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Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:15 am to
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41888 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:15 am to
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That stat sounds made up fwiw.


might be less than that, tbh

to ensure the survival of our species women only bred with the highest quality men (one reason that the human penis is larger compared to its body size than other primates); so the less endowed/genetically gifted men were left out of the reproduction process.

the stat is not a polll, or anything like that, its a theory grounded in evo psychology - which you do not have to buy into, but itd be silly to disregard completely.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:37 am to
Holy crap, that site is pathetic.

someone needs to OT it up and post some super long OP and end it with walking the dinosaur.
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
12171 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:39 am to
It's the parents fault that they raised such worthless women.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
131928 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:41 am to
A guy I know is fricking a married girl. He literally fricked her on the day of her wedding, that morning, in the hotel room she was going to use with her husband that night.

Whores
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:41 am to
Damn
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
46731 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:41 am to
quote:

women are only genuinely attracted to 10-15% of men


the rest are being used in some form - typically for their resources


Posted by Bulletproof Lover
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
1900 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 9:43 am to
When Sharia Law comes who will fight for them? Will moral men fight for wicked women?
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78056 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 10:33 am to
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He felt my wrath earlier in the week when I got on his arse. No not the fun way. The way an IT guy should get on an engineer who tries to question his application's data.
Scruffy cannot believe he would do such a thing.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47781 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 10:47 am to
quote:

Every woman is a whore, except for my mother.


She was not always your mama.
Posted by Team Vote
DFW
Member since Aug 2014
7957 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 10:56 am to
quote:

Holy crap, that site is pathetic


it's the trainwreck you can't look away from
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87749 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 11:28 am to
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I feel sorry for the poor bastards involved with a woman because they make them feel "safe".


Because they cheat on them with their exes and those poor schlubs have no idea.


Safety is a part of pretty much any successful long term relationship. Your point is accurate to an extent, but the idea that women are unloyal to any guy they feel safe with is ridiculous.

But I get it's the OT and all women are whores, carry on.
Posted by forksup
Member since Dec 2013
8817 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 11:37 am to
These are sad.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16799 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:04 pm to
quote:

Holy crap, that site is pathetic.

someone needs to OT it up and post some super long OP and end it with walking the dinosaur.


Jesus, why did I read some of those threads. The depression on that site is way too much to handle.
This post was edited on 8/7/15 at 1:05 pm
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
48494 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:22 pm to
quote:

Every woman is a whore, except for my mother.


Ummmmm
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64719 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:24 pm to
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I'll try to condense everything as best I can so this post isn't too long... Back in 2012, my wife had a friend that came over while I was at work all the time. I warned her against this, but she didn't listen. Long story short here, he ended up raping her. In the months following the rape, she acted out by sleeping with 2 other men, one only one time, the other many times over the course of a few months(we'll call him 'X'). I found out about this, and we went to counseling to try and work through it all. For the most part, I do trust her, but I still have problems at times. She keeps wanting to chat with the man she slept with many times as well as the 1 night stand. I've told her many times that, while not happy about it, I won't complain too much about her talking to the 1 night stand guy, but I'd prefer her to NOT talk to X. Over the past few years, she'll end up chatting with X and I find out either by her telling me, or I randomly snoop and find chat logs. EVERY time this comes to light, it causes my mistrust to skyrocket and we hve problems for weeks on end between each other. Frequently, these times I know about will be either discussing our relationship or even some moderate flirting. She even talked with him about how she KNEW the affair with X would eventually happen as they almost got together while she was married to her former husband(whom was abusive and I rescued her from, BTW). She's seeing some online counselor(can't afford to goto an in-person one right now), and he has told her to change all her passwords and such so I cannot snoop into her chats anymore. For awhile, I have accepted this and was actually doing better on my end. About a week ago, she lets me know she's talking to X again. I have no idea for how long. Just yesterday(8/3/15), she was in the other room when an alarm on her phone went off. I went ahead and turned it off for her, and for some reason it completely unlocked her phone. Curiosity got the better of me and I tried to look at her conversations with X. In what little I did get to read, she was chatting with X about our relationship problems and basically belittling me in the process. She comes in and sees me on her phone and immediately takes it back. I explained what had happened to give me access to her phone, and asked her nicely if I could read the rest of the conversation so as to avoid me taking stuff out of context. She tells me she wants to ask her counselor if it'd be alright and that he had already scolded her for talking about our relationship stuff to ANYONE else. Her counselor tells her(just posting the relevant bit as he goes on about trial separation and such after this) "Tell him he needs to drop it. It isn't going to do either of you any good. It just feeds his desire not to trust you and invades your individual privacy." First of all, the ONLY times in the past year or so I've had trust issues with her is when X comes into the picture. Secondly, it feels to me that NOT showing me the entire onversation history feeds my mistrust in her more than reading it would. By not letting me read it, it makes it feel like there's something she's hiding. Things that she KNOWS would upset me even more than I already am. Am I in the wrong here? Even if they weren't chatting about relationship stuff and/or flirting, I feel like she just completely disregards my feelings on the matterI'll try to condense everything as best I can so this post isn't too long...
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Biggest moron in marriage history. Just THE biggest ever. This has to be a trashy couple iMO.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64719 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:31 pm to
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I'll take a cute girl next door if we click over a super model that I'll grow tired of one day.



