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re: So, my wife and I had to discipline our daughter for not putting forth effort in school
Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:50 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:50 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
What is she interested in? People are motivated in different ways, for me the hard work was a result of me figuring out what I wanted to do.
I will also say that sometimes this attitude is more a symptom of depression than it is of not caring. Your daughter happy? Active? Hope things workout.
Chances favor the prepared mind.
I will also say that sometimes this attitude is more a symptom of depression than it is of not caring. Your daughter happy? Active? Hope things workout.
Chances favor the prepared mind.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:55 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Your wife sounds like not such a great mother
Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:55 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
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My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"
Hammond Tiger Fan after hearing this:

Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:00 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Love (neighbor as self, all as God)
Serve (all as God)
Remember (its all God)
Shes right.
Its all dna driven, replication.
Serve (all as God)
Remember (its all God)
Shes right.
Its all dna driven, replication.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:02 am to ChewyDante
Im serious Hammond. A wife happy with her marriage doesn't say fricking crazy (crazier than normal I guess) shite like that.
Find out wtf is bothering her.
Find out wtf is bothering her.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:02 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
My daughter makes straight As, has since she's been in school. Just started 5th grade.
My other kid really struggles with school and like your kid doesn't really GAF, he's only 6 though so I'm hoping it's because he's a boy and doesn't grasp purpose of school yet.
He's a very intelligent little boy, but school so far just isn't his thing it appears.
My other kid really struggles with school and like your kid doesn't really GAF, he's only 6 though so I'm hoping it's because he's a boy and doesn't grasp purpose of school yet.
He's a very intelligent little boy, but school so far just isn't his thing it appears.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:05 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
All I know is that a woman that is sexually satisfied never wonders what the point of life is.
Good luck, OP.
Good luck, OP.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:09 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
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My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"
Uh, I think I found the root cause. Not being a dick, but if this is your wife's attitude, then it's no wonder your daughter feels the way she does. Your wife should speak to a professional about those thoughts.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:14 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
Distance yourself from wife and daughter. It will make the inevitable easier. Start saving money and hide it.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:15 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
I pay my kid...that's all the money he gets every quarter
$10 for AB&Cs
$100 for A&Bs
$1000 for As
It improved his grades, he's wanting expensive shite now, I said, you can mow 40 lawns for a grand or just make straight As...
That's how the real world works.
$10 for AB&Cs
$100 for A&Bs
$1000 for As
It improved his grades, he's wanting expensive shite now, I said, you can mow 40 lawns for a grand or just make straight As...
That's how the real world works.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:17 am to C
quote:
I agree with your wife. We all die in a very short timescale of history. We are essentially meaningless to everything but God.
Well... Didn't we take this a little too far?
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:21 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
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TV, cell phone, ipad, legos, toys, electric scooter, bicycle, hanging out with friends, etc
This is an odd paring of interests for a 12-yo.
She probably shouldn't have a cell phone and/or iPad at all...nor a TV in her room.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:23 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
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My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"
Forget your daughter for now. Your wife needs serious help.
Don't ignore this blatantly obvious sign.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:25 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
iPad, LEGOS, cell phone.... interesting combos
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:26 am to 50_Tiger
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Find out wtf is bothering her
He knows exactly why she said that. Giving that context wouldn't get him what he's really looking for with these types of threads.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:27 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
quote:
My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"
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Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:28 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
What's the point? The point is to teach your daughter that her education is very important. Explain to her that you do these things because you love her and that you just want her to realize if she isn't willing to work hard, then she will not be able to have the things she wants in life.
I don't know if this is the case or not, but I see parents who get frustrated with their kid(s) which causes a communication breakdown. Tell her that she might not think so now, but there will come a time in her life when she will either thank you for pushing her or wishing she would have listened to yall. Are you aware of who she is hanging out with? shite goes down in junior high.. Ask her what she plans to do after HS and make sure she realizes that she can't frick around in school if whatever she wants to do, is what she does want to do.
I don't know if this is the case or not, but I see parents who get frustrated with their kid(s) which causes a communication breakdown. Tell her that she might not think so now, but there will come a time in her life when she will either thank you for pushing her or wishing she would have listened to yall. Are you aware of who she is hanging out with? shite goes down in junior high.. Ask her what she plans to do after HS and make sure she realizes that she can't frick around in school if whatever she wants to do, is what she does want to do.
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:30 am to Hammond Tiger Fan
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tonight we stripped her of all her privileges
quote:
cell phone, ipad, legos, toys
Is she 7 or 17?
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:31 am to Murray
quote:you are obviously not Floyd Mayweather because that was a one punch knockout
He knows exactly why she said that. Giving that context wouldn't get him what he's really looking for with these types of threads.
This post was edited on 9/6/17 at 8:34 am
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:37 am to Pectus
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Some of the comments about rich and poor being the end result of effort and education and not is something that would drive liberals crazy.
Liberals see it as something deep-seated
Well, that's because they are stupid
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