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re: True Story from a Lady I work with about her Liberal son

Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:54 am to
Posted by Mahootney
Lovin' My German Footprint
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Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:54 am to
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Actually, they scoff at their elder peers and mock them.
Gen Z is my spirit animal.
Posted by Vood
Member since Dec 2007
8596 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:54 am to
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So he went to college or not?


He attended but did not get a degree. I should have said he did not graduate initial and that is what I meant by no education.
This post was edited on 6/25/20 at 9:56 am
Posted by Screaming Viking
Member since Jul 2013
5713 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:54 am to
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Feel zero sympathy for weak minded people.


true. and if this kid is attempting suicide (which is incomprehensible as a parent) then you can add quitter to his list of attributes.
Posted by La Place Mike
West Florida Republic
Member since Jan 2004
31384 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:55 am to
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If you care to share that info with us, and it's OK if you don't, may I ask: Which denomination of Christianity do you recommend? Can you tell us why?


I know this wasn't directed to me but there are a lot of denominations to choose from. So no need to recommend a particular one. The son in the OP can find his own path to Jesus.
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
22751 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:56 am to
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He moved to a very liberal state and continued down this path


Can you tell us what this means? Sometimes moving to a liberal state will make you rich, depending on what you do and the city you are in.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
55449 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:57 am to
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There is anxiety/ depression in this generation like never before. Social media and an ideologically- possessed culture has made them narcissistic , alienated and resentful.

Never being told "No!" or getting their arse whipped is what has made them this way.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
25666 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:57 am to
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She does admit her part in all of this. They didn't do all they could early on to help him realize that what he wasnt doing was real life.




If you have to make them go realize that you already started slipping. My parents never had to sit me down and tell me to not be a dumb, weak, little pussy.
Posted by SEC2789
Member since Jun 2013
234 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:01 am to
My husband is a teacher and they still have helicopter parents but the new term out there is "bulldozer" parents. So basically the parents never let their kids struggle or have to deal with anything. What you have are a bunch of college graduates who cannot function in the real world who have no idea how to problem solve, balance a budget, and zero conflict resolution skills. Tack on the very materialistic and instant gratification society we live in and this is a recipe for disaster.
Posted by Themole
Palatka Florida
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:01 am to
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This post was edited on 6/25/20 at 10:04 am
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
10278 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:05 am to
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He is now hoping to enroll in a local trade school to become a plumber.


We'd frankly be better off if we pushed more of our own kids in this direction. I've never met a plumber or stonemason or welder that tore down a statue. And they'll end up making more money than a lot of people with four year degrees in *insert bullshite major here* that spend their lives in cubicles filing TPS reports.
Posted by Bass Tiger
Member since Oct 2014
55729 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:08 am to
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quote: The generation coming after this CHAZ/CHOP will be notably stronger and more conservative than this one. Actually, they scoff at their elder peers and mock them.

This. Conservatives will be pleasantly surprised at how capitalistic the current HS/college crop is. They may not be as socially conservative, but they are completely opposite of the Marxists of the past 10-15 years.


The erosion and degradation of societal morals and standards is what has lead us to this moment.....you can think about that.
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
22751 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:08 am to
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Sorry to break it to y’all, but raising a son with balls and a backbone starts young. You can’t wait until college years.



A lot of recent science shows that personality is about 40-60% heritable and the rest is learned/instilled. If you have a kid that is naturally predisposed to be timid/weak/lazy, it is incumbent upon you as a parent to do everything you can to mitigate that natural predilection for destructive behaviors. Personally, I believe that those traits can be identified fairly early in life. College age is far too late; any profound change at older ages is going to have to come from within.

The worst cases are kids who are born with awfully destructive personalities that cannot be tamed despite great parenting. It's rare, but it happens. It's one of my worst nightmares.
This post was edited on 6/25/20 at 10:16 am
Posted by WildManGoose
Member since Nov 2005
4607 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:09 am to
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He went to a SEC college out of high school, got caught up in the liberal agenda
You could just say Missouri.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64356 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:14 am to
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My husband is a teacher and they still have helicopter parents but the new term out there is "bulldozer" parents. So basically the parents never let their kids struggle or have to deal with anything. What you have are a bunch of college graduates who cannot function in the real world who have no idea how to problem solve, balance a budget, and zero conflict resolution skills. Tack on the very materialistic and instant gratification society we live in and this is a recipe for disaster.



Yep. Weve become a society that believes anything that makes us uncomfortable is a great evil and must be purged from existence because many were taught that any discomfort was not to be tolerated.


Stress is healthy, too much stress is unhealthy. We live in a country where people want to remove all stress period.
Posted by FooManChoo
Member since Dec 2012
46845 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:14 am to
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If you care to share that info with us, and it's OK if you don't, may I ask: Which denomination of Christianity do you recommend? Can you tell us why?
Personally, I subscribe to the Reformed tradition of Protestant Christianity (PCA, OPC, CRC, RPCNA, ARBCA, among many others) as I believe it is most faithful to the scriptures, but what is most important is salvation in Christ by faith, so any church or denomination that preaches the message of Christ's atoning work for sinners by faith is what all need, first and foremost.

I'd recommend starting with a confessional denomination/church that adheres to a confession of faith like Westminster or the London Baptist. Confessional churches tend to be more theologically conservative and less likely to change their theology in light of social unrest or public opinion.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
59216 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:16 am to
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He is now hoping to enroll in a local trade school to become a plumber.


If he becomes good at his trade and gets licensed, he'll make enough money to test out whether he's really changed or not. Money doesn't change people, it merely unmasks them.
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
32831 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:17 am to
What liberal thing was he chasing? Playing video games?
Posted by Taxing Authority
Houston
Member since Feb 2010
63304 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:19 am to
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should've went for welding. ...no i'm not a welder

Well, if you've ever worked welders you'd know they are a prickly bunch that are hard on newbies. It's not a bad thing. It's part of the process of learning to do something difficult. Not sure this kid has the chops to survive the hazing and process.
This post was edited on 6/25/20 at 10:19 am
Posted by bluedragon
Birmingham
Member since May 2020
9536 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:23 am to
So she is going to foot the Trade School bill ?

Take his butt down to the local Government Office that handles Job Corps registrations. Let the government house, feed, educate and place him on graduation.

It's time he moves out from behind Mommy's skirt.
Posted by Mahootney
Lovin' My German Footprint
Member since Sep 2008
12156 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:23 am to
Trying to find the text groups of the roasts. They are epic.
This post was edited on 6/25/20 at 10:25 am
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