re: The lack of men wearing suits at weddings and funerals is sad.

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a wedding this weekend that is very formal, I've actually been asked to wear my uniform

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Is that a thing?

It's a teensy but rude to not let all guests wear costumes IMHO FWIW

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it's at the Naval Academy

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Ohhhh a military uniform, then? I thought you meant your regular uniform.

I made the costume joke about your daily duds FTR

It is sad.

My grandfather did not leave the house without a coat and tie. He worked in his field in coveralls, but if he had to go anywhere but the feed store he took a shower, shined his shoes, and put on a coat and tie.

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My grandfather did not leave the house without a coat and tie. He worked in his field in coveralls,

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my Dad bought this old house on about 5-7 acres behind our house to use as his office, his therapy was his garden, always had a huge garden, he would walk to and from work, after work he would stop in the garden and work for a bit, still in his suit and tie, I have a pic of him riding on his tractor prepping the garden in his suit, we used to call him "Mr. Douglas" (from Green Acres)

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Sounds like a lot of time wasted.

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different era baw, sounds like ole baw probably used his time wisely, just because you're not on a computer or iPhone doesn't mean you're not bust, in fact I think it's just the opposite

Sorry I'm not wearing a suit to the wedding of some people I hardly know when it's 95 outside

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My grandfather did not leave the house without a coat and tie. He worked in his field in coveralls, but if he had to go anywhere but the feed store he took a shower, shined his shoes, and put on a coat and tie.

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Was just having conversation with some folks in a meeting at the plant last week. Almost every older plant facility has locker rooms and showers(if they haven't been repurposed) that go 95% unused. The reason is your professional folks like engineers and managers dressed in shirt and tie and maybe coat until the 80s.
When they'd go out into field they'd change into a coveralls or 'field clothes' and when done they'd shower and dress back up to go into the buildings.

Now professionals in plants wear jeans or khakis, dri-fit polos or fishing shirts, and business casual 'sport' looking shoes. And they usually bring an extra shirt to keep in office if they get dirty/sweaty.

The trend is clearly gone but some evidence of it remains.


I think dressing up for work is fricking retarded. Save it for weddings, funerals, and events.

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Perhaps a lot of poors where the OP lives. Weddings and funerals that I attend are all suits, and if you're not rolling in a custom suit you are kinda trashy.

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Summer weddings in Wisconsin might see a high of 82-85.

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Apparently he was so excited to be invited to my wedding, he made his wife take him to Men's Warehouse because he didn't want to look like a slob.

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What a great guy. Thats awesome. Hope he had fun.

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I'm probably showing up to the funeral in my work clothes (khakis and polo) since I'd be coming from work and going back to work after the services.

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Are you implying you can’t wear a suit to work and the funeral? Seems like you could wear a suit to both.