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re: Your loser drunk, father of four, brother in law

Posted on 1/7/20 at 9:12 pm to
Posted by Jenar Boy
Elsewhere
Member since Aug 2013
14286 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 9:12 pm to
Take them in dude, they’re your family for fricks sake.
Posted by BigB0882
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2014
5422 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 9:12 pm to
No way could I possibly allow my nieces and nephews to be put into the system. I know 4 kids is a lot but I’d make it work until something could be figured out.

I’m honestly disgusted you have to even ask.
This post was edited on 1/7/20 at 9:13 pm
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
26338 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 9:33 pm to
Take them in. Why is this even a question?
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
58834 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:14 pm to
Your blood is your blood.
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:20 pm to
quote:

Your loser drunk, father of four, brother in law



Are you ignoring your piece of shite sister's role in this?
Posted by El Magnifico
La casa de tu mamá
Member since Jan 2014
7017 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:29 pm to
If you want your nieces and nephews raped by pedophiles go ahead and let CPS take them
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:34 pm to
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Depends on if they're quiet or not.


LOL. I don't think these children are from a CS Lewis novel.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42759 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:37 pm to
Take them in. Jesus man is this even a question?
Posted by Clark14
Earth
Member since Dec 2014
27162 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:43 pm to
A stable family for children is important and if you are family then they know you are FAMILY.

Take care of the kids.
Posted by 3morereps
The Gym
Member since Jun 2015
6735 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:48 pm to
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Are you ignoring your piece of shite sister's role in this?


It is actually my wife’s brother
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83168 posts
Posted on 1/7/20 at 10:51 pm to
Does your wife not have other siblings, able parents, aunts or uncles, etc to be able to help out and maybe swap out pairs of kids or something to ease the burden?

Obviously dont let them go to a home, but most people can’t accommodate 4 additional human beings in their home, in their vehicle, etc. Seems like child services would never ask just one sole person to take this on and would be seeking out shared arrangements.
Posted by CitizenK
BR
Member since Aug 2019
16509 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 12:10 am to
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take them in and start a band.


The Hansons

No fricking way
Posted by JJ27
Member since Sep 2004
62330 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 12:14 am to
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It is actually my wife’s brother



So they're not blood. Still, take them in and parlay that into getting whatever you want from your wife.
Posted by keks tadpole
Yellow Leaf Creek
Member since Feb 2017
8869 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 1:09 am to
Not your problem. Once they move in they aren’t moving out.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
17817 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 1:22 am to
Do whatever you can so they can avoid going into foster care.

4 is a lot to suddenly take on. Is there another responsible fanily member. Perhaps you could take 2 and they take 2?

The children would probably hate to split up like that but it sure beats the 4 of them splitting up to live with people who don't give a shite about them(foster system).
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
17248 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 1:32 am to
Take them in but lay down the law first. No "well, maybe they need adjustment time" bullshite. Your way is THE way. Your house is THE house. Your rules are THE rules. No exceptions, no negotiations. Don't be a dick, but dont give in to ANYTHING.

Being an anchor of support means more than a place to stay, and so does stability. You have to get on the same page with your old lady and kids, and then put those 4 on that page... then neither you or your old lady move an inch off that page. If you do, at least one or more of those kids will create hell in your house.

Be a rock, not a dick. Eventually they will appreciate it.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
179917 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 1:46 am to
Just take two in, choose the two destined for greatness and let the others endure the life their parents set course for them
Posted by Snipe
Member since Nov 2015
17180 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 5:40 am to
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Do you let child services put your nieces and nephew in a home or take them in,


The fact that you even ask this question is utterly ridiculous.
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 7:44 am to
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Your loser drunk, father of four, brother in law


quote:

Georgia fan


Checks out
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 1/8/20 at 7:45 am to
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Do you let child services put your nieces and nephew in a home or take them in, knowing it is for a minimum of 6 months?



How old are they? Can you find a place for them in your trailer?
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