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Posted on 11/8/25 at 9:48 am to philly444
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If you forget a name your social skills are lacking.
Or maybe someone has a lot on their mind, or they're sick, or they are older, or any number of things that have little to do with social skills.
Or maybe their social skills ARE lacking and it's something they can't really do a lot about because everyone is wired differently.
I'm not great with names- and if I am making extra effort to pin your face and name together, chances are I won't hear much else you've said.
Posted on 11/8/25 at 9:51 am to SludgeFactory
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Just wait until you don't give a violent, mentally ill progressive their correct pronoun. You are in for a real treat. Can't wait to read your OP then.
I've found a very good way to remedy that. I just tune out if they start conversations with, "My pronouns are"-----------------I end the conversation because I'm not listening to any bullshite that comes out your mouth.
This post was edited on 11/8/25 at 10:02 am
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:01 am to philly444
My go-to solution…
Me: “Hey what was your name?”
Doug: “Doug.”
Me: “No, Doug I meant your last name.”
Doug: “Las.”
Me: “I really thought I grew up with someone with that last name but maybe not.”
Me: “Hey what was your name?”
Doug: “Doug.”
Me: “No, Doug I meant your last name.”
Doug: “Las.”
Me: “I really thought I grew up with someone with that last name but maybe not.”
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:03 am to philly444
I am awful with names.
I have the memory of a jellyfish.
It’s laughable.
HOWEVER, when I had my insurance agency and had roughly 3k clients, I could remember their addresses, their premiums, what kind of cars they had, etc. it was nothing short of amazing.
Point being, I think when people are incentivized, for whatever reasons (be they selfish, monetary, altruistic, etc), memory steps up.
I have the memory of a jellyfish.
It’s laughable.
HOWEVER, when I had my insurance agency and had roughly 3k clients, I could remember their addresses, their premiums, what kind of cars they had, etc. it was nothing short of amazing.
Point being, I think when people are incentivized, for whatever reasons (be they selfish, monetary, altruistic, etc), memory steps up.
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:06 am to philly444
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You talk with someone new, introduce yourself to them and they do the same. Later in the function that person will say what is your name again. I was talking to you and told you my name, listen better please. Don’t just zone out when I talk to you. I used to not care about this but I am growing increasingly less tolerant of this. One time I told a person my name twice and I still got a “what is your name again” later in the function. Like what the heck lol.

Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:21 am to philly444
That all sounds like a you problem.
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:25 am to philly444
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You talk with someone new, introduce yourself to them and they do the same. Later in the function that person will say what is your name again. I was talking to you and told you my name, listen better please. Don’t just zone out when I talk to you. I used to not care about this but I am growing increasingly less tolerant of this.
I'm terrible at remembering names. Lots of people are. At a social event, there's no way I'm remembering the names of a dozen people I just met.
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One time I told a person my name twice and I still got a “what is your name again” later in the function. Like what the heck lol.
Maybe you're just a forgettable person.
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:28 am to philly444
The fact that you worry about this so much tells me already that you are a try-hard.
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:29 am to philly444
I forget peoples names who I see regularly. It's not purposeful and I legitimately try to be better at it but I'm not good at it.
My fiancè on the other hand will remember someone randomly we met for 2 min.
Some people's brains are just wired to remember certain things better than others.
My fiancè on the other hand will remember someone randomly we met for 2 min.
Some people's brains are just wired to remember certain things better than others.
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:44 am to meeple
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meeple
This guy networks
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:45 am to TexasTiger33
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If someone can't remember your name in the same conversation, you're not important to them at all
If I've met you exactly one time. Then no, you aren't that important to me. That's nothing personal. It's just realistic. Do you have any idea how many people in life I've met one time?
Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:46 am to QJenk
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Do you have any idea how many people in life I've met one time?

Posted on 11/8/25 at 10:51 am to philly444
quote:and I’ll give that person another name
Later in the function that person will say what is your name again
Because I’m obviously not worth remembering so who cares
Plus I hate ppl
Posted on 11/8/25 at 11:13 am to philly444
I wanna punch someone when they say that to me. It’s the same as saying you’re not important enough to remember. It’s so rude and low class.
Posted on 11/8/25 at 11:31 am to philly444
I’m sorry. Who are you again? I recognize your avi but can’t place your name to save my life.
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