Exactly. 9.9/10 times the girl next door type is 100x better for you in every other aspect of life, and she probably not that much less "physically attractive" than the "super model" type anyways. I can't stand people who oogle over attractive women, because its just dumb. The chick could be a fricking giant arse trap of misery. Honestly I dont find "super models" to be very naturally attractive anyways, and they're just sort of odd.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64719 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:33 pm to
quote:

A guy I know is fricking a married girl. He literally fricked her on the day of her wedding, that morning, in the hotel room she was going to use with her husband that night.

Whores




At some point that is going to boil over and destroy him, her, and everyone that was connected to that whether they like it or not. Sad arse world. The guy and girl deserve to get their asses handed to them, and they sound trashy as well.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16799 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

Biggest moron in marriage history. Just THE biggest ever. This has to be a trashy couple iMO.


This one someone called troll, does sound a bit unbelieveable though. Just hilarious and depressing. Sorry for the wall of text.

quote:

A little backstory - we have been married almost 3 years, no kids. My wife and I have always had a pretty good relationship, other than standard little things and a few money issues as of late. She has not been working for the last year. The house is in my name, and basically everything is mine. She has a lot of guy friends, and I am fine with all of them, except for one guy. The one guy (who has a girlfriend) is older, and really sorta ratty. She knew him from her old job. I remember a year or so ago, I flew back from out of town - and went out to meet her and her co-workers. I came into the room and this guy and my wife were sitting REALLY close together. I came in, went to the bar quick, and went over to where they were sitting - and the guy had moved seats quick. I think, whatever.. he is just a nerdy dude looking for friends. So I just wrote it off as a 'whatever'. Needless to say, my wife lost her job - and about three months ago my wife says she is out with some girlfriends. We stay in contact, and at about 2 am, she says she is wasted and crashing at her girlfriend's house. I say sure. no problem! The next morning she comes home and admits that she met that guy downtown - he is a facebook friend and it was his birthday and he was home alone - they hung out, she got drunk, and crashed on his couch. She volunteered this information. I was not happy about it, but glad she came clean. A few weeks after that my wife says she is crashing at another girlfriend's house to do a job. Im fine with it, and am not suspicious. A few weeks after that this guy comes to hang out at our place.. we are chatting, etc.. and he mentions hanging out with my wife at this girlfriend's house. Im thinking -why would she not tell me? Later I ask her. She admits it, and also admits to going to lunch with him a few times over the last few weeks. I tell her that I am not happy with her lying to me about this - and I would like for her to cool it with hanging out with this guy, and I think that he is a sneaky sh!t. She apologizes, but says she wants him as a friend. I warn her that she needs to be careful. Fast forward. They have hung out a few times, he has even come over to my place a couple of times. He seems okay, but Im still uneasy. A couple of weeks ago my wife went to a girlfriend's birthday party and crashed at her place. This Monday she went out with this guy for happy hour - she said she was also meeting a girlfriend - I had other plans. She did not get home until well after 2am. I was home and awake - I had also checked the phone logs and saw that she was spending an unusual amount of time texting this guy. (maybe I was late in doing this research) She pulled into the driveway and sat there for a while. Like, in the driveway for 10 minutes with the car off. I lay in bed and pretend I am sleeping. She gets into bed and immediately passes out. I grab her phone. Its got a code on it - this is new. I punch in a few numbers, and then punch in her birthday. viola. its unlocked. I go to read the texts to and from this guy. It appears she has deleted all of his texts prior to a month ago. Scrolling through the texts, most of it is just jibber jabber.. but there are quite a few texts where he says he misses her, and she says the same - has some xoxoxo hugs and kisses, etc. One of the texts is a picture of a singer with an orgasmic facial expression.. The singer looks like my wife, and the guy says "she looks like you, i recognize that expression' I keep looking, and find some texts from the night she went to her friend's birthday party. Needless to say at 1am she invited him to the party. The conversation basically went like this: him: I sure do have blueballs her: you should come to this party at X house him: okay, Ill see you soon Then texts from the next morning: her: thanks for not making me bleed him: I made a video for you thinking about last night. then back to regular chit chat. I find it strange that she didnt give him directions, and there was no address exchanged, etc. At this point, I want to throw up and I put the phone back under her pillow. I feel really sick that I didnt notice the red flags earlier, and now it seems like she screwed the guy. I slept on the couch that night. I told her yesterday that I think she is having an affair with this guy, she said I was crazy and that he is just a friend. I told her that I dont want her to hang out with him any more. She said she wouldnt hang out with him, but she is mad at me for being jealous and will sleep in the spare room for a while until she 'thinks about things' She didnt text him until last night at around 1am - multiple times.. What is the best way to confront with this evidence? It sure seems damning to me... She will get mad at me for snooping, but I dont care at this point. Please help!! I made screenshots, and I can print this stuff out. Should I just say 'look b!tch, I know you are cheating, here is the evidence, get out!' I love her like crazy, and our relationship has been great.. but now I feel sick.



