts but they did not think Santa snuck into the house to leave them.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:41 am to StringedInstruments
God those people are the worst.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:42 am to StringedInstruments
The article you posted will be derided by many on here but there is a lot of merit to it.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:47 am to StringedInstruments
All I got out of that was those parents are too dumb to teach 2 things at once. My 2 year old knows that Christmas is about the birth of Jesus and what that means. She also is pumped up about Santa. Its really not that difficult to teach the true meaning while it still being fun for kids.
Cliffnotes: Dumb parents are dumb and no fun.
Cliffnotes: Dumb parents are dumb and no fun.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:48 am to StringedInstruments
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We want to be HONEST with our kids
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It is HIS birthday. HE is REAL.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:50 am to Helo
If people feel guilty then they should go volunteer somewhere. Plenty of organizations need assistance this time of year.
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Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:51 am to StringedInstruments
We had a kid in our neighborhood whose parents did this. Our parents just explained that Santa skipped his house because he had done something horrible that nobody could speak of. We all tried to keep our distance from him, he turned out pretty fricked up.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:52 am to StringedInstruments
Well if you Jesus freaks want to truly represent the holiday season then celebrate Christmas in July. The event in December is not truly the birth of Christ, only moved to December to conincide with the Winter Solstice to allow for an easier transition from Paganism to Christianity. So whatever your doing in December, the only Jesus birthday your celebrating is probably some Mexican kid. Ahhhhh the delicious hypocrisy of zealots.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:55 am to Helo
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Lot of shitty parents in this thread and in that article.
You can keep Jesus in the season and still have fun with Santa.
I agree with this. I wouldn't call them shitty parents, but I would call them wet blankets. There is no harm in kids believing in Santa while they are small. Like church/jesus etc... let them figure it out on their own. You can influence only so far, once they are old enough to decide on their own it's fine. I don't understand why some parents are in such a rush to spoil all the "myths" for their kids.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:56 am to StringedInstruments
Its not too hard to celebrate Christmas and include both Jesus and Santa for this kids. Dont think Jesus gets jealous of a man who gave of himself. Jesus loves the kids.
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:59 am to StringedInstruments
Using religion as a reason to not teach your kids about Santa is hypocritical. The story of Santa or St. Nicholas is a story about giving to others during the holiday season.
What a horrible thing to teach your children? How dare some parents teach their kids that giving is important?! What a loon?
What a horrible thing to teach your children? How dare some parents teach their kids that giving is important?! What a loon?
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