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re: Updated** 11/29 8:38am. Cheating and forgiveness

Posted on 11/21/17 at 6:04 pm to
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
16327 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 6:04 pm to
Even if her sociopathic arse did come back and act right (not happening), he would never trust her again. Any time she was 15 minutes late from picking up groceries, he'd be picturing her taking it up the arse from a stranger in the Walmart bathroom. Why would either one of them want to live like that?
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
26937 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 6:30 pm to
quote:

Even if her sociopathic arse did come back and act right (not happening), he would never trust her again. Any time she was 15 minutes late from picking up groceries, he'd be picturing her taking it up the arse from a stranger in the Walmart bathroom. Why would either one of them want to live like that?


This, once you break trust like that, imo, its impossible to repair.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 6:34 pm to
quote:

This, once you break trust like that, imo, its impossible to repair.


That's the bottom line.

As far as I am concerned, that bitch have punched her final ticket under my roof.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107519 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 7:01 pm to
Sick.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19975 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 7:17 am to
quote:

Because sometimes as a father you do what is best for your children and not just yourself. Lots of people saying just kick her to the curb, but there are probably two little ones that just want to see their mommy. Calling this person a beta is childish, this man seems like a real adult. I am pretty sure he knows better than anyone what he is getting back into... It may even take some pressure off him so he can be more of a father. I hope your wife, you and mother-in-law keep supporting him becuase he seems like good people to me.



GTFO. She left her husband and kids because sucking some other man's dick was more important to her. And you if you think that is OK then you are just as fricked up as the cuck boy is.

As far as the husband. He is weak. Mentally and emotionally weak. How long before, if not already, will she be doing this again? You talk about the children wanting their "mom" - and I use the term mom loosely - but what you conveniently forget is the trauma she is causing them by doing this.

Let's not forget the added bonus of this scenario - what if she is at home with the kids and another man comes over while the husband is at work? What if the kids walk in and see their mom getting plowed by someone or her performing acts? You say that would never happen with a good mom - well, she isn't a good mom. A good mom wouldn't think another man is more important than her kids. Bottom line.

As far as cuckboy goes, he is a spineless jellyfish who deserves exactly what he will be getting.
Posted by thebigmuffaletta
Member since Aug 2017
15431 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 7:46 am to
quote:

What do you baws think?


Tell your nephew to find someone who doesn't like riding the cock carousel.
Posted by thejudge
Westlake, LA
Member since Sep 2009
15054 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 8:23 am to
Tell him congrats on the herpes.


If a woman abandoned her kids she's seriously fricked up. A mother does not and never will abandon her kids
Posted by AUTiger45
The Ham
Member since Oct 2013
4043 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 8:24 am to
tell that dumb frick that the first time those kids got hurt was her fault but the next time will be squarely on him. it's not a matter of if but when with a woman like that.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
53509 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 8:39 am to
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For several months


quote:

Anyway, last weekend he gets a call from her, she wants to come back home and after several hours on the phone, he decides to take her back. He rents a U-Haul, dumps his kids off on his parents for a couple of days and drives to Tennessee to move her back. I don't have a problem with forgiving her for cheating, but I sure as hell wouldn't take her arse back. For me, it all boils down to whether or not she'll do it again.


Terrible. I would have filed the divorce papers within a week.

There is no forgiveness for abandoning your kids.
This post was edited on 11/22/17 at 8:40 am
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
42008 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 8:48 am to
Ouch if I was him her desire to come back would have zero to do with me.

He should have been lawyered up setting up custody case all along
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
32728 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 9:12 am to
He could probably get a pretty good divorce settlement if he did it now. She abandoned her kids on a whim, she’s clearly not fit to be a parent, and she abandoned the marriage willingly, so she shouldn’t merit any alimony
Posted by Fewer Kilometers
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
37900 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 9:56 am to
I can't imagine any infidelity where a moving truck is involved being referred to as "cheating".

"I sucked your friend's dick at the New Year's Eve party" - that's cheating.

"I moved to a different state to be with another guy." - that's the termination of the relationship.
Posted by FreddieMac
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
24838 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 9:58 am to
quote:

GTFO. She left her husband and kids because sucking some other man's dick was more important to her. And you if you think that is OK then you are just as fricked up as the cuck boy is.

As far as the husband. He is weak. Mentally and emotionally weak. How long before, if not already, will she be doing this again? You talk about the children wanting their "mom" - and I use the term mom loosely - but what you conveniently forget is the trauma she is causing them by doing this.

Let's not forget the added bonus of this scenario - what if she is at home with the kids and another man comes over while the husband is at work? What if the kids walk in and see their mom getting plowed by someone or her performing acts? You say that would never happen with a good mom - well, she isn't a good mom. A good mom wouldn't think another man is more important than her kids. Bottom line.

As far as cuckboy goes, he is a spineless jellyfish who deserves exactly what he will be getting.


Check out the Internet badass...
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
24293 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 10:07 am to
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Because sometimes as a father you do what is best for your children and not just yourself. Lots of people saying just kick her to the curb, but there are probably two little ones that just want to see their mommy. Calling this person a beta is childish, this man seems like a real adult. I am pretty sure he knows better than anyone what he is getting back into... It may even take some pressure off him so he can be more of a father. I hope your wife, you and mother-in-law keep supporting him becuase he seems like good people to me.







I don't really know how to put this, but wow! What is best for his children is for him to continue to be strong and keep pushing. They will respect him a whole lot more when they become adults. His son(if he has one) will see him as a shining example of what a real man is. His daughter(if he has one) will see him as a man that she needs to marry. One that fights through it all and will do whatever it takes to make his household work without the mom. Taking her back sets a very bad example for children because they'll replicate what they see as adults. Simply putting it, he is justifying their future bad behavior as adults.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88503 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 10:09 am to
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a man that she needs to marry.

Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
24293 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 10:16 am to
Well maybe you didn't get the context. He shouldn't take her back. He should have just move on with his life and continue you to be a good father. All the hours work will be appreciated when his children are adults. That will rub off on his daughter. She will pick a man that can and will do what it takes to provide for the family.
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
11968 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 10:19 am to
with kids all bets are off...cant make an informed decision on his situation without know them
Posted by FreddieMac
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
24838 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 10:26 am to
quote:

I don't really know how to put this, but wow! What is best for his children is for him to continue to be strong and keep pushing. They will respect him a whole lot more when they become adults. His son(if he has one) will see him as a shining example of what a real man is. His daughter(if he has one) will see him as a man that she needs to marry. One that fights through it all and will do whatever it takes to make his household work without the mom. Taking her back sets a very bad example for children because they'll replicate what they see as adults. Simply putting it, he is justifying their future bad behavior as adults.


Yep, that is some pretty dumb pop psychology. If only life were that simple.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45394 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 11:46 am to
At the next family get together you should all sit down with her and have your lists of questions ready. If she is brave enough to abandon her family, then return, she is brave enough to explain her actions to all of those she affected.

She has affected the whole family so the whole family gets to sit in on her explanation. She owes it to you all. As with any serious talk, or conversation, it sometimes breaks the ice to start off with a little joke. Might I suggest you ask her if she was born with the whore gene?

This should get the ball rolling.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
78071 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 11:59 am to
He's a moron. She did far more than cheat.
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