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Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:48 pm to Lickitty Split
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The wife is jealous of potentially having a younger girl around who will likely take most of the attention away from her. The younger girl may invite her friends which also causes the wife to have to be more protective. She likely has become lazy in trying to remain impressive to you and doesn’t want to have to expend that energy.
Maybe, but I'd say it's more just an observation that it is two people at completely different stages of their life. I guess it can work if the two really want it to. I'm a dude and think it's pretty creepy.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:49 pm to BluegrassBelle
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If I haven't matured from 19 year old me, I've got some problems
have you though?
probably only difference is that you want kids now since your fertility window closes. that's just a biological reality tho, not a maturity growth
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:49 pm to Ross
quote:The Golden Rule
Half your age plus seven
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:50 pm to 3morereps
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Thoughts on 34 year old professional dating 19 year old college student
Thoughts?
How much to purchase the girl?
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:50 pm to Blitzed
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Most 19 year olds lack that maturity needed for a healthy relationship.
So do most 20, 30, 40, 50 and 60 year olds.
Probably 70 80 and 90 too but I haven't tried them yet.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:52 pm to rocket31
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have you though?
If you haven’t changed much from the time you were 19 then you probably have some sort of development disorder.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:54 pm to 3morereps
I met my wife when I was 31 and she was 19. We dated on and off while she finished undergrad and started seriously dating when she was in med school. We got married after 8 years and have been married for 14 years.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:56 pm to Lima Whiskey
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The gap actually improves the quality of your relationship. You know what you want and what you’re doing. And she hasn’t been embittered.
Eh, to each their own. My wife is actually slightly older than I am and we met in my late 20's.
Her having a few failed relationships previously...I think it helps. She seems to recognize that even if I have some irritating idiosycracies, it could be much worse.
I think it's a benefit when both sides are beyond the point they think their prince or princess is along. But more to the point, even my own interests and tastes have evolved a lot since my mid-early 20's and I'm fine with that.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:59 pm to 3morereps
Your wife is afraid you will get red pilled.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:00 pm to soccerfüt
I had a buddy I lived with for a while after my divorce. I was on the road a lot and one trip I called him on my way back to town and he says “if Jenny (not real name) is over this weekend don’t tease her or me about age”.
He was 62 at the time and “Jenny” and he met in a bar where she got in with a fake ID.
He was 62 at the time and “Jenny” and he met in a bar where she got in with a fake ID.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:00 pm to 3morereps
I met my wife when she was 19, and I was 34. We didn’t date then, but we ran into each other 3 years later and started.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:02 pm to The Spleen
Everybody can have their own opinion on it. I’m a little younger than the guy referenced in this thread but I still think young adults are good looking etc.
This post was edited on 6/30/20 at 9:58 pm
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:03 pm to Rep520
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even my own interests and tastes have evolved a lot since my mid-early 20's and I'm fine with that.
I'd prefer to be in roughly the same phase of life at least
A little older or younger is no big deal otherwise. To each their own though.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:03 pm to wildtigercat93
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If you haven’t changed much from the time you were 19 then you probably have some sort of development disorder.
I've probably gotten less mature as I've gotten older. Then again I have the Benjamin Button's disease.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:04 pm to 3morereps
As long as he isn’t married with 4 kids
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:04 pm to 3morereps
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worried this girl will try to introduce me to her friends.
Sounds like we can expect a divorce thread from you later on.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:09 pm to 3morereps
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One of my (lucky) buddies is dating a smoking hot youngin. 15 years is a small gap compared to a lot of my older friends. My wife thinks it is disturbing and doesn’t want me around them. I think she is insecure and worried this girl will try to introduce me to her friends.
My opinion is you are full of yourself.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:11 pm to 3morereps
pro
Posted on 6/30/20 at 3:12 pm to rocket31
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have you though?
Yes. I have.
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probably only difference is that you want kids now since your fertility window closes. that's just a biological reality tho, not a maturity growth
I actually don't want kids. At least not any biological ones at this point. But I was also told fairly early on there was a chance I wouldn't be able to have them so it's not something I've really gotten hung up on. The SO has a daughter he raised from his previous marriage and that's plenty enough for me.
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