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When do you think it's ok to divorce?

Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:01 am
Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:01 am
The (traditional) vows do say in sickness, blah blah blah

But what if the other person just sucks and doesn't do their part? When is enough, enough?
Posted by Commandeaux
Zachary
Member since Jul 2009
7881 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:01 am to
You dont ever have to worry about it.
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
23632 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:01 am to
Before you get married
Posted by Forkbeard3777
Chicago
Member since Apr 2013
3841 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:02 am to
Infidelity, attempted murder, sex change.
Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:02 am to
it's just best to not get married
Posted by IT_Dawg
Georgia
Member since Oct 2012
26817 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:04 am to
quote:


When do you think it's ok to divorce?


When she will no longer let me PIIHB
Posted by ULSU
Tasmania
Member since Jan 2014
3931 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:04 am to
I thought sucking was doing your part, Paige
Posted by WG_Dawg
Member since Jun 2004
91115 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:05 am to
quote:

But what if the other person just sucks and doesn't do their part?


Typically you would see this coming if you actually did your due diligence in getting to know them before marriage.

Makes me shake my head when people date for 3 months then get married and are shocked the other person is different than they realized.

Posted by PurpleandGold Motown
Waltzing Between the Raindrops
Member since Oct 2007
24884 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:06 am to
I don't know. What you listed are just reasons and justifications.

I think it's ok to divorce when you walk into a room with your spouse and immediately want to be somewhere else each time. When you cannot stand the sight of her and she feels the same way. When you've long since forgotten why you fell in love in the first place and really don't care to remember anymore.

I guess when you just give up or in and you're just two people that occasionally get envelopes with both your names printed on the label.
Posted by jrodLSUke
Premium
Member since Jan 2011
26546 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:07 am to
quote:

what if the other person just sucks and doesn't do their part?

When you date married men, they will always use this line.
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:08 am to
I'm thinking about 4:30 or 5 in the evening.
Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
62314 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:08 am to
Biblically, if your spouse cheats on you, you are justified to divorce, but you are not mandated to do so.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:11 am to
When you realize you would be happier without them.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76784 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:12 am to
quote:

doesn't do their part?


their part of what?


quote:

what if the other person just sucks


why would you marry that person to begin with?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135044 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:14 am to
Infidelity, physical abuse.
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
10380 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:14 am to
People can get a divorce anytime they want to. No sense in living in perpetual misery with someone you can't stand if you're financially able to support yourself. Having said that, people should take marriage more seriously. If more people treated marriage like the commitment it is, you wouldn't have so much divorce as a lot of those people never would have married to begin with.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40398 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:14 am to
"Look, I can't take you, your family, or any of the other crap anymore. GTFO."

When you get to the point of possibly raising a hand, it's time for her (or you) to go.
Posted by taylork37
Member since Mar 2010
15919 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:16 am to
I think the better question is, when is it OK to get married....people who are getting divorced obviously failed that test (in most cases).
Posted by yellowhammer2098
New Orleans, LA
Member since Mar 2013
3864 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:17 am to
quote:

Infidelity, attempted murder, sex change.



Add physical abuse to this.
Posted by Volvagia
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2006
53613 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:21 am to
quote:

But what if the other person just sucks and doesn't do their part?


What if you really got to know the person before giving your vows rather than simply approaching marriage as some kind of expected escalation of a relationship while still in the infatuation stage?
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