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re: Thoughts on 34 year old professional dating 19 year old college student
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:41 pm to X123F45
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:41 pm to X123F45
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I went slightly lower than that for a one nighter post divorce. It was nice, but I shame showered for an hour the next morning
I’m surprised someone fricked around on you and divorced you. My surprise comes from the fact that anyone would have you in the first place
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Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:43 pm to PrivatePublic
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Literally everyone in this thread that says weird or creepy is jealous. Anyone that has had 19 year old pussy would not turn it down if given another shot.
Or they can discern the difference between a piece of arse and someone you should actually date in a mature relationship.
I didn't even like dating people under 21 when I was 21. I can't imagine the other issues that would come up in an actual functional relationship.
This post was edited on 6/30/20 at 2:45 pm
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:43 pm to Boring
yup my dude. that's why we are seeing so many deranged Karen's in the wild. old women lose their minds once male attention dries up
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:43 pm to Boring
quote:She's 19 yrs old, she is literally in the early stages of her college years. She's a sophomore.
We have a serious Peter Pan Syndrome issue in this country with both genders. If I had to guess, I'd say this girl is still mentally, emotionally, and socially stuck in her college years.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:43 pm to Tiger Prawn
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I don't know what I'd even have in common to talk about with a 19 year old chick.
There’s a different power dynamic, to a degree, she will worship you and make you the focus of her life. And that dedication and love is charming.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:43 pm to 3morereps
I dated a 19 year old when I was 32. Lasted 2.5 years.
I think that's the most you could get out of a relationship like that.
I think that's the most you could get out of a relationship like that.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:43 pm to 3morereps
Sounds like the 34 year old is pretty immature.
I mean unless he just has no plans to settle down and start a family - then by all means live it up and have fun with the 19 year old. But if he wants to settle down and start a family, at 34 years old he should be dating for that. 15 years isn’t a crazy difference later in life but 34 vs 19 are worlds apart. If he’s trying to settle down with a 19 year old, there’s some red flags there.
I mean unless he just has no plans to settle down and start a family - then by all means live it up and have fun with the 19 year old. But if he wants to settle down and start a family, at 34 years old he should be dating for that. 15 years isn’t a crazy difference later in life but 34 vs 19 are worlds apart. If he’s trying to settle down with a 19 year old, there’s some red flags there.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:43 pm to Lima Whiskey
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Camille Paglia
I went to read more about her and saw this...
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:44 pm to PrivatePublic
quote:This man speaks the truth.
Anyone that has had 19 year old pussy would not turn it down if given another shot.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:44 pm to fallguy_1978
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Even half my age + 7 is a bit younger than I'd ever want to date. What would I have in common with a 28 yr old at 42?
I'm not sure 38 year old me would tolerate 26 year old me that well, let alone a 26 year old woman.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:45 pm to RT1941
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She's 19 yrs old, she is literally in the early stages of her college years. She's a sophomore.
Redacted: now I'm very confused
This post was edited on 6/30/20 at 2:46 pm
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:45 pm to 3morereps
I was told the cutoff is half your age plus seven. So she would need to be 24 or people will think it’s creepy.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:45 pm to 3morereps
Women always use shaming tactics when men aren't falling over for them anymore. I married a younger Hispanic woman (she was only seven years younger than me mind you) and got loads of comments from women in my social circle saying that I shouldn't date younger women or Latinas.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:46 pm to BluegrassBelle
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someone you should actually date in a mature relationship
the myth of female maturity. one of the most amusing copes of them all
women never fully mature, the same drama and cattiness we see at age 19, you'll also see at age 39, etc.
one glance at facebook confirms this too
This post was edited on 6/30/20 at 2:47 pm
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:46 pm to Tonio
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I’m surprised someone fricked around on you and divorced you. My surprise comes from the fact that anyone would have you in the first place
I did the divorcing. It was a few years too late.
As for the second part of your insult, have you ever met someone who is disgustingly charming?
<---persuasive
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:46 pm to 3morereps
This type of thread seems to come up often. A lot of the guys sound jealous and impose some made up formula of what is an appropriate age or not. Just recently we had the thread about guys in the early part of the 20th century marrying teenagers while they were in their mid twenties. I don’t condone that but it was a different time and people have different reasons. I don’t judge.
While your preference may be women who are past kid making age, others may prefer younger adults who aren’t used up and jaded by dudes that have treated them like shite and cheated on them. Also, people mature differently and also have different goals.
The wife is jealous of potentially having a younger girl around who will likely take most of the attention away from her. The younger girl may invite her friends which also causes the wife to have to be more protective. She likely has become lazy in trying to remain impressive to you and doesn’t want to have to expend that energy.
I say encourage your friend in his happiness but be cautious of the girlfriend’s friends so as not to get yourself in trouble.
While your preference may be women who are past kid making age, others may prefer younger adults who aren’t used up and jaded by dudes that have treated them like shite and cheated on them. Also, people mature differently and also have different goals.
The wife is jealous of potentially having a younger girl around who will likely take most of the attention away from her. The younger girl may invite her friends which also causes the wife to have to be more protective. She likely has become lazy in trying to remain impressive to you and doesn’t want to have to expend that energy.
I say encourage your friend in his happiness but be cautious of the girlfriend’s friends so as not to get yourself in trouble.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:47 pm to Rep520
The oldest girl I’ve dated was 25, it’s not the issue you think it is.
The gap actually improves the quality of your relationship. You know what you want and what you’re doing. And she hasn’t been embittered.
The gap actually improves the quality of your relationship. You know what you want and what you’re doing. And she hasn’t been embittered.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:48 pm to 3morereps
well they can't both have alcoholic drinks while dining out. Legally can't even provide them for her in private. While he's been legal for 13 years and its just a normal thing to him...she hasn't even hit the age to where she is legal and still carded every time.
That'd maybe last for a few times and then even I'd pull the plug...never consider it as dating though.
That'd maybe last for a few times and then even I'd pull the plug...never consider it as dating though.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:48 pm to rocket31
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the myth of female maturity. one of the most amusing copes of them all
women never fully mature, the same drama and cattiness we see at age 19, you'll also see at age 39, etc.
one glance at facebook confirms this too
Plenty of men that never mature either. Maybe it'd be helpful if they found each other and spared the rest of us.
If I haven't matured from 19 year old me, I've got some problems. But I'd say that for anyone.
Posted on 6/30/20 at 2:48 pm to Limitlesstigers
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Women always use shaming tactics when men aren't falling over for them anymore
exactly. "you're just immature!"
just lol
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