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re: Today’s the day I’ve been dreading for months
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:10 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:10 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
1. Get divorce final.
2. If possible, get her fired for inter-office romance.
3. Vasectomy
4. Bang chicks 10 years younger than her until your dick falls off.
2. If possible, get her fired for inter-office romance.
3. Vasectomy
4. Bang chicks 10 years younger than her until your dick falls off.
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Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:11 pm to caro81
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you also didn't lose 2 sons down the drain either
I don't think this is what Op is saying. He's saying *she* threw two sons down the drain, as a result of being willing to destroy the marriage for Jody.
Anyhow, don't badmouth her to your kids. They'll come to the correct conclusion, but also make sure you're there for them every possible moment.
Don't take her back. She want to. But don't.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:11 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
If you've been dreading it, you knew it was coming. If I were you, I'd be relieved. Accept it's over. Try and get along with her and co-parent as much as possible. Get on bumble. Get some strange.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:12 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
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2 sons down the drain
I send thousands down the shower drain daily.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:13 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Her lost chief… move on
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:14 pm to caro81
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you also didn't lose 2 sons down the drain either
I've been seeing this a lot and I might be wrong but I think he means the fact that they shared two sons meant nothing to her, not that he is losing two sons.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:14 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
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Focus on yourself and your boys.
All the rest will work itself out
Do not take her back, EVER.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:15 pm to Triple13
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Get on bumble. Get some strange.
They say the best way to get over someone is to get on top of someone else.
Bonus points if it's a friend of hers. Just don't jump into something serious. Have a little fun and sow some wild oats first
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:16 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Get a therapist, good lawyer, love your kids, and hit the gym.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:17 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
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Old lady told me she doesn’t love me and she’s in love with a guy she met at work
you should be thanking him for taking her of your hands.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:18 pm to Trauma14
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If the attorney says don't have sex with her ever again, especially during the separation process, DON'T SLEEP WITH HER AGAIN.
Yup.
May be considered reconciliation and the process restarts.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:19 pm to THog
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How do you process this and move on, I have no appetite I got the shakes. I’m just at a loss for words boys. I love her.
You'll get over that. She already has. It sucks and will suck for a while, but the advice you need has already been written. Heed it.
Get a good lawyer, today.
Go to the gym, work on making yourself better.
Don't start drinking, partying, or running her down in front of the kids.
It will get better, but for now you are in damage control mode.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:19 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Sometimes I wonder if y’all are for real or you guys are just writing out some weird fanfic
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they had sex on the first night and have been soul bonded she says.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:19 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
Sorry to hear this, brotherman. As others have said, get an attorney and don't do anything stupid. Document it all - whatever she says, does, etc.
Unfortunately, life is going to suck for a while. Your kids are young enough that they will adjust. That's where your source of pain will lie. Not going to sugar coat it.
Just be the best Dad you can and give them the most stable environment you can. Never, ever talk bad about her in front of them. Never. No matter how much a POS she is. They don't deserve that and they would remember what you did. The will ask questions, and it will bother you, but as I told mine - sometimes things don't work out and people are better off as friends. They will see as they grow older. Just be the best you can.
Also, you have to realize that what you had is no more. I know, I was in the same boat when I found out mine was fricking someone else. Circle your wagons and work on you. That's all you can do.
Unfortunately, life is going to suck for a while. Your kids are young enough that they will adjust. That's where your source of pain will lie. Not going to sugar coat it.
Just be the best Dad you can and give them the most stable environment you can. Never, ever talk bad about her in front of them. Never. No matter how much a POS she is. They don't deserve that and they would remember what you did. The will ask questions, and it will bother you, but as I told mine - sometimes things don't work out and people are better off as friends. They will see as they grow older. Just be the best you can.
Also, you have to realize that what you had is no more. I know, I was in the same boat when I found out mine was fricking someone else. Circle your wagons and work on you. That's all you can do.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:20 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
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she’s in love with a guy she met at work, he different she says, they had sex on the first night and have been soul bonded she says.
How long have they worked together?
The first night? you knew she was going out with him?
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:21 pm to LSUFanHouston
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So she cheats and is trying to blame you.
They all do that as justification for their actions
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:21 pm to Fun Bunch
Lawyer up fast and find a good one. My Brother didn’t and he’s still paying huge repercussions years later. Women are ruthless when they spot money and weakness.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:22 pm to finchmeister08
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you should be thanking him for taking her of your hands
Hard as it is to admit, it's true.
Once she decides to step out, the only step is the first one. If it wasn't with him, she'd have found someone else.
People fall out of love, unfortunately. Some have the decency to let you know beforehand. Others don't.
You're better off in the long run with a woman that is loyal, rare as they are these days.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:24 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
I'd request an admin to delete this. Go lawyer up. Sorry that this happened to you. It punches you right in the gut but make sure you fall forward.
Posted on 8/24/23 at 2:25 pm to deathvalleyfreak43
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