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re: When do you think it's ok to divorce?

Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:22 am to
Posted by Mister Mayhem
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
85 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:22 am to
Infidelity and physical abuse
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17754 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:24 am to
You only have one life. If things between you and the spouse are at the point of no return. Cut it loose. Your children will thank you later in life. Especially if you learn your lesson and find someone who is a better fit.

Posted by PolyPusher86
St. George
Member since Jun 2010
3357 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:26 am to
When you realize that they have given up. Being miserable in a shitty relationship is no way to go thru life.
Posted by UHTiger
Member since Jan 2007
5231 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:53 am to
When you sober up and realize it was your wedding you were at.
Posted by AmOutlawBR
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2014
1153 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:56 am to
When she cheats on you with a BBC or any other weiner for that matter.

Whores.

As far the woman's stance, she should be at home cooking and cleaning. Her brain is too small to think about what's going on in the big ole world outside the kitchen/bedroom. So no grounds for a divorce.
Posted by Iron Lion
Romulus
Member since Nov 2014
14169 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:57 am to
I see a lot of infidelity/cheating posts. Infidelity doesn't necessarily mean divorce. Sometimes that can get worked out.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76784 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 9:57 am to
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When you sober up and realize it was your wedding you were at.


this actually made me
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:01 am to
It's never OK to divorce. This me-first culture is killing our country. Just because your partner doesn't "pay enough attention to you" or have the "same sexual orientation anymore", that doesn't mean you can just end things. It's selfish and shortsighted.
Posted by BayouBlitz
Member since Aug 2007
18126 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:02 am to
If your marriage makes you miserable.

Life is too short to be miserable all the damn time. For example, when you pull up to the house and see her car and think "Damnit, she's home."
Posted by carlsoda
B Rah
Member since Dec 2009
5777 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:03 am to
I think most people know what they are getting when they get to the alter. with that said I bet most guys would agree that after the ceremony guys stay the same and it is the women who do the changing. As far as divorced I'm not really sure. After cheating maybe?
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
20735 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:04 am to
Physical Abuse, Infidelity or abandonment, period.

No fault divorce is a curse on this nation and the worst thing to come out of the social revolution of the 60s.

This post was edited on 10/13/15 at 10:06 am
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:04 am to
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Life is too short to be miserable all the damn time


I'll assume you're in your early twenties. When you grow up you'll realize that life is misery and marriage is just part of that. Good luck living the fairy tale though, when it comes crashing down let us know what you learned.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
157330 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:05 am to
quote:

When do you think it's ok to divorce?

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The (traditional) vows do say in sickness, blah blah blah

But what if the other person just sucks and doesn't do their part? When is enough, enough?

So you're dating a married dude now I see..
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
117554 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:08 am to
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Typically you would see this coming if you actually did your due diligence in getting to know them before marriage.


Some people are really good at hiding things
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
60295 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:09 am to
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But what if the other person just sucks and doesn't do their part?


This is why you wait and get to know the person before getting married. This is also why if you have the least bit of doubt about the person, you don't marry them.

With that said, there are people who are so good at hiding themselves they can fool everyone, but they are far more rare than people want to believe. More often than not, we purposely ignore warning signs in the hopes we are wrong or they will just go away (and that never works).

quote:

When do you think it's ok to divorce?


For me it's infidelity. Your spouse is supposed to be your best friend, your partner-in-crime, the person you are ALWAYS honest with (even if it makes you feel uncomfortable) and they with you. Consentually boning someone else is about the worst betrayal of that trust and I'm not one to give trust back to someone who proves to me that they can't handle it.
This post was edited on 10/13/15 at 10:11 am
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:09 am to
I was on the couch watching the game the other day and I yelled out to the old lady to go get me a beer out of the fridge. She refused to do it and I had to go get it myself. When she came out of the bathroom I told her that was unacceptable.

Happens one more time and we're done.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
104483 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:10 am to
Could be a married woman... you never know with Paige.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:11 am to
quote:

This is why you wait and get to know the person before getting married.


In theory, this is great. But what if you're 29 and all your friends are already married? You simply don't have the time and have to roll the dice.


quote:

For me it's infidelity


Not justifiable divorce.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80837 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:14 am to
quote:

But what if the other person just sucks and doesn't do their part? When is enough, enough?



My ex wife, RIP, flat refused to take care of herself no matter what I did. After a few years of struggling and fighting her to realize what she was doing, I realized that I couldn't save her so I had to get out to save my sanity.

She passed away 4 yrs later at age 49.
Posted by BayouBlitz
Member since Aug 2007
18126 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 10:15 am to
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I'll assume you're in your early twenties.


I'm in my early forties and never been married. Engaged twice.

Your people reading skills suck. Assume less.
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