This post was edited on 8/7/15 at 1:37 pm
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16799 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:36 pm to
Here is the update, again a wall of text:

quote:

Well, she has been living at her parents house for a little while now. I havent seen her since she has been there. However, she texts me saying she misses me - and wishes we could work things out. She said that she isnt talking to the guy anymore, and swears up and down that she hasnt been seeing him, and only talked to him a couple times about 'work'. She said that she wont take any jobs that he will be working at, and that she wants to see me. I haven't taken her up on the offer to get together - but its been playing a number on my head the last week or so. The other night we were texting on and off, and she said she was going 'out with friends' for the night to have a few drinks after work . Im not sure why she even told me - since she didn't invite me or anything. I had a weird gut feeling right when she told me. I could not get to sleep at all, and kept tossing and turning and thinking about her being out, and the possibility of her being with him. I know where the guy lives, so I get up, get dressed (its like 2:30 am) and go over to his house to see if her car is there. Its in this weird old apartment building. I get over to his apartment and sure enough, her car is out front. Im not really sure which apartment is his - all the lights seem to be off or curtains drawn at all the apartments. I walk over to the car, to make sure its hers (its pretty dark) - sure enough its hers.. its parked directly in front of one of the apartments. For proof, I take a quick picture of her car there, and start to turn around to leave when I hear a weird noise. Unsure of where it came from, I turn around and walk over towards an apartment when I hear the noise again - this time I know what it is.. its moaning. Moaning from both a man and a woman - and I recognize the voice. Im standing there in disbelief listening to this right outside the apartment door - the door is actually ajar a little.. by like 2 inches. I stand there and continue to hear more of the moaning. (It felt like I was standing there an eternity, but it was probably only a few seconds.) So I push the door open and they are naked together on the couch and don't even notice that I open the door. They are naked RIGHT THERE in front of me on a couch 7 feet from an ajar door and she is giving him a bj. I am obviously stunned. I get pissed and yell at them 'What the F!!!, F both of you!' and I walk away. She screams at first and says 'oh my god!' then she actually curses me. Immediately afterwords she calls me 8 times in a row. I don't answer. There are more details Im not going to get into... Needless to say - I am shaking right now even thinking about this. I was so stunned and sad the day after it happened - and now I am getting the rage. Serious rage that I am having a hard time controlling. I keep imagining my hands wrapped around that guy's neck, and seeing myself reacting differently - instead of walking away - walking inside and pummeling the guy into a wet pulp.. I am so pissed at myself for not taking a picture of them on the couch together.. I was feeling really crazy last night, and am still feeling really really crazy right now - and I dont know what to do. I wish I was making this up, but Im not.. I am literally having a hard time typing because my hands are shaking so much. This is the worst thing I have ever experienced.
This post was edited on 8/7/15 at 1:39 pm
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64719 posts
Posted on 8/7/15 at 1:43 pm to
quote:

the stat is not a polll, or anything like that, its a theory grounded in evo psychology - which you do not have to buy into, but itd be silly to disregard completely.


There's the keyword. "Theory". Using massive generalizations this "theory" was born. That's all I needed to know.


quote:

but itd be silly to disregard completely


I think it might play a very small role, but I find it incredibly ridiculous to reduce humans to the behavioral patterns of other animals. There's a reason humans hold dominion over the earth, and it wasn't because we were the largest beings, or the most sexually active beings, but because our brains gave us advantages the other species couldn't keep up with.

Yeah, its great you're a big hulking muscular sexual machine breeding every which way, but if your brain doesn't adapt then everything that gives you an advantage aside from the brain is fricking useless.

I can fire a gun accurately from 1000 yards away (not true, just an example), and that takes complex calculations within the brain to do with hand-eye coordination, or in some cases if I were intelligent enough to build a program to accurately fire 50-cals from 1000 yards away. It wouldnt matter at all about penis size, or largeness, because I could kill anyone I wanted with a simple weak button click or two. What does your large size matter now?

How do you explain Napoleon Bonaparte's reign? Adolf Hitler's reign and power? Countless other historical figures? Far too many examples that directly contradict that theory. I simply choose to believe humans are not reducible to base animal instincts. Those who choose to live according to those instincts I'm guessing live very empty lives, and probably do not accumulate much intelligence based on that belief (because under that belief the brain plays no factor apparently).
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