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Ideal age gap for a relationship if you want it to last

Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:54 pm
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38688 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 5:54 pm
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“The heart wants what to heart wants” and “age is just a number” are well-versed clichés – and you just can’t help who you fall head over heels for.


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According to a study conducted by Emory University in Atlanta, the bigger the difference, the bigger the chance of separation.


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After analyzing 3,000 people, it found that couples with a five-year age gap are 18 percent more likely to split up than those of the same age.


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Interestingly, that figure rose to 39 percent for couples with a 10-year age gap and a shocking 95 percent for those with a 20-year age gap.


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So, just how big is too big of an age difference?


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Contrary to popular belief, researchers believe that the sweet spot lies in just a one-year gap between spouses who have a much smaller chance of separation at just three percent.


Full Story - MSN

40/2+7=27 statistically doesn't work long-term, but short-term, it might feel superb.


Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
35299 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:01 pm to
Gotta get in a relationship before you can worry about keeping the relationship.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
49100 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:10 pm to
Because at some point the guy who was a decent looking 40 yr old is an old fart and the woman is still pretty young and attractive.

In all seriousness, I do think people who are generally in the same phase of life probably have an easier marriage. I realize there are tons of exceptions to any sort of stat like this.
Posted by TheArrogantCorndog
Highland Rd
Member since Sep 2009
14847 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:19 pm to
As an immature OT poster, I feel women 7-10 years my junior are perfect
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
1016 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:22 pm to
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percent more likely


Those numbers aren't raw probabilities.

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a shocking 95 percent for those with a 20-year age gap.


...doesn't mean 95% chance of separation. It means nearly double the chance of separation than couples of the same age.

Not a great stat, but doesn't mean you're 95% doomed.
Posted by Buds4
Unfortunately, Earth
Member since Oct 2022
158 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:23 pm to
10-15% if you are young. 25% if you are older than 35.
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
4391 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:28 pm to
I think no more than 7 years.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
18839 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:54 pm to
Is that first go round or second go round marriages?

Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
Member since Aug 2011
20711 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:55 pm to
Need a bit more information.



Just exactly how big is her ranch?


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Posted by Strannix
District 11
Member since Dec 2012
49158 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 6:58 pm to
Dont marry a whore and it goes down exponentially
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5152 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:00 pm to
There is only one gap that matters

Posted by North Dallas Tiger
United States of America
Member since Mar 2024
3316 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:01 pm to
I say about 10 years
Posted by Handsome Pete
Member since Apr 2019
1349 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:03 pm to
The woman should be half the man's age + 7 years. So says the honorable Elijah Muhammed - and if it's good enough for the Nation of Islam, it's good enough for me.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
34030 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:06 pm to
CAD, can I get your wife's number before y'all get divorced?
Posted by Lolathon234
Texas
Member since Oct 2022
276 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:41 pm to
Have to love made up statistics. They should have made it something more believable because given ~50% of all marriages end in seperation/divorce, that number being 3% is completely absurd. It's blatant things like this that make people start to realize the news isn't for reporting, it's real purpose is to push an agenda and mandate or modify public policy. And that leads to apathy and a loss of trust
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
1760 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 7:59 pm to
In my line of work i often see elderly couples who have been married for decades. Most are near the same age and met in high school or college, and come from similar backgrounds. The more similar 2 people are, the more likely it is to work long-term.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4540 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 8:07 pm to
I agree here with the stats. After about 4 years things start charging and before you know it you don’t know a rap artist pre 2004
Posted by chili pup
Member since Sep 2011
3179 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 8:08 pm to
Depends on your bank account.

Honestly. 10-12 years gap between the two?

Maybe less? Find someone that actually wants to be with you each day. If you feel like you can be with that person each day also, be honest with each other and live life together.

Actually no one knows how things actually turns out.
This post was edited on 4/22/24 at 8:12 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114216 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 8:13 pm to
Imagine being 20 years old and getting in a relationship with a 45 year old who is smoking hot.

But then when you are 35 she is 60, which might not be that bad, but then at 45 she is 70.. If she kicks the bucket at that age, then you can get yourself a girl who is 25ish.. and that might be the way to do this thing.
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14255 posts
Posted on 4/22/24 at 8:33 pm to
Once you're an older successful dude, it's cheaper to rent it.
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