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Posted on 10/27/21 at 8:58 am to WDE24
i mean, how will you know unless you try? Do you ask "hey can i stick my tongue in your mouth?"? Get it in writing? record the conversation?
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:00 am to MorbidTheClown
quote:Generations of non creeps have been navigating this territory successfully. It isn’t that hard. Maybe a little slower approach to allow the rejection before you are touching tongue to tonsil would be a better approach without having to get a notarized consent form.
i mean, how will you know unless you try? Do you ask "hey can i stick my tongue in your mouth?"? Get it in writing? record the conversation?
It’s not nearly as impossible as you pretend to keep your tongue out of someone else’s mouth that doesn’t want it there.
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Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:02 am to DoUrden
Ten
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Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:04 am to DoUrden
It would appear that Ive been sexually assaulted a few times in college bars almost 30 years ago
I am having feelings about this that are just now bubbling to the surface and now feel as though i may need some time away from my job to work through them
thank you for understanding
I am having feelings about this that are just now bubbling to the surface and now feel as though i may need some time away from my job to work through them
thank you for understanding
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:04 am to Centinel
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Was it the part where it happened over a decade ago, or the part where the Senator is not named?
If it was a Republican, she would not have held back who it was, and completely outed him.
For all we know, it could be Joe Biden.
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Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:05 am to WDE24
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Maybe a little slower approach
absolutely.
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It’s not nearly as impossible as you pretend to keep your tongue out of someone else’s mouth that doesn’t want it there.
fact.
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:06 am to DoUrden
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Abedin said she buried the incident in her memory until allegations of attempted sexual assault emerged against then-Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh in the fall of 2018.
She might have been able to sell this bullshite story if she had just left this part out. She got greedy.
Working for the wife of a sexual predator? No trigger.
A Republican gets nominated for SC? TRIGGERED
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:28 am to DoUrden
So, his weiner accidentally fell inside her?
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:40 am to Cosmo
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Shooters shoot
Yep.
Like the SNL sketch. The key to not sexually harassing, BE ATTRACTIVE.
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:44 am to WDE24
quote:not sure about a gay guy, but if you don't let a trans guy kiss you, you're a homophobe. they're women.
Assume a gay guy or transgendered person misread your signals and did the same. Is that ok?
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:44 am to Centinel
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You know how I know this was a Democrat Senator?
Was it the part where it happened over a decade ago, or the part where the Senator is not named?
its the part where abedin only worked in democrat circles her entire career.
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:47 am to DoUrden
That move is called “The Ted Kennedy”.
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Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:49 am to WDE24
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Assume a gay guy or transgendered person misread your signals and did the same. Is that ok?
No guy is getting close enough for that to happen.
I've gone in for a kiss before and got rejected without even making contact. It's not that difficult to pull back. Why did she not react?
Also, is this really that traumatic? Someone kissed you that you didn't want to kiss? Christ, get over it.
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:50 am to TheHarahanian
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That move is called “The Ted Kennedy”.
there was no bridge or car involved
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:51 am to MorbidTheClown
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there was no bridge or car involved
just wanted a little Kopechne on the cheek, baw
Posted on 10/27/21 at 9:59 am to WDE24
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Generations of non creeps have been navigating this territory successfully. It isn’t that hard. Maybe a little slower approach to allow the rejection before you are touching tongue to tonsil would be a better approach without having to get a notarized consent form.
Have they though?
Kissing women without any sign of consent only to have them shove a man away has been a trope in entertainment for decades until recently. And it was largely in a non-offensive context, even where it was a genuine rejection. It wasn't deemed problematic in any serious moral sense.
To be clear, I'm not advocating we go back to this. I just think "going for it" was socially acceptable for years and years before we decided it was now pseudo-criminal. Not all modern progress on sex is lefty nonsense, the shift from this is how it should be (within reason).
But, I do think when dealing with aged claims it's pretty relevant that the social/entertainment/etc. discourse from when those incidents occurred was likely very different. The reality is that our culture refuses to split hairs on things like this anymore, which ends up creating a stupid environment. If someone thought you were into them 20 years ago and tried to kiss you because they liked you, that's not immoral. If someone did the same thing and they were married and you were young and worked for them and they thought they could use you and discard you, different story.
But we're a society of overgrown children who are nonetheless really loud and convinced of ourselves, so those distinctions aren't possible.
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