re: Stepdad takes daughter off insurance after not getting invited to her graduation.

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He was paying for the whole wedding and the daughter wanted her real dad to walk her down the aisle.

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I would assume that this happens every weekend.

Dudes wife is a bitch. She should have shut that shite down with the quickness. Sounds like you need a new wife too.

And hell yes on taking off insurance. You have to do that shite to your own children at some point. Let her and her momma learn a lesson.


People saying two wrongs don’t make a right are wrong. This isn’t a wrong. It’s a consequence.
When it comes to parenting always giving in is horrible for your child. Spare the rod spoil the child isn’t about beatings. It’s about consequences.

People, especially kids, always want to do what they want.
Fine. You want to be an a-hole? Then pay for it yourself.


That’s not a wrong.

Good move dad. I don’t blame him one bit. This is total and complete lack of respect and appreciation for everything he had done.

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She invited the Aubts boyfriend and not him?

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no

When you start playing on another man’s saved game, don’t be surprised when finishing the game doesn’t feel as good as you had hoped

So where was her real dad when she needed a car, college tuition and a wedding paid for?

Sperm donor just wants to show up for the fun stuff. At least do like the other girl and let both of them walk you down the aisle.

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I don't blame him, the biological dad should take care of his daughter

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I don't blame him either, but nowhere does he describe her biological father as a deadbeat. Maybe they both deserved a ticket.

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I read it as it was the daughter's boyfriend

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Ahh yeah, that makes more sense

Is being left out of graduation a qualifying event to make an immediate change to health insurance coverages??

Even if he could cut her off immediately for most plans we have been involved in under Obamacare there is just one family rate (or at last up to a certain number of kids). If any of the 2 other sisters or if he has any biological kids are also on his health plan it doesn’t seem like adding her to his health insurance is increasing his premiums. The car insurance was likely costing him unless she is still under her permit which does seem to be happening more since covid (assuming this was high school). He leaves out food and shelter which makes me think the mom and the biological dad are doing something there.

If he is known to run that account or his name was just left off of screenshot I don’t think he needed to post it to social media. If it’s “his truth“ he needs no applause like he mentioned, but that validation is exactly why he posted it publicly on social media.

I just can’t fathom him finding out about it that day. That is so messed up that a part of me is wondering how well he communicated that he was going to be off for the graduation and wanted to go to the graduation. There are some serious communication issues there one way or the other. There is also some serious disconnect going on between how he thinks he is succeeding in the dad role and with his family including when he is out on the road trucking and what the reality is. He needs to do some serious soul searching or hire a divorce attorney (maybe both).