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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 7:56 pm to Oates Mustache

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But if you're talking about the act as a whole, it's 50/50

I can appreciate your adherence to your line of thinking.
I think you’re wrong, but you and my wife would agree, so you got that going for you, which may be nice.

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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 6:12 pm to Oates Mustache

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Is this the old, "she tripped and fell into his dick" argument? She's an active participant, knowing he's married.

Right. But, he is the one who made a vow.
She did not.

So, in your mind, whether one makes a vow is irrelevant to the blame for marriage strife?

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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 6:04 pm to Oates Mustache

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He broke the vow. She helped break it. Math isn’t hard. That's a 50/50 equation where if the mistress didn't exist, it wouldn't happen.

But SHE didn't make the vow, so SHE didn't break a vow of her own.
So, how is it 50/50?

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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 5:56 pm to SixthAndBarone

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The mistress didn’t swear vows. What she’s doing is unethical but she has nothing to do with the vows between two other people.

This is where I stand.
But, I still blame mistress a tad.

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re: Why do people online act like the world is falling apart - all I see is great progress!

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 5:55 pm to NashvilleTider

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The gop are going to destroy to left in the midterms it won’t be close

Ah, yes. Put faith in the GOP. They will not let you down.
LOL

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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 5:51 pm to HoustonGumbeauxGuy

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This is the one and only answer, I can’t believe the OP is asking such a stupid fricking question.

Consensus seems mixed in this thread, but I am with you.
I agree, but apparently not everybody does.

And, women seem to dislike other women.
Wife's friends group is blaming the other woman too much in my opinion.

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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 5:41 pm to eiasjsf

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If she knew he was married, then she is at least 50% at fault but the husband is still 100% at fault.

Your math ain't mathing.
That is 150% hombre.

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re: When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 5:40 pm to CSinLC

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As a guy, I don’t understand how a married man could cheat on his wife. I get it when the wife cheats because women are vain and weak

I've known several who have done it.
Some with neighbors-ruins families
Some with co-workers-ruins families and work
Some with people at church-ruins families and kids
Some with hookers while out town-no issues

Most do it from lack of sex/affection/not being attracted to their partner any longer.

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When it comes to cheating, who is more to blame: the married or the mistress?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 5:29 pm

Question states it all.
I was, and still am, under the very strong impression that the married person, who has a vow most of the time, and is in committed, legal relationship bears the vast majority of the "responsibility" for the consummation.

Recently, one of my wife's friends had a husband who stepped out on her, impregnated a woman, and he and his wife are "working through it".

When discussing the event, I put the blame on the husband, like 95%.
My wife was aghast, and put it at like 65%.

I think she is very misguided, but maybe I am wrong.

What is your opinion of where the blame lies?

No pics of the wife. Incredibly pregnant at the moment.

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re: Former AZ Senator, Kyrsten Sinema, is allegedly a pretty wild lady

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/15/26 at 5:23 pm to RLDSC FAN

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The lawsuit further claims that Sinema paid for Matthew’s psychedelic treatments

"Treatments" are what they are calling tripping nowadays?
Neat!

Also note that I am now volunteering for treatments by anyone willing to pay for them :pimp: :pimp:

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re: Last 2 free throws cost LSU the game

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/14/26 at 8:15 pm to bayouboo

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The rebound where they fouled with 1.5 left… if he just throws the ball over his shoulder towards mid court it is game over

They didn’t foul.
Kentucky had one timeout remaining.

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re: Jacob Frey is going to milk this to the absolute end

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/13/26 at 5:56 pm to Athis

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Frey has got to be connected to the Somali fraud in some way... I hope they give it a good long look...

It is impossible that he is not connected.
Shouldn’t be that difficult to connect the dots.

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re: Secret Service agent giving up JD Vance for potential assassination attempts

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/13/26 at 2:30 pm to Kjnstkmn

O’Keefe loves planting thirst traps for gays and betas alike.
And they fall for it.
Presumably every single time.

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re: George Carlin described trans ideology before trans ideology was a thing

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/12/26 at 2:12 pm to ClientNumber9

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hate to say it but it's AI generated.

Noooooooo

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re: Republican Senator Thom Tillis not happy with Trump Justice Department going after the Fed

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/12/26 at 7:31 am to Froman

Do you actually think $2.5 bil
Was spent renovating the building?

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re: SIAP: Walz is set to resign within the next week, according to multiple reports

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/11/26 at 9:00 pm to 14&Counting

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Has there ever been a worse ticket put forward by either party than Harris/Walz?

Ironic, bc they were anointed.

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re: RIP - Bobby Weir

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/11/26 at 8:50 pm to BrotherEsau

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BrotherEsau

Username checks out.

Throwing Stones was the last song my wife and I heard before our oldest son was born, as we raced across the mobile bay way. Very underrated dead tune.

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re: Is This True About The Deep State?

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/11/26 at 4:35 pm to Toomer Deplorable

Political hacks, like this site is full of, have short memories.
I’ll never forget Christie calling out Rubio in 16 about him being a puppet/robot, and then Rubio, on Que, repeats himself 3 times.

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re: AMA: I am an American citizen who was born in Iran...

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/11/26 at 1:25 pm to TexasTiger33

Can you give us any thoughts of how, in your opinion, you see events unfolding? Who/which group do you see filling the power vacuum?

Why are you returning to Iran?
For how long?

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re: R.I.P. Jim McBride (songwriter). He wrote a lot of hit country songs.

Posted by BamaCoaster on 1/11/26 at 11:48 am to auggie

Saw him at Frank Brown songwriter thing in gulf shores a decade ago.
Didnt know who he was when he began. There might have been 35 of us in the intimate setting/dinner. Had great stories.

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