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Any OT Parents Refuse to Let Your Kids Celebrate Santa?

Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:23 am
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21082 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:23 am
Seen this from some parents I know. Here's an article that was posted on Facebook (I know, I know) yesterday.

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We’ve been asked by several friends this year whether or not we “do Santa” – and the answer is we do not. In a nutshell, here’s why:

We LOVE Jesus. We want to celebrate Him. We want to honor Him. And teach our kiddos the true meaning of Christmas. It’s all about Jesus’ birth. Receiving the GREATEST GIFT EVER. And in our society, Santa has stolen the spotlight. Santa is on our Christmas cards, he’s in our public schools, he’s in the mall, he’s on the TV, and he’s in the Christmas music. News flash: Christmas is NOT about Santa. Not about gifts. Not about hyper-commercialism. We want our kiddos to appreciate that Jesus’ birth alone is the BEST GIFT we could ever hope to receive. And we still have tons of fun. We fellowship with friends and family. And we give gifts because we love each other. Our kids just know that their gifts come from their parents, grandparents and aunts and uncles.

We want to be HONEST with our kids. We emphasize that we want them to always tell us the truth. And it would be hypocritical of us to tell them that Santa is real when he is not. We want our kiddos to know that when they come to us and ask us about anything – that we will tell them the truth. The original sin was Satan subverting the truth. He deceived Eve. He pointedly questioned God’s motives and he lies and tells Eve that if she eats of the fruit of the tree she will not die. But the truth – as God had already told her – was that she would die if she ate the fruit. Satan is the father of lies (John 8:44). If I were to tell my children Santa is real, that’s a lie. I just don’t want to do it.

Society has created Santa to be this Jesus-like person. He is able to visit every home in one night (omnipresent) and he knows whether you’ve been naughty or nice (omniscient). We actually had someone tell our children to pray to Santa about what they want for Christmas. I just about fell out of my chair when she said it. Pray to Santa?! Can you imagine how Jesus must feel when His beloved creation says things like that? It is HIS birthday. HE is REAL. HE answers prayers. Santa is not real. Can’t answer prayers anymore than he can hear them.

Finally, the idea of Santa comes with the underlying premise that if you’re NAUGHTY, you won’t receive gifts, but if you’re NICE, you will find gifts under your tree. Santa gives gifts based upon behavior. It teaches our children that if they are good enough then they can earn their way into Santa’s good graces. That is the diametric opposite of what Jesus teaches. Jesus tells us we can’t earn anything. We cannot ever be good enough to earn salvation. It is by GRACE that we receive salvation because Jesus died for us. He did everything that needed to be done. According to God’s Word, WE are ALL NAUGHTY (unrighteous) but Jesus still gives us the best gift ever because HE is GOOD.

So, what do we do?

We equip our kiddos for the world they live in. We’ve told them all about St. Nick. All about Santa. And that he is just like Ariel or Minnie Mouse. He is a fun character, but he’s not real. We watch some movies with Santa in them, but my kiddos know that he is just a character – that he doesn’t really come down our chimney or visit our house.


There's a lot of easy pickings in that article, so I'll leave that up to you to discuss if you want. I don't see anything wrong with celebrating or "believing in" or including Santa Claus in your holiday traditions.
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
26238 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:25 am to
I grew up without Santa. Dad didn't want Santa to overshadow Jesus during Christmas. I turned out fine.

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Posted by kilo1234
Member since May 2014
1431 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:29 am to
If my kids are going to celebrate a mythical being on Christmas, it's going to be Jesus.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
69243 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:32 am to
Jesus doesn't have a sleigh or reindeer so he can take a back seat for the holiday season.
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:33 am to
One of my best friends from HS does this with their girls. They're full on hippies, he's got dreadlocks and everything. They've got 3 little girls now, oldest is 4. This came up a year or two ago when we were talking about Elf on a Shelf and we all agreed it was stupid. They took a step further though and said "We won't even do Santa. We already told her Santa isn't real." (oldest was 2 or 3 at the time). "I just think it's sick how kids lie to their children about some magic guy who watches them all the time."

I thought it was a little much. Just because you don't want to lie and tell your kids Santa is real doesn't mean you can still have fun with the idea while they're little.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
53509 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:34 am to
Some people are no fun.
Posted by Helo
Orlando
Member since Nov 2004
4829 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:39 am to
Lot of shitty parents in this thread and in that article.

You can keep Jesus in the season and still have fun with Santa.
Posted by I Ham That I Ham
Oh Lord, it's hard to be humble
Member since Jan 2012
10773 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:40 am to
I couldn't get past how many times that douche parent kept saying "kiddos" smh
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56581 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:40 am to
I have raised three children (now adults) without celebrating Santa (I used the same he is a character like mickey mouse route). The children are fine with it and expressed that they would like to do the same with their children. We still did wake up to a tree full of surprise gifts but they did not think Santa snuck into the house to leave them.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135036 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:41 am to
God those people are the worst.
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:42 am to
No.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108745 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:42 am to
The article you posted will be derided by many on here but there is a lot of merit to it.
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:47 am to
All I got out of that was those parents are too dumb to teach 2 things at once. My 2 year old knows that Christmas is about the birth of Jesus and what that means. She also is pumped up about Santa. Its really not that difficult to teach the true meaning while it still being fun for kids.

Cliffnotes: Dumb parents are dumb and no fun.
Posted by monsterballads
Gulf of America
Member since Jun 2013
31547 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:48 am to
quote:

We want to be HONEST with our kids


quote:

It is HIS birthday. HE is REAL.


too funny.
Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
30970 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:50 am to
If people feel guilty then they should go volunteer somewhere. Plenty of organizations need assistance this time of year.
This post was edited on 12/21/15 at 7:52 am
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:51 am to
We had a kid in our neighborhood whose parents did this. Our parents just explained that Santa skipped his house because he had done something horrible that nobody could speak of. We all tried to keep our distance from him, he turned out pretty fricked up.
Posted by WalkingTurtles
Alexandria
Member since Jan 2013
5913 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:52 am to
Well if you Jesus freaks want to truly represent the holiday season then celebrate Christmas in July. The event in December is not truly the birth of Christ, only moved to December to conincide with the Winter Solstice to allow for an easier transition from Paganism to Christianity. So whatever your doing in December, the only Jesus birthday your celebrating is probably some Mexican kid. Ahhhhh the delicious hypocrisy of zealots.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42504 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:55 am to
quote:

Lot of shitty parents in this thread and in that article.

You can keep Jesus in the season and still have fun with Santa.


I agree with this. I wouldn't call them shitty parents, but I would call them wet blankets. There is no harm in kids believing in Santa while they are small. Like church/jesus etc... let them figure it out on their own. You can influence only so far, once they are old enough to decide on their own it's fine. I don't understand why some parents are in such a rush to spoil all the "myths" for their kids.
Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
12533 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:56 am to
Its not too hard to celebrate Christmas and include both Jesus and Santa for this kids. Dont think Jesus gets jealous of a man who gave of himself. Jesus loves the kids.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34334 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 7:59 am to
Using religion as a reason to not teach your kids about Santa is hypocritical. The story of Santa or St. Nicholas is a story about giving to others during the holiday season.

What a horrible thing to teach your children? How dare some parents teach their kids that giving is important?! What a loon?
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