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Updated** 11/29 8:38am. Cheating and forgiveness
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:54 am
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:54 am
For several months, my nephew (by marriage) has been going through a rough time with his marriage. It all started when his wife (no pics) of 6 years ran off with a dude she met on FB to Tennessee, abandoning my nephew and two kids. When she bolted, he had to take on two jobs just to keep up with the bills which put more stress on the kids, because he doesn't have a lot of time to spend with them. My wife and his parents has been taken turns doing what they can to help him out with his kids, cooking, making sure they get to school, etc. That's the short version of the story.
Anyway, last weekend he gets a call from her, she wants to come back home and after several hours on the phone, he decides to take her back. He rents a U-Haul, dumps his kids off on his parents for a couple of days and drives to Tennessee to move her back. I don't have a problem with forgiving her for cheating, but I sure as hell wouldn't take her arse back. For me, it all boils down to whether or not she'll do it again.
What do you baws think?
Update 11/29
I spent the better part of last night on the phone with my BIL who filled me in on what's going on with his son. It seems that my nephew setup marriage counseling sessions in an attempt to save his marriage and after a couple of sessions last week, the two of them called it quits. His wife originally wanted to take one child with her and leave him with the other one, but my nephew disagreed, he didn't want to split them up and if worst comes worst, he'll sue to get custody of both. As it stands right now, she took the kids with her back to Mississippi where her parents live. My nephew contacted an attorney in the Covington area and plans to file for a divorce. What a fricking mess!
Very little was mentioned about what happened in the sessions with the marriage counselor, but I'm willing to bet that she's not quite over Craig in TN. The biggest mistake my nephew made was taking her arse back, he should've have hung up on the bitch and filed for a divorce.
Anyway, last weekend he gets a call from her, she wants to come back home and after several hours on the phone, he decides to take her back. He rents a U-Haul, dumps his kids off on his parents for a couple of days and drives to Tennessee to move her back. I don't have a problem with forgiving her for cheating, but I sure as hell wouldn't take her arse back. For me, it all boils down to whether or not she'll do it again.
What do you baws think?
Update 11/29
I spent the better part of last night on the phone with my BIL who filled me in on what's going on with his son. It seems that my nephew setup marriage counseling sessions in an attempt to save his marriage and after a couple of sessions last week, the two of them called it quits. His wife originally wanted to take one child with her and leave him with the other one, but my nephew disagreed, he didn't want to split them up and if worst comes worst, he'll sue to get custody of both. As it stands right now, she took the kids with her back to Mississippi where her parents live. My nephew contacted an attorney in the Covington area and plans to file for a divorce. What a fricking mess!
Very little was mentioned about what happened in the sessions with the marriage counselor, but I'm willing to bet that she's not quite over Craig in TN. The biggest mistake my nephew made was taking her arse back, he should've have hung up on the bitch and filed for a divorce.
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 9:11 am
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Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:54 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Don't do it
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:55 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Sounds like a classic beta
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:55 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Need pics to make a decision
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:55 am to Roadkill Gumbo
quote:
What do you baws think?
you know the answer to this
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:55 am to Roadkill Gumbo
PIIHB then tell her to GTFO
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:56 am to Roadkill Gumbo
He sounds like a socialist.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:56 am to Roadkill Gumbo
frick that bitch.
eta: the only reason she wants to come back is that her current fling wants nothing to do with her so now she needs a place to live.....until the next fling comes along.
eta: the only reason she wants to come back is that her current fling wants nothing to do with her so now she needs a place to live.....until the next fling comes along.
This post was edited on 11/21/17 at 8:58 am
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:56 am to Roadkill Gumbo
The more telling sign is the fact that a mother would abandon her children like that. That tells you all you need to know. She’ll probably do it again.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:57 am to Roadkill Gumbo
This is beyond cheating (which would be enough for me to end it)....she completely abandoned her family and responsibility without care for the consequences. I would divorce and let her earn her way back to being the mother of my children
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:57 am to Roadkill Gumbo
I'd be dumping her out somewhere along the interstate in/around Memphis. Let nature (the Urban kinda nature) run it's course.
If she's ever heard from again, I'd allow whatever visitation the courts mandated, that's all.
If she's ever heard from again, I'd allow whatever visitation the courts mandated, that's all.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:58 am to Roadkill Gumbo
quote:
For me, it all boils down to whether or not she'll do it again.
What do you baws think?
It's not whether she will. She definitely will.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:58 am to Roadkill Gumbo
quote:
she wants to come back home
quote:
He rents a U-Haul, dumps his kids off on his parents for a couple of days and drives to Tennessee to move her back
What a fricking loser. He'll being watching her get fricked while he cries in the corner and he'll come home to his kids crying while their mom has either left them alone or is getting railed upstairs.
This post was edited on 11/21/17 at 9:03 am
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:59 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Nope, for multiple reasons. And dont do it for the kids.....trust me.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:59 am to Tyga Woods
quote:
The more telling sign is the fact that a mother would abandon her children like that. That tells you all you need to know. She’ll probably do it again.
This. She didn’t just cheat. She abandoned her family for months all because she got attention from someone on Facebook. No telling what the selfish psycho has been doing.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:59 am to Roadkill Gumbo
I would require that she agree to marital counseling. Clearly if she's doing something like this, something is wrong.
And with all due respect, your nephew is only telling you his side of the story. You don't know what he may not be telling you (did he have an affair and she found out, so she ran off in return?)
If she's not willing to seek counseling, then he's likely setting himself up for failure. And if she does it again, he should dump her for good.
And with all due respect, your nephew is only telling you his side of the story. You don't know what he may not be telling you (did he have an affair and she found out, so she ran off in return?)
If she's not willing to seek counseling, then he's likely setting himself up for failure. And if she does it again, he should dump her for good.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 8:59 am to Sidicous
quote:
dumping her out somewhere along the interstate in/around Memphis.
I was thinking Greenville, MS but Memphis works too.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:00 am to Roadkill Gumbo
quote:
What do you baws think?
Your nephew has no self esteem and his kids will grow up not respecting him
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:00 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Leaving your spouse for someone else, sure. Completely abandoning your kids? frick her.
Posted on 11/21/17 at 9:01 am to Roadkill Gumbo
If a chick wants to frick around, that's one thing, but for her to totally abandon her kids like that is an offense that is unforgivable. Your nephew sounds like a giant pussy.
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