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re: Would it bother you a M.D. requires you to call them "Doctor" outside of medical setting?

Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:21 am to
Posted by madmaxvol
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Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:21 am to
My college roommate is now a Thoracic Surgeon. I make my kids call him "Dr. XXXX". He insists they call him by his first name...but unless he did so, they would refer to him as Dr.
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11215 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:25 am to
One of my close friends is an MD. He doesn't do this but I make sure to introduce him as a nurse to keep him humble.
Posted by DivotBreath
On the course
Member since Oct 2007
3502 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:27 am to
Unless he is my doctor … he or she gets called by their name. I call them doctor out of respect when I choose them to provide professional services and not otherwise.
Posted by Xcalibur2017
Member since Apr 2017
602 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:29 am to
Doctors are full of egos. All they are is another service provider. Mechanics are service providers.

I dont like calling doctors "doctor" inside the medical facility. They are people just like everyone else.
Posted by OlGrandad
Member since Oct 2009
3485 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:30 am to
Doctor Jill
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
11352 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:31 am to
Always addressed them in public as I did at work
Posted by Riggle
Blue Ridge Mountains
Member since Feb 2013
3225 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:31 am to
quote:

Curious if this is acceptable as he has earned that that title or is it a bit pretentious?


Pretentious. His profession as a doctor has no bearing on these interactions. Comes off as "I have an advanced degree so I'm better than you."
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
61875 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:32 am to
Only when I’m trying to be an arse. I prefer for people not to know I’m a doctor
Posted by NOLATiger163
Insane State of NOLA
Member since Aug 2018
453 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 8:57 am to
quote:

[A]t the dealership service dept they call for Jack Smith he corrects them as " It's Dr. Smith" ....
Respond, 'I'm just going to call you Self-Important Douchebag.'
Posted by Tigahs24Seven
Communist USA
Member since Nov 2007
12105 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:13 am to
The guy is a narcissistic.. Steer clear.
Posted by Jizzy08
Member since Aug 2008
11220 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:17 am to
I’m an MD and I won’t even correct a patient who calls me Mr. when I’m clearly in my white coat and scrubs in their hospital room. I only ever correct people when it’s clear they’re being douche.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71255 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:20 am to
Dudes a moron. So call him Dr Moron.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68270 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:31 am to
The only Dr. I call doctor all the time is Dr. Jill

She earned it
Posted by USMCguy121
Northshore
Member since Aug 2021
6332 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:34 am to
Tiny dick syndrome
Posted by LockDown
Member since Feb 2010
1321 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:37 am to
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I have a colleague that corrects people in public when they call them by his first or last name outside of medical setting.


Person 1: "It's actually 'Dr. Doe.' I am a physician."

Person 2: Fantastic. Since we're using professional titles, I am an attorney/ have a doctorate in anythingunderthesun. You can address me as Dr. Smith."


Solves it. Every. Time. For both medical and non-medical.
This post was edited on 12/7/22 at 9:39 am
Posted by LSU4eva7
Member since Sep 2013
301 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:37 am to
Dr. Douche bag
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71255 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:40 am to
quote:

I only ever correct people when it’s clear they’re being douche.


How do you determine someone’s personality as a douche when they come to you for help?
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26447 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:42 am to
I call all the Docs younger than me by their first name at work...

They don't give a shite...
Posted by 92Tiger
Member since Dec 2015
588 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:42 am to
I know a medical doctor personally. He's over 70 years old and told me to call him by his first name. Nope, I call him Doc.

People with class do not bestow title upon themself. Respectful people show respect where due. In personal settings, if I talk to a retired Lt. Col. or Navy Cmdr. or above, I definitely address them by rank. For retired enlisted, I will do so for E8 and E9. If it is a Marine who retired as E7, I'll call him gunny. For a young doctor in a personal setting, I'd address them as doc. If it is a personal friend, then I'd just use their name.

If I meet someone and they introduce themself as Mr./Ms. etc. then I am thinking what a total cheese ball. Exception is when some elderly man or woman does it, then I just roll with it.
This post was edited on 12/7/22 at 9:44 am
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
2304 posts
Posted on 12/7/22 at 9:42 am to
I do it all the time in my workplace and it doesn't make any difference to me.
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