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re: Would it bother you a M.D. requires you to call them "Doctor" outside of medical setting?

Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:01 am to
Posted by White Roach
Member since Apr 2009
9451 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:01 am to
I call my MDs Doctor. Older or younger, it's a sign of respect that I hope they've earned.

Had a fraternity brother who's father was an MD. At Homecoming or something with parents involved, someone called him Mr Smith and he corrected them. It seemed pretty stupid at the time, and remains stupid ~40 years later.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110703 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:13 am to
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Would it bother you a M.D. requires you to call them "Doctor" outside of medical setting?

Define "bother" because I would not do it but it would not bother me to not do it

quote:

For example at the dealership service dept they call for Jack Smith he corrects them as " It's Dr. Smith" dinner reservations are always Dr. Smith , etc.

Curious if this is acceptable as he has earned that that title or is it a bit pretentious?
No, it is in no way, shape, or form acceptable. He's a loser and could benefit from these people telling him they won't call him that. That's dumb.
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18144 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:15 am to
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Otherwise, most people outside the hospital who meet me don’t even know.



BOOM

Gotcha.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
66713 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:18 am to
i’ll be brief, i’m not likely to be friends with someone so easily offended as me not calling them a Doctor outside of a medical setting.
Posted by TheBaker
Prairieville
Member since Jan 2004
4305 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:21 am to
I absolutely LOVE the ones who, for instance, have a Doctorate in education and ABSOLUTELY INSIST on being called "Doctor".
Posted by hawgndodge
Member since Jun 2009
4740 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:32 am to
My MOTHER has a Doctorate in education... She sends her grandchildren their birthday and Christmas cards with the return address Dr.... And her name
Posted by alphaandomega
Tuscaloosa
Member since Aug 2012
13501 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:53 am to
I have a customer who has an honorary doctorate and he will ask people to call him Dr.

I make an effort to never call him by name. Just stuff like

Hello, sir! How are you today?

He is a yankee douche who came here from Duke university. Ill take his money but he will never have my respect.
Posted by NC_Tigah
Carolinas
Member since Sep 2003
123814 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 11:58 am to
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When people have demanded others call them Dr, it’s never sit well with me..
Posted by Bucket
Member since Feb 2011
74 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 12:30 pm to
On my son's soccer team, there were 2 players whose fathers were M.D.'s and one whose father was a nurse. I overheard the Doctors call the nurse a douche because he wore green scrubs at work so people would think he was a Doctor. I didn't realize the color of scrubs was a thing but the guy was a huge douchbag.
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
4865 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 12:41 pm to
he is being a pretentious prick.

this is coming form Dr. caro81
Posted by BigWillyMetry
Member since Dec 2021
1548 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 12:56 pm to
Their reimbursements keep going down and they hate that they took on so much debt - this all they have left.

Posted by This GUN for HIRE
Member since May 2022
2867 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 1:03 pm to
They’ve worked hard & earned it, I don’t have an issue calling them Dr out of respect, but someone who demands it seems like a douche nozzle.
Posted by FatBoy62
Arkansas
Member since May 2018
672 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 1:05 pm to
My wife’s grandpa was a doctor. He’s 89 and people that know him still call him “Doc” or Dr. Clark.
Posted by MsandLa
in the L.P.
Member since Jan 2009
7155 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 1:06 pm to
frick that. My wife is manager of a doctors office her best friend from college owns. When I go to office I say doctor. When we hang out, I says "what's up good looking ".
Posted by Palomitz
Miami
Member since Oct 2009
2206 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 2:17 pm to
It's just another shot to boost their stupid ego.

Posted by Ten Bears
Florida
Member since Oct 2018
3260 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 2:43 pm to
I like to make DRs thank me, and others who own businesses, for subsidizing their lifestyle.
This post was edited on 12/7/22 at 2:44 pm
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20367 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 2:58 pm to
I would laugh at my wife if she tried to require this. She is the complete opposite. She gets embarrassed if someone calls her doctor in public.
Posted by flyingtexastiger
Southlake, TX
Member since Oct 2005
1633 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 3:03 pm to
Totally unacceptable.

If I'm that service manager I'm telling him "OK, I'm sorry, must not be you. Is there a Mike Smith here? Mike Smith? Anyone??" Until he gives in and says "That's me."

Secondly, if someone ever tries to correct you that you need to address them as Dr, the best course is to fall over dying laughing, then look at them with a straight face "Oh shite, you were actually being serious!?! Yeah, that's not going to happen."
Posted by JPLSU1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2005
26238 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 3:09 pm to
Very tacky
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36324 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 3:09 pm to
I've only met one person like that, it was a lawyer who would always make people put the suffix "J.D." at the end of his name. I first noticed it on a wedding dinner table card and then started thinking back about other times he did that. He would always tell people how he was a lawyer, would work it into any convo. Guy would twitch if he couldn't interrupt you to let you know that he was in fact a barrister.
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