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Our boss put out an email prohibiting sexist talk because someone was called "young lady"

Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:28 pm
Posted by toosleaux
Stuck in Baton Rouge traffic
Member since Dec 2007
9230 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:28 pm
We have a 71 year old man that is a consultant on certain cases. He literally said "thank you young lady" to her on the phone for getting his time entered, and apparently wasn't the first time he said it to her. She complained to the boss it was demeaning, she's a professional and expects to be treated as such. I mean really? "Young lady"?

Posted by biggsc
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Member since Mar 2009
34209 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

We have a 71 year old man that is a consultant on certain cases. He literally said "thank you young lady" to her on the phone for getting his time entered, and apparently wasn't the first time he said it to her. She complained to the boss it was demeaning, she's a professional and expects to be treated as such. I mean really? "Young lady"?


What kind of profession are you in?
This post was edited on 12/11/17 at 2:06 pm
Posted by YoungManOldMan
Member since Dec 2017
1882 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:30 pm to
I had one come complain that she didn't feel she was being treated like a professional because I ask any flex time make up be emailed in, as in when they plan to make up the time.

I told her to go find a new place to work then.
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
8539 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:32 pm to
She needs to be told to suck it up buttercup. These places need to stop catering to people like this who get offended by everything to receive attention.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30130 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:33 pm to
prime example why women will soon find there is no place for them in the workforce anymore, they have made themselves into the cause and prime example of a hostile work environment
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35528 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:34 pm to
Is she young compared to a 70 year old?

Is she a lady?

Case closed.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11261 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:35 pm to
Women like this are the reason valid issues are ignored. So fricking stupid.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18609 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:36 pm to
A chick yelled at me because I said “yes ma’am” several times because she thought that sounded sexual.

She wasn’t entirely wrong.

Southern accents can be hot.
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
20475 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:37 pm to
Years ago I was working at a place where a female co-worker had a complaint filed against them because she walked into the office one morning and said "Good morning, girls" to several other female co-workers. The lesbian SJW of the bunch was offended because she was a "woman" and not a "girl." It was pathetic. Nothing came of the complaint, but it did show everyone else in the office who to avoid like the plague.
Posted by Jor Jor The Dinosaur
Chicago, IL
Member since Nov 2014
6606 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:37 pm to
Give it a few years. She will consider being called young as a compliment of the highest order.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71736 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:37 pm to
Sounds like 1+1=2. This needs to stop.

Not the same situation, but its just as sad when you hold a door for a younger person and they don't say thank you.
This post was edited on 12/11/17 at 1:38 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129044 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:37 pm to
I would fricking be delighted if someone called me “young lady”


Seriously it would make my day. I would have thanked that sweet older gentleman and smiled to myself when I got off the phone.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19435 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:38 pm to
McDonald's ?

or

Burger King ?
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
85139 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:38 pm to
FWIW, it's plausible that "young lady" can be said in such a way that it's demeaning.

It's like calling a guy "buddy." The tone is everything.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69224 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:39 pm to
A lady called me "baby" today. I'm 37.
I'm triggered....
I'd be mad, but she offered me an Andygator...I settled for a coke..

Posted by vistajay
Member since Oct 2012
2513 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:40 pm to
This is how the HR conversation should have gone:

Employee: I am offended he called me young lady.

HR: Really? Well, did you tell him not to call you that?

Employee: Umm, no.

HR: Then why don't you do that, and let me know if you keep having a problem.
Posted by NorthGwinnettTiger
Member since Jun 2006
51849 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:40 pm to
I was told by the VP of HR to be mindful that saying "morning ladies" could be offensive, and that I should think about just sticking to "morning". Whatcha gonna do?
Posted by nvasil1
Hellinois
Member since Oct 2009
15930 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:40 pm to
quote:

She complained to the boss it was demeaning, she's a professional and expects to be treated as such.

So she's saying she's neither young or a lady? I guess trashy old hag would've been more acceptable.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83953 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:40 pm to
It's not sexist but it is condescending/patronizing and thus inappropriate.
This post was edited on 12/11/17 at 1:44 pm
Posted by fjlee90
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2016
7857 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:41 pm to
Sounds like you fellas need to give her a crash course to show her what actual sexist talk is like.

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