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What is the purpose of pronouns in work email signatures?

Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:03 am
Posted by ChunkyLover54
Member since Apr 2015
6666 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:03 am
Honest question. I WFH for a small company, began Jan 2020, prior to that always for big companies in the office. I frequently interact with coworkers but oddly it’s only about work, so have no office banter or bureaucratic BS.

I assume the purpose is ultimately virtue signaling, by either individual or org. but it’s clearly becoming mandated in certain companies and local govs we work with. Yesterday a good old boy in his 50s/60s who I’ve spoken with several times named Mike in Odessa, TX had he/him. If there was confusion about this guys gender, I should just quit modern life.

What is the explanation for this? My guesses are:

1. To avoid genuine confusion? I guess it somewhat makes sense with a Kelley or Blake, I’ve assumed wrong with both of them. But that’s likely not the intent.

2. Self-promoted wokeness by the org? Look at us!

3. CYA HR move to build in policies in case of lawsuit?

Thanks for your consideration
This post was edited on 8/24/21 at 9:35 am
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11611 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:05 am to
quote:

What is purpose if pronouns in work email signatures?


Posted by ChunkyLover54
Member since Apr 2015
6666 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:10 am to
What does that mean? Been brought up before? I’m an idiot? Both? Fine but what’s the answer?
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12629 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:12 am to
To ensure you reference a tranny with the proper form.
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
38340 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:13 am to
Virtue signal points

It’s all so dumb and unnecessary
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11611 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:15 am to
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What does that mean? Been brought up before? I’m an idiot? Both? Fine but what’s the answer?


I usually don't do the grammar police thing, because I sure as hell make my share of mistakes. But for some reason when I see them in the subject title, it bugs the hell out of me.

As for your question, I think it's just a "look at us, we're woke" thing.
Posted by jbraua
Oklahoma City, OK
Member since Oct 2007
7793 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:17 am to
The idea is, and I am not saying I agree, to help transgender people feel more comfortable about identifying their pronouns. If everyone is identifying their pronouns, it doesn't stand out when someone who is transgender does it. So if Kaitlyn continues to be confused or mistaken as a man, though she prefers to be identified as a female, she will need to put "she/her/her's" in her email signature. That would be odd if only transgender people did that and bring unwanted attention to themselves. So the idea is if everyone does it, no one notices Kaitlyn's email signature and Kaitlyn gets called her preferred pronouns.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
45951 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:18 am to
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2. Self-promoted wokeness by the org? Look at us!
Posted by LSUGrad9295
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2007
37902 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:19 am to
It has been explained to me that the pronoun bullshite is used to signify that the person using the pronouns is a supporter of all of the LGBTQAIVEPID nonsense and that other alphabet soup supporters can feel "safe" when conversing with said person using pronouns.

And I'm not making this shite up sadly. A real live she/her explained it to me
Posted by TigerMomma4
Member since Mar 2020
471 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:23 am to
quote:

1. To avoid genuine confusion? I guess it somewhat makes sense with a Kelley or Blake, I’ve assumed wrong with both of them. But that’s likely not the intent.


That's the only reasonable option, especially with the surge of WFH where you are only seeing text and not hearing a voice. But my guess is that it isn't because of reason.

I have a feminine name, but have been addressed as a Mr. or sir from time to time when all communication is by email. More so when dealing with international communications where the person may not be familiar enough with English names. Could your good old boy Mike's company have international customers? Perhaps The confusion angle could apply? Coupled with CYA and wokeness of not wanting someone offended because they were addressed incorrectly? It's never bothered me, but some folks are pretty thin skinned.

At the same time, I've likewise had to guess (meaning, I worded things carefully to cover both bases) in early emails with new vendors/customers. In addition to nonspecific Taylor type names, I've known a female Michael and a male Tracy. Unless I know for sure, I just avoid sentence structures that need a pronoun.
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
24834 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:25 am to
Love when it’s someone named Steve and is clearly a dude but they still put he/him. Like no shite asshead you don’t even look like a tranny.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
55507 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:25 am to
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So the idea is if everyone does it, no one notices Kaitlyn's email signature and Kaitlyn gets called HIS preferred pronouns.


FIFY
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
50745 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:29 am to
My company makes us include our preferred pronouns in our email signature. I haven’t done it yet but if they call me out on it, I will happily do it because they pay me wayyyyy more than I’m worth so if it keeps them happy, so what.
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
24834 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:31 am to
I’d sooner quit that job than partake in that waste of time nonsense.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:32 am to
Pretty much marking themselves as Death Eaters who will ruin your life if you remotely step out of line.

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134629 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:33 am to
Virtue signaling.


Don’t give in, not even once. They are stupid and deserve to be called out as stupid.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:34 am to
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What does that mean? Been brought up before? I’m an idiot? Both? Fine but what’s the answer?


Honestly you questioning this only means this:
Posted by Animal
Member since Dec 2017
4341 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:34 am to
quote:

What is purpose if pronouns in work email signatures?


How the hell else am I gonna know how woke you is????
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:35 am to
For frick sake, I’ve never seen so many adults act so childish about things that absolutely have no impact on their lives.

Whining about what someone else does in their fricking email signature? Jesus
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 8/24/21 at 9:38 am to
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For frick sake, I’ve never seen so many adults act so childish about things that absolutely have no impact on their lives.

Whining about what someone else does in their fricking email signature? Jesus


OK, where are we now due to caving to lunatics? It’s just this that’s all we ask. No it’s not just that. Read “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” sometime. We’re well past the mouse wanting to have his drawing hung on the refrigerator. We’re at the point where the mouse is hosting a rager with 10,000 of his best friends and is about to burn the fricking house down. I’m done putting up with this mouse.
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