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re: When your son decides to stop playing baseball.

Posted on 1/23/19 at 2:49 pm to
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12555 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 2:49 pm to
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I have a 6 year old who has played 2 seasons of t-ball, he doesn't want to play this upcoming season...do I force him to play because I know what's best for him at this age?


You pretty much have to play constantly from birth to develop into a good hitter, so yeah. Be aware, it might backfire & he might grow to resent & hate you & the sport.
Posted by SteveLSU35
Shreveport
Member since Mar 2004
15090 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 2:51 pm to
There are plenty of things he can do to stay active besides play baseball. Give some other sports a try, but if he's in middle school go the nerd route. I hope all my kids are big time nerds. Not doing travel ball sounds awesome.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26295 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 2:52 pm to
Don’t have kids. I really don’t think I would give a eff if they played sports or not
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
117061 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 2:54 pm to
Not baseball, but my son stopped playing soccer after 11 years (5 through 15) and it was a little sad. He was absolutely burned out and physically beat up, plus he had missed out on a lot with all his matches and travel .

He hasn't missed it a lick and, frankly, we haven't missed the travel either.
Posted by 257WBY
Member since Feb 2014
8486 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 2:59 pm to
Since travel ball game along, 12 years old is the end of most rec ball. Just time to move on to the next thing.
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6538 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 3:06 pm to
I played baseball until about that age and then I found basketball and football which were way more fun.
Posted by BoardReader
Arkansas
Member since Dec 2007
7412 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 4:01 pm to
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As long as he's not picking up soccer



He said the kid is 12.

Way too young to be double-fisting cock.
Posted by Brobocop
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2018
2124 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 4:34 pm to
Sign your son up for Jiu Jitsu.
This post was edited on 1/23/19 at 4:35 pm
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
55341 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 5:35 pm to
quote:

Was driving back from a duck hunting trip last Sunday. We went past a baseball complex. With a tourney going on.

Was 38 and howling wind.
these kids should all be in a basketball gym
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10947 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 6:00 pm to
He quit baseball BECAUSE he was on the same team since he was 4. You ruined baseball for him.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 6:39 pm to
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Sucks, we had some great times.


He just quit baseball, he didn't dump you as his dad. You can still have great times.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34401 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 6:41 pm to
Commend him for not feeling like he needs to.
Posted by barry
Location, Location, Location
Member since Aug 2006
51421 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:10 pm to
quote:

You pretty much have to play constantly from birth to develop into a good hitter,


False, but ok. Maybe if you are a mediocre athlete.
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
11218 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:57 pm to
quote:

Sign your son up for Jiu Jitsu.


Best advice yet.
Posted by dawgsjlw
shite hole with your momma
Member since Sep 2014
826 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:04 pm to
Why don't you buy him a table saw, angle grinder, acetylene torches, etc? Show him what real men do and maybe he won't grow up a pussy like most of folks now a days.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:13 pm to
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it was something to get him out of the house and off the PS4

Heaven forbid you have to actually do some parenting now. Maybe instead of living vicariously through him with baseball you could prepare him for adulthood.

Maybe limit the amount of time he can spend on vidya. Maybe promote hobbies and interests that will lead to both psychological and physical development. Maybe work to make your kid well-rounded.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
103799 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:55 pm to
Braydens future looks bleak. Plant maintenance contractor it is
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
103799 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:59 pm to
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Damn. That's terrible. Baseball is pretty much the only thing out there besides video games that he could do


8th grade I quit baseball. I realized that I wasn’t really that good and football was more fun. Ended up with all kinds of awards over the years got recruited by colleges and played 2 years college ball. No regrets.

OPs son is just trying to find his thing. That age is when a lot of kids quit baseball because it starts getting more advanced and it weeds out the good ones from the not so good ones.
Posted by Ton Chou
On the Levee
Member since Feb 2010
757 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 9:09 pm to
Wtf is this. As a 40 year old, we worked our butts off in the fields and cutting yards and what not. Stop living vicariously through your kids sports. We viewed work as workouts for sports and life beyond sports. It’s the parents creating this nightmare. Then they come to work everyday and waste half the day bitching about their kids sports. Stop the effing madness!!!!!!
Posted by offshoretrash
Farmerville, La
Member since Aug 2008
10779 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 10:37 pm to
My oldest quit at 12 yo, he just got burned out playing from Feb til the end of July.

My youngest told me one day at pitching machine practice, "Daddy, why am I playing baseball? I dont even like baseball." I told him he doesnt have to play anything if he doesnt want to.
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