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Posted on 6/13/15 at 6:33 pm to 777Tiger
Was there for the first, skipped the second. There's no reason for the father to be in there and see that shite. Send her mom or sister or something. You think back in the Indian days that the Warriors were in there watching a baby get shoved out Pocahontas' pussy? frick no, they were hitting the peace pipe around the fire while all the squaws were in the maternity teepee.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 6:37 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
I would have liked the option of fishing.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:13 pm to rantfan
Was there and cut the cord for all 3. Don't be surprised if your SO shites herself trying to push the baby out. 
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:20 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
I prefer to just watch the delivery of the placenta after the baby is already born
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:23 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
It's a incredibly remarkable experience to see your child enter the world, breathe his or her first breathe, and make his or her first sound. I wouldn't trade that moment for the world. I even cut the cord.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:25 pm to papasmurf1269
quote:same except just one!,
watched both of my children being born and I cried like a baby. I wouldn't have missed it for the world. Most wonderful thing I have ever seen
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:31 pm to SwaggerCopter
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I would like to be at my wife's side as she goes through one of the most painful experiences of her life.
Some assholes in this thread. If the woman I love is suffering, I want to be there for her. Sorry you all are such shitty people
Agreed.
And the whole I want to see my child enter this world thing
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:34 pm to pwejr88
To each his own. I for one see no reason to be in there. Trust me, when she's in the middle of labor she doesn't give a shite if you're there. Her mother will do just fine.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:35 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
Where else would you be? Lobby, ball game, home on TD, work?
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:37 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
I was in the room for both of mine. In no way was I going to look so I stayed by my wife's head....but I think I would have personally regretted not being there for their births. It's a life-changing moment that I'll never forget.
Cut the cord for both of 'em too. But I definitely wasn't getting down and dirty where the doc was.
Cut the cord for both of 'em too. But I definitely wasn't getting down and dirty where the doc was.
This post was edited on 6/13/15 at 7:40 pm
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:39 pm to EWE TIGER
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Where else would you be?
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home on TD
Yes, lots of them probably would sadly prefer to be on droppings instead of seeing the birth of their kids.
"I'm too much of a man to do that shite. Let mother in law be there"
I can't believe how many use the lame excuse that in the oldin days, men weren't allowed. Yeah, there were probably a lot of stupid shite that happened in the past that we think was silly and have progressed away from. Thank God for that.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:41 pm to notiger1997
Agreed. Hell we told my parents and her parents to stay home for the 2nd one (ended up delivering @ 5:40am). frick, you can go fishing pretty much any day....you only get 1 chance to be there when your child is born.
This post was edited on 6/13/15 at 7:42 pm
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:49 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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To each his own. I for one see no reason to be in there. Trust me, when she's in the middle of labor she doesn't give a shite if you're there. Her mother will do just fine.
Then she's not someone I want to be married to.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:54 pm to GeauxColonels
The stuff this board comes up with to get up in arms about, I swear.
Supporting your wife is the biggest reason I feel you should WANT to be there. And I saw everything....and I wasn't bothered by it at all (no c section). I was worried that I wouldn't be able to handle it, but it's an experience unlike any other and you put that stuff out of your mind.
And the "don't want to be in the way" people need to come up with another cop out. The delivery experience is set up for the mother AND father. It's not like the nurse are "I hate it when the a-hole father shows up, so much harder now".
Supporting your wife is the biggest reason I feel you should WANT to be there. And I saw everything....and I wasn't bothered by it at all (no c section). I was worried that I wouldn't be able to handle it, but it's an experience unlike any other and you put that stuff out of your mind.
And the "don't want to be in the way" people need to come up with another cop out. The delivery experience is set up for the mother AND father. It's not like the nurse are "I hate it when the a-hole father shows up, so much harder now".
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:56 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
I watched both of my children being born naturally. It was freaking awesome and terrifying and beautiful and weird and awesome.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:59 pm to sicboy
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And the "don't want to be in the way" people need to come up with another cop out.
Agreed, it's a damn stupid excuse. You basically stand up next to your wife and the doctor and a nurse or two do their thing without much worry about you being in the way. It's a big room and was not in any way a strange situation.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 8:01 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
My dad was present for my birth. Couldn't hang. Sat out for my sister's birth. 
Posted on 6/13/15 at 8:02 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
My first in 2011 was a C section. Wife asked me if I was going to look. I had nothing to contribute to that situation, so I did not. I did however join in with the anesthesiologist and attending nurse to give my wife's doctor shite about 9-6 as he was a Bama grad.
Posted on 6/13/15 at 8:02 pm to PurpleandGold Motown
I had my first child this past Tuesday, a little boy. If you are not willing to be in the room encouraging your wife while she goes through birth then you're less of a man than Caitlin Jenner. We did not know what the sex was going to be, to miss out on that experience would've been the biggest travesty of my life.
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