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Do I pass my 4Runner on to my kids?

Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:39 am
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:39 am
I have a 2011 4Runner (SR5 4WD), purchased brand new. ~140k miles and will last until 400k miles easily I feel. I love it and really don't want to get a new vehicle, but have a dilemma.

I have three kids, two that will be driving soon. There is a possibility that they'll share a vehicle at first, but we're super busy, they're in all kinds of activities and it won't be long before getting them each a vehicle makes more sense.

Do I give one of them the 4Runner and buy something else for me and a cheaper vehicle for the other, keep the 4Runner and buy two cheaper vehicles- maybe a camry/rav4/cheaper tacoma (leaning towards this).

I could definitely use a truck, so wouldn't be against buying myself a Tacoma or Tundra, but financially that might not be the best decision. I can easily afford it but try not to live beyond our means when possible.

I'd be pretty upset if I handed down the 4Runner and they wreck it- and I know just about ever teen will have a minor accident at least.

Also how fricked am I in terms of insurance, car payments etc (assuming I don't buy outright).
This post was edited on 1/25/24 at 9:41 am
Posted by canyon
Member since Dec 2003
18493 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:41 am to
Highway_Man?
You should have the manual already written baw.

But seriously keep that for yourself and let the two oldest share a Honda Accord.
This post was edited on 1/25/24 at 9:42 am
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166500 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:42 am to
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I'd be pretty upset if I handed down the 4Runner and they wreck it-


It's a 13 year old vehicle. Jesus. Get over yourself.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
53121 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:43 am to
You should trade in that Chinese soyota and get your kids a real American vehicle like a Chevy
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:44 am to
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You should trade in that Chinese soyota and get your kids a real American vehicle like a Chevy


Like I had as a teen? That motherfricker would leave me stranded constantly. No thanks
Posted by AllsGroovn
Metairie, LA
Member since Jun 2005
1947 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:44 am to
No matter how responsible the kids are, they won't take care of it like you would. The most financial sense would be to get them a used car that gets good mileage with relatively low maintenance costs (if such a thing exists today).

No matter how good of a driver they are, it will get wrecked or damaged. It's going to happen.
Posted by YOURADHERE
Member since Dec 2006
8048 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:46 am to
Keep it and let one of them drive it. Pre-update 5th Gens aren't really worth a whole bunch, plus it's super reliable so assuming it's cared for will last one of them quite a while.
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
483 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:46 am to
What's the wife drive? Maybe pass down both her vehicle and the 4Runner and you both get a new vehicle. Def makes life a little easier when the kids become mobile.
Posted by XenScott
Pensacola
Member since Oct 2016
3168 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:47 am to
When you put a teenager on your insurance your jaw will drop.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
291 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:48 am to
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What's the wife drive? Maybe pass down both her vehicle and the 4Runner and you both get a new vehicle. Def makes life a little easier when the kids become mobile.


Lexus GX460. Too nice for a teenager.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39062 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:48 am to
I didn’t want my son to have a vehicle loaded down with friends, so I bought him a GR86. Can barely fit one other normal sized human in there…perfect.
Posted by sosaysmorvant
River Parishes, LA
Member since Feb 2008
1317 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:50 am to
No brainer. Keep it
Posted by MrWhipple
West of the Mississippi
Member since Jun 2016
703 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:51 am to
You should consider where/if they are going to college in this decision. You are only 3-5 years away from them potentially leaving the house.

I have 3 kids. I bought a high mileage beater for their high school days. This was shared and handed down as each went off to college. I purchased a better used car for them to take to college. I sold the beater when the last one graduated HS.
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
9296 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:53 am to
I am in this exact same dilemma. mine are spaced 4 years apart (range from 13 yr old to 5 yr old) and i just bought a new to me '21 tacoma with the plan of handing it over in 3 years, but im already deciding to keep the tacoma and find a much cheaper one to pass to them.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
15254 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:54 am to
Chances are that vehicle won't come close to seeing 400K miles if you pass it on to teenagers.
Posted by TopWaterTiger
Lake Charles, LA
Member since May 2006
10224 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:56 am to
quote:

Do I give one of them the 4Runner and buy something else for me and a cheaper vehicle for the other, keep the 4Runner and buy two cheaper vehicles- maybe a camry/rav4/cheaper tacoma (leaning towards this).


There's no right answer here. I mean you'll have to buy something, so the cost vs. the risk ratio is up to you and your budget.

I'm not sure if you've priced anything lately but all cars are severely over inflated.

At the end of the day, you currently have a 13 year old vehicle that is paid off. I'd prob pass that one down the line to one of the kids and get myself something newer.
Posted by Thundercles
Mars
Member since Sep 2010
5113 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:56 am to
Buy a reliable used for the kids. Make em share at first. People hating on you here must not know the joy of having an old car still running after a decade with several more years in front of you.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166500 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:56 am to
quote:

Chances are that vehicle won't come close to seeing 400K


He's averaging 11,200 miles a year right now.

For him to get to 400k that's nearly 36 years.

That's like someone driving a 1988 vehicle right now as a full time car.
Posted by WhiskeyThrottle
Weatherford Tx
Member since Nov 2017
5350 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:58 am to
It's a vehicle that is a depreciating asset. Don't get too attached to it. What is the current market value of the 4Runner and what is the market value of something you would get them. If you need a truck, I'd get a truck and let the kids drive the 4Runner. Personally, I'd get a Tundra over the Taco. The Tundra gets roughly the same mileage that I've seen as the Tacoma, and all you're giving up is towing capacity you may or may not need in the future.
Posted by dewster
Chicago
Member since Aug 2006
25395 posts
Posted on 1/25/24 at 9:59 am to
I’d find a used vehicle with a manual transmission for your kids first ride. Not a sports car though.
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