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re: What are your thoughts on roadside crosses?

Posted on 5/29/21 at 3:42 pm to
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71440 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 3:42 pm to
Wow, so sorry to hear that. That's terrible!
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 3:43 pm to
quote:


Do gold star mothers go to Iraq and Afghanistan to visit the place their loved one passed?




You tell us. Do they?
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
8192 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 3:45 pm to
Crosses/memorials on public roadsides should not be allowed. I’m sorry your loved one passed, but that doesn’t make it alright to put a cross there. Putting something in private land is up to the landowner.

That being said, I am sympathetic to the grieving process and don’t mind temporary memorials. A couple weeks, ok. But the spots with permanent crosses, no.

Where do you stop the memorials? Can I put a 10 foot sign on the public land on side of the road, or is it only a cross? If my loved one loved Alabama football, can I put an Alabama sign up? Does my loved one have to die at the spot? What if I want to just put up a memorial on the side of the road because they liked that road?
This post was edited on 5/29/21 at 4:06 pm
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43299 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 3:45 pm to
I don't understand it, but to each their own. No harm to me.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20035 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:22 pm to
I offer a short prayer for that person represented and their family/friends. It’s ok by me.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65690 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:22 pm to
quote:

Do gold star mothers go to Iraq and Afghanistan to visit the place their loved one passed?
Yes.

Next question?

Mother visits site of her where son died in Iraq (Link)
This post was edited on 5/29/21 at 4:25 pm
Posted by momentoftruth87
Member since Oct 2013
71440 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:23 pm to
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Yes.

Next question.




What are you wearing?
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65690 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:26 pm to
quote:

What are you wearing?
Clothes.

Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:26 pm to
I don't find that as strange as the rolling memorials on the back windows of cars. You know, "R.I.P. Big Pookie" in big Gothic script.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
8192 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:31 pm to
My favorite are the “in memory of” stickers. Your car is in memory of Big Pookie?
Posted by Auburn80
Backwater, TN
Member since Nov 2017
7507 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 4:33 pm to
Virginia has these you can put up permanently:

Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1424 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 5:02 pm to
Too close to the roadway is unsafe as are the big lighted ones.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
71083 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 5:08 pm to
Reminds people to be more careful behind the wheel.
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
Member since Feb 2008
37752 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 5:08 pm to
My thoughts? It’s littering.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30022 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 6:50 pm to
im not a fan as they are litter and clutter on someone elses or state property, but that said they remind you and mark bad places on roads where people die, so look at them as warning signs for hazardous areas and not death markers
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
17708 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 7:16 pm to
Trashy
Posted by wasteland
City of peace
Member since Apr 2011
5600 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 7:19 pm to
What about the people putting death cross stickers on their vehicles? And what about the families that make matching t-shirts?
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
25639 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 7:24 pm to
I don't mind the small ones, but I hate to see them with dead flowers, faded ribbons and ripped-up signs. Just like a gravesite if you put flowers on them have the respect to remove them or anything else when they become an eyesore.

Posted by Adajax
Member since Nov 2015
6126 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 7:49 pm to
Personally, I wouldn't want the reminder that my loved one had his/her life cut tragically short at this very spot. Especially if I had to pass it every day. But if it helps someone else grieve, more power to them.
This post was edited on 5/29/21 at 7:51 pm
Posted by saintsfan1977
West Monroe, from Cajun country
Member since Jun 2010
7708 posts
Posted on 5/29/21 at 7:54 pm to
quote:

but I don't get putting a cross on someone's property and it staying there. Thoughts?



When I die I want my family to put a cross with my name in bold every mile along I-10. I want to look like if Gordon McKernan died.
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