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re: Today’s the day I’ve been dreading for months

Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:21 pm to
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62790 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:21 pm to
Take money out of your joint accounts now.
Posted by Lake08
Member since Jun 2023
554 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:22 pm to
If she slept with a guy on their first “date”, I can promise you she’s had multiple partners
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
32429 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:22 pm to
quote:

There is no such thing as an amicable divorce



bullshite.
Posted by jpainter6174
Boss city
Member since Feb 2014
5295 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:22 pm to
quote:

rondo

quote:

A list of things I will never post on TD:

quote:

- Butthole pics (mine)


Wtf am I even wasting my time here for then, god damnit almost 10 years of waiting and now I know Ill never get to see Rondo's brown eye.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19258 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:22 pm to
First go get you some strange to clear you head. Second Lawyer up. Same thing happened to me as a young man minus the kids. Married to my second wife for 25 years. God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers
Posted by caliegeaux
Member since Aug 2004
10153 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:23 pm to
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they had sex on the first night


at least she loved you enough to not just drag it out.
Posted by deathvalleyfreak43
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13233 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:23 pm to
quote:

This is true. She’ll probably offer you a rebound at some point. Be sure to reject her when she does. It’ll sting more.


The sad thing is a will probably fall for it… oh well taken off work for the rest of the day. If anyone needs me I’ll be at the parrains bar then Ivars
Posted by ZenFNmaster
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Nov 2007
2474 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:23 pm to
Hire an attorney, treat her like she is an enemy behind your gates. Do everything your attorney says, and do it today.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69088 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:23 pm to
Sucks man.
I had a fight with the wife and hit my limit. I gave an ultimatum expecting change. Instead she called my bluff.
She had a friend waiting for her to be single. But 12 years older, fatter, balder and poorer than me.
I'm partially upset and also partially relieved.

I mean I want to destroy this dude. I've thought about all kids of fricked up stuff.
Though the way I got past it was to travel and to get out there and find other women.

Enjoy your life. Don't only work and be pissed. Travel. Travel a lot.
Go out. Have fun.

I'm trying to fill up my passport.
Women move on really fast. And you'll regret every chance to dip out that you didn't take.

In the end this is a positive. The love wasn't real. And her new love will fade a is based on bullshite.
Just hold your head up and LIVE.


I didn't get an attorney, I filed for divorce for $495. But that was a mistake as she fell behind on car notes and my credit took a hit.
I wish I sued her arse.
This post was edited on 8/24/23 at 1:25 pm
Posted by jpainter6174
Boss city
Member since Feb 2014
5295 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:24 pm to
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at least she loved you enough to not just drag it out.


Or she loved the other dude so much she wanted to be with him... ouch!
Posted by WWII Collector
Member since Oct 2018
6999 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:24 pm to
First off.. Don't blame yourself... It's going to be normal to be upset and have emotions... But you damn sure can live without her... But the boys can't live without you.

Take it one day at a time... Don;t drink and wallow in self pity either... This crap happens and women (And men) have been screwing up since the dawn of time...

No matter what.. God does have a plan for you and you will see it one day and be thankful and grateful.. Until then.. Concentrate on you... There will be a day that you'll be dating again and this will be behind you... Put it behind you and move forward...
This post was edited on 8/24/23 at 1:25 pm
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
38735 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:24 pm to
quote:

had sex on the first night and have been soul bonded


I'm not going to lie, I felt like that with most women I slept (first time) with before finding my wife.
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2673 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:24 pm to
quote:

they had sex on the first night



First night of what? Work?
This post was edited on 8/24/23 at 1:40 pm
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4055 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:24 pm to
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How do you process this and move on, I have no appetite I got the shakes. I’m just at a loss for words boys. I love her.


As much as you are hurting right now I would steer clear of alcohol and other drugs (if you are into that). Let the process run its course while you are not masking your feelings. Everything happens for a reason and the good Lord never gives you anything you cannot handle.

Prayers be with you brother.
Posted by h0bnail
Member since Sep 2009
7412 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:24 pm to
quote:

What the frick does she think this is, Avatar?




Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38519 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:25 pm to
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The sad thing is a will probably fall for it… oh well taken off work for the rest of the day. If anyone needs me I’ll be at the parrains bar then Ivars


You should buy a sailboat on the way home.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:25 pm to
Damn baw.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22169 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:25 pm to
frick that cheatin' bitch. Move forward and live your best life, take care of your boys.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
115833 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:26 pm to
quote:

He is good for one every few weeks.

OP will never return to the thread.


Ah.

Not familiar with the OP's work.

That's disappointing, there are a lot of guys going through this, so there still can be some good advice for people.

Some.

Ok very little.
Posted by tunechi
Member since Jun 2009
10188 posts
Posted on 8/24/23 at 1:26 pm to
quote:

If anyone needs me I’ll be at the parrains bar then Ivars


no one does
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