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re: Stay At Home Moms vs. Stay At Home Dads

Posted on 4/6/19 at 9:28 am to
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 9:28 am to
Your kids slept til 8 or 9? You golfed? Who watched your kids while you were sleeping and golfing?

I am a stay a home dad. My daughter is up at 6am and doesnt stop until 8pm. I havent played golf on a weekday in the 3 years of her life. Its a not all that fun of a job and frankly working was much much easier. I have ZERO time to myself now.
This post was edited on 4/6/19 at 9:32 am
Posted by Kcprogguitar
Kansas City
Member since Oct 2014
944 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 9:44 am to
I’m a stay at home grand dad with a wife who still works. Grand kids live out of town. I retired at 52.

You don’t know it yet, but you envy me.
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 9:50 am to
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Honestly I couldn’t imagine being a stay at home dad. Im way too antsy as it is, it’d drive me fricking nuts being at home all day. I’d feel worthless.


I would fap so fricking much.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 10:08 am to
I've been staying at home (still make the same as my gf) for a couple of months, and it sucks. There are only so many things you can do in a day/week.

But.....then you have women. They never run out of episodes of Real Housewives or Flip my House to watch. Watching TV for seven hours a day while folding one load of laundry has to be mentally exhausting
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21067 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 10:18 am to
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Wife and I both primarily work from home, so we are what I would call stay at home parents but with full time jobs. Seeing more and more of this trend, and for us it’s great. Very rarely are we not able to at least have one parent home for kids & if it occurs my wife parents live in a different part of our community to help. Best part, afternoon secks before kiddos get home from school.


I think it can be inferred that you and your wife don’t really have to work full time.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76083 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 10:24 am to
SIAP but none of this shite was an issue when doctors gave out valium to housewives, no questions asked.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76083 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 10:30 am to
He could be referring to part time day care a couple days a week so kids can socialize, play, learn, etc, so he can get shite done (golf) etc.

But yeah, lots of holes in that story. Sleeping until 10? Riiight.
Posted by Capital Cajun
Over Yonder
Member since Aug 2007
5632 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 10:42 am to
The fairer sex does not have the same ability to multitask that men do. Multitasking is a requirement of raising kids and this is why the ladies have a harder time being stay at home parents.
Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
8383 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 10:46 am to
Friends wife has never worked a 40 hour week in her adult life. Kids are all over 10. Almost unbearable to go to their house bc she’s “a designer” and wants to show you here crafts. Like god you have a hobby but stop trying to dress it up.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76083 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 10:50 am to
My wife works most weekends, 12 hr days, so I get 2-day chunks of this experience and it can be exhausting, but once you have systems and routines in place, it isnt that hard.

My wife is on the cusp of making enough for both of us, I wouldn't mind giving this a try. And once child is school age, pick up something part time so I don't watch Judge Judy all day and get fat.

I have a feeling she'd resent that though.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 11:23 am to
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I have a feeling she'd resent that though.


When our youngest was still a toddler, I had a 3 month break between jobs(somewhat planned, but that's another story) and I kept her every day. Wife definitely resented it, and called/texted all day "cehcking in." I had a blast doing it once I got into a routine. It was pretty rough those first few weeks though.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38223 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 11:26 am to
quote:

breeding children.



Isn’t that against the law? Even if you’re a teacher?
Posted by Vastmind
B Ara
Member since Sep 2013
5322 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 12:55 pm to
My stay at home wife is slaving in the kitchen right now peeling shrimp while I recover from the brutal work week.

We wouldn’t have it any other way.
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11895 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 1:36 pm to
I work from home and because of this my wife thinks I’m a stay at home dad.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
29674 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 2:57 pm to
Bill Burr has a great segment on this.


Yes being a stay at home parent has challenges.

No it is not some amazing thing that should be considered as hard as a real job.

My sister is one. She literally does nothing half the day and loves it. She doesn't post stupid it's hard shite either though online. She soaks in the benefits and mocks us for having to work lol.

Well played sis...well played
Posted by ForeverEllisHugh
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
16673 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 2:59 pm to
I wouldn’t mind being a stay at home dad at all.

Lift, work on cars, cook real man food - raise the kids to learn to do the same.

Hire an unattractive maid to handle the cleaning.
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
3016 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 3:30 pm to
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They put themselves in these positions of Stay At Home life then beg for sympathy & understanding.


If I have to hear "I need a break" one more fricking time.
Posted by forever lsu30
Member since Nov 2005
4042 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 3:45 pm to
Wife worked til 7 or 730. So we kept the kids up later so she could have time with them. So bedtime was about 11pm during those years.

If they woke up earlier, I'd just put them in the pack n play in our room with a bottle & Nick Jr. on. Sleep til 8 or 9. Then get going.

Golf was great. 1 in a carrier the other on my lap to drive the cart.

Also, I'm 1 of those dads that if my kid is crying & I've already hooked up the diaper change, bottle, basic check-then I let them cry. It doesn't bother me a bit.

Change of clothes? Easy. Got sets packed. Do they match? Eh...don't care unless we are going some place specific.

Train your kids early. None of that whiney bullshite co mn es about in the 3s or 4s.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60076 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 3:50 pm to
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Stay At Home Dads

Instead of all these fancy words why not just come out and say you’re gay?
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60076 posts
Posted on 4/6/19 at 3:52 pm to
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Wife and I both primarily work from home

So neither of y’all have real jobs?
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