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re: Would you ever marry, or even date, a woman that's had an abortion ?

Posted on 1/23/24 at 8:31 am to
Posted by dirtsandwich
AL
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Posted on 1/23/24 at 8:31 am to
Title should be who not that. Who has had…
Posted by mattfromnj
New Jersey
Member since Mar 2020
570 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 8:32 am to
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I wouldn't.

I could never trust a woman that was capable of murdering her own baby.
Wouldn't want to spend my life sleeping with one eye open & getting nervous whenever my drink/food tasted a little off.
Or wondering if she killed one of my unborn children and never even told me about it.


I wouldn't really want to but the problem is that by the time a girl is willing to admit to you that she had one (if she ever does, if you tell her you're opposed she may never tell you) it's likely you're already pretty far into the relationship. The abortion topic isn't really something you lead off with unless you're dating a crazy person or are a little out there yourself.

I think another follow up question to this is would you be willing to date/marry a woman who is pro-choice (or whatever your preferred name for it is)? Chances are you already have or are currently with that one.
Posted by YMCA
It's Fun to Stay
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Posted on 1/23/24 at 8:51 am to
More than likely the women that would run around promoting their abortion are probably women that no man in his right mind would date to begin with.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113978 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 8:52 am to
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If you’ve heard of Freakonomics, you know this one. In 1994, when the crime rate started to drop, a child born in 1973 was 21 — and a child who wasn’t born in 1973, because the mother got a newly legal abortion after Roe v. Wade, was one fewer 21-year-old in the population. It’s a very appealing argument to people who hate obvious answers. It’s also, interestingly, one of the few theories on this list with strong empirical support from other countries: Studies as far away as Romania have found the same effect.




I read Super Freakonomics awhile back, it pretty much explains how all the shite we are told about in terms of "global warming" is bullshite. Humans and all the shite we have created only make up 2% of the emissions, the rest is created naturally and in order for us to even put a dent in that 2% it would require every country to get on board, etc.. Otherwise, its all bullshite, but year crime, at one point, use to be worse than it is today, with a smaller population.
Posted by BhamBlazeDog
Birmingham
Member since Aug 2018
3769 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 8:53 am to
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Would you ever marry, or even date, a woman that's had an abortion ?



She killed a baby that she formed herself and that was a part of her. You think you're safe sleeping next to that every night?
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
7548 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 8:55 am to
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You would never know


Not till after you put that ring on her finger anyway. Women older than 28 will lie to get what they want (married/babies) when that biological clock starts ticking. They'll do some really shady shite.
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23626 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:06 am to
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Well said. For you, your conscience and your soul won’t let you abort. But why does everyone have to conform to your beliefs? As I said, I wouldn’t do it, but why should I force my beliefs on someone else and tell them they can’t.

Could you imagine the number of welfare dependent, growing up to be democrat voting babies born every day if abortion was illegal????

this man gets it... this is exactly what i feel as well
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23626 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:08 am to
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Typically it’s the ones that boast the most about their high moral standards and are most judgmental that are hiding the biggest secrets.

1000000000000000000000000%
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47514 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:12 am to
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1000000000000000000000000%


ChRxis have your pharmacy fill my prescription before anyone elses this week or next please. The shortage sucks. Thanks buddy.


On topic I'd marry a woman who's had an abortion. I'm pro-life personally but don't mind if someone else is pro-choice.
This post was edited on 1/23/24 at 9:14 am
Posted by TejasHorn
High Plains Driftin'
Member since Mar 2007
10956 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:19 am to
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More than likely the women that would run around promoting their abortion are probably women that no man in his right mind would date to begin with.


Has anyone met one of these women who ‘promote an abortion’? I haven’t and I live in a pretty progressive place relative to the rest of my state.

Most abortions happen with younger women and for a variety of reasons. I’ve never gotten the impression it’s like ‘birth control.’ More likely a result of a dumb decision, maybe drunk, etc. if not a medical or criminal issue.

Not saying it’s right, I would never want to be responsible for one, but a lot of people commenting here have assumed the pulpit.
This post was edited on 1/23/24 at 9:21 am
Posted by cdcleary
Member since Mar 2013
224 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:27 am to
Since you are making this pretty black and white, I'm guessing the woman in your scenario did it out of selfishness and not necessity?
Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
16580 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:30 am to
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Not saying it’s right, I would never want to be responsible for one, but a lot of people commenting here have assumed the pulpit.


Likely it's those who have committed some pretty immoral acts of their own.
Posted by Violent Hip Swivel
Member since Aug 2023
2596 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:31 am to
Internet virtue signaling and drive-by Christians are the best!
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68340 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:35 am to
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. In 1994, when the crime rate started to drop, a child born in 1973 was 21 — and a child who wasn’t born in 1973, because the mother got a newly legal abortion after Roe v. Wade, was one fewer 21-year-old in the population. It’s a very appealing argument to people who hate obvious answers
Why then is crime back up since 2014? 1994 was also the year the crime bill was passed. Now that that's looked at as a bad thing and sentencing is more lax, crime is rising.
This post was edited on 1/23/24 at 9:37 am
Posted by KiwiHead
Auckland, NZ
Member since Jul 2014
27601 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:38 am to
I suspect that lots of women have had abortions and they don't talk about it. My wife has a friend with 4 kids and had known her since 7th grade and one day tells me that the friend had an abortion senior year of high school. I was shocked because she is very "Catholic". Then my wife tells me I would be surprised at how many girls do have them.....most of them a one time thing. She said the girls she knew that had 2 or 3 you can guess because they tended to be more prone to divorce ( multiple) and a lot of them would screw around even after they were married
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61304 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 9:38 am to
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Most abortions happen with younger women and for a variety of reasons.



95%+ of all abortions are contraceptive.

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I’ve never gotten the impression it’s like ‘birth control



But that's exactly how it plays out in reality 95% of the time.


The loudest abortion supporters are college educated white women and most of them never get an abortion anyways. The entire abortion movement is a pop-culture oriented.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65762 posts
Posted on 1/23/24 at 10:46 am to
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Many posters saying they would never, actually have and don't know it. FACT.
True

Jimmy, stay in your lane.

You’re working Dwight Schrute’s side of the beet field.
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