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re: Watching (Being Present) Your Children Being Born?

Posted on 6/13/15 at 6:28 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 6/13/15 at 6:28 pm to
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, I'd probably get the baby daddy to be there instead of your worthless arse

Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 6/13/15 at 6:33 pm to
Was there for the first, skipped the second. There's no reason for the father to be in there and see that shite. Send her mom or sister or something. You think back in the Indian days that the Warriors were in there watching a baby get shoved out Pocahontas' pussy? frick no, they were hitting the peace pipe around the fire while all the squaws were in the maternity teepee.
Posted by Grouper Picatta
Sarasota,FL
Member since Mar 2013
1590 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 6:37 pm to
I would have liked the option of fishing.
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
19093 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:13 pm to
Was there and cut the cord for all 3. Don't be surprised if your SO shites herself trying to push the baby out.
Posted by pleading the fifth
Member since Feb 2006
3991 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:20 pm to
I prefer to just watch the delivery of the placenta after the baby is already born
Posted by SUB
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Member since Jan 2009
26386 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:23 pm to
It's a incredibly remarkable experience to see your child enter the world, breathe his or her first breathe, and make his or her first sound. I wouldn't trade that moment for the world. I even cut the cord.
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
27957 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:25 pm to
quote:

watched both of my children being born and I cried like a baby. I wouldn't have missed it for the world. Most wonderful thing I have ever seen
same except just one!,
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37970 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:31 pm to
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I would like to be at my wife's side as she goes through one of the most painful experiences of her life.

Some assholes in this thread. If the woman I love is suffering, I want to be there for her. Sorry you all are such shitty people


Agreed.

And the whole I want to see my child enter this world thing
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:34 pm to
To each his own. I for one see no reason to be in there. Trust me, when she's in the middle of labor she doesn't give a shite if you're there. Her mother will do just fine.
Posted by EWE TIGER
Houma
Member since Sep 2009
927 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:35 pm to
Where else would you be? Lobby, ball game, home on TD, work?
Posted by GeauxColonels
Tottenham Fan | LSU Fan
Member since Oct 2009
25606 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:37 pm to
I was in the room for both of mine. In no way was I going to look so I stayed by my wife's head....but I think I would have personally regretted not being there for their births. It's a life-changing moment that I'll never forget.

Cut the cord for both of 'em too. But I definitely wasn't getting down and dirty where the doc was.
This post was edited on 6/13/15 at 7:40 pm
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61832 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:39 pm to
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Where else would you be?

quote:

home on TD



Yes, lots of them probably would sadly prefer to be on droppings instead of seeing the birth of their kids.

"I'm too much of a man to do that shite. Let mother in law be there"

I can't believe how many use the lame excuse that in the oldin days, men weren't allowed. Yeah, there were probably a lot of stupid shite that happened in the past that we think was silly and have progressed away from. Thank God for that.
Posted by GeauxColonels
Tottenham Fan | LSU Fan
Member since Oct 2009
25606 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:41 pm to
Agreed. Hell we told my parents and her parents to stay home for the 2nd one (ended up delivering @ 5:40am). frick, you can go fishing pretty much any day....you only get 1 chance to be there when your child is born.
This post was edited on 6/13/15 at 7:42 pm
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37970 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:49 pm to
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To each his own. I for one see no reason to be in there. Trust me, when she's in the middle of labor she doesn't give a shite if you're there. Her mother will do just fine.


Then she's not someone I want to be married to.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
79751 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:54 pm to
The stuff this board comes up with to get up in arms about, I swear.

Supporting your wife is the biggest reason I feel you should WANT to be there. And I saw everything....and I wasn't bothered by it at all (no c section). I was worried that I wouldn't be able to handle it, but it's an experience unlike any other and you put that stuff out of your mind.

And the "don't want to be in the way" people need to come up with another cop out. The delivery experience is set up for the mother AND father. It's not like the nurse are "I hate it when the a-hole father shows up, so much harder now".
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108769 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:56 pm to
I watched both of my children being born naturally. It was freaking awesome and terrifying and beautiful and weird and awesome.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61832 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 7:59 pm to
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And the "don't want to be in the way" people need to come up with another cop out.


Agreed, it's a damn stupid excuse. You basically stand up next to your wife and the doctor and a nurse or two do their thing without much worry about you being in the way. It's a big room and was not in any way a strange situation.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 8:01 pm to
My dad was present for my birth. Couldn't hang. Sat out for my sister's birth.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
31645 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 8:02 pm to
My first in 2011 was a C section. Wife asked me if I was going to look. I had nothing to contribute to that situation, so I did not. I did however join in with the anesthesiologist and attending nurse to give my wife's doctor shite about 9-6 as he was a Bama grad.

Posted by Tigerstudent08
Lakeview
Member since Apr 2007
5776 posts
Posted on 6/13/15 at 8:02 pm to
I had my first child this past Tuesday, a little boy. If you are not willing to be in the room encouraging your wife while she goes through birth then you're less of a man than Caitlin Jenner. We did not know what the sex was going to be, to miss out on that experience would've been the biggest travesty of my life.
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