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Today is the 45th anniversary of the worst day of my life

Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:27 am
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
27843 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:27 am
The first 24 hours I ever spent Without talking to my Dad.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30049 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:29 am to
RIP to your dad
This post was edited on 12/5/23 at 9:30 am
Posted by Smeg
Member since Aug 2018
9248 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:32 am to
45 years of not talking to your dad?
Some guys get all the breaks.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259992 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:38 am to
Its a weird feeling. I wasnt that close to my dad, but when he passed away all the times I missed with him became so important.

Posted by AUCom96
Alabama
Member since May 2020
4968 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:38 am to
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I know you're trying to be edgy, and I do appreciate this may not be the best avenue for OP to explore his grief over past traumatic events, but if this truly was the first thing that hit your brain get some help. This is world class a-hole behavior.



Some people have productive hobbies, some people are just dicks.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
11852 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:39 am to
RIP in peace.

My dad died last year. He used to call me every afternoon around 4. If my phone rings around that time I automatically think, "there's dad," until I realize it isn't going to be him.
Posted by Big Scrub TX
Member since Dec 2013
33375 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:39 am to
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Today is the 45th anniversary of the worst day of my life
The first 24 hours I ever spent Without talking to my Dad.
Were you a child when he passed?
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
150580 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:40 am to
45 years is a lifetime, and I bet there are days where it hurts just as much as it on day 1.

Buddy of mine lost his son to cancer last year and he has said that everybody tells him time heals everything, but the more time passes the more he misses his boy and it just makes his grief harder. That always stuck with me.
Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25414 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:43 am to
I don’t have Facebook because of things like this
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
28937 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:43 am to
Makes me thankful to still have my dad around. Not looking forward to the day it does happen, assuming I don't pass before him.

Sorry OP.
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
27843 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:45 am to
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RIP to your dad


When he didn't come home on time, we already knew it was bad.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98144 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:46 am to
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Buddy of mine lost his son to cancer last year and he has said that everybody tells him time heals everything, but the more time passes the more he misses his boy and it just makes his grief harder. That always stuck with me.


My grandmother's sister and her husband lost a child in infancy. I went with them to the cemetery one time. They were in their eighties and talked about it like it was yesterday.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124302 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:47 am to
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everybody tells him time heals everything,


I hate this saying

It’s bullshite. Time doesn’t heal anything
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
20275 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:48 am to
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Buddy of mine lost his son to cancer last year and he has said that everybody tells him time heals everything, but the more time passes the more he misses his boy and it just makes his grief harder. That always stuck with me.


I know people who have lost a child. I don't know how I could muster the energy to go on.
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
27843 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:51 am to
quote:

quote:
Today is the 45th anniversary of the worst day of my life
The first 24 hours I ever spent Without talking to my Dad.
Were you a child when he passed?

I was 16. The last thing he did was give me money for school, and watched my brother and sister get in the Eldorado before we left.
Posted by tigahland
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3214 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:54 am to
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auggie




Posted by Roy Curado
Member since Jul 2021
968 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:56 am to
Losing my dad was the worst day of my life so far.

Hang in there brother. Im sure he would be proud of you. I am going on 6 years and it feels like yesterday sometimes.
Posted by killedbyindians
Earth
Member since Jun 2022
1160 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:57 am to
Wrong. Time heals nothing. In my experience you never “get over” losing someone close to you, but you eventually get better at dealing with it.
Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25414 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:58 am to
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47465 posts
Posted on 12/5/23 at 9:59 am to
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It’s bullshite. Time doesn’t heal anything

Time heals your DWI convictions.

Time does heal divorces and such but not the death of a loved one, especially one lost way too soon.
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