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re: So, my wife and I had to discipline our daughter for not putting forth effort in school

Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:50 am to
Posted by TimeOutdoors
LA
Member since Sep 2014
13665 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:50 am to
What is she interested in? People are motivated in different ways, for me the hard work was a result of me figuring out what I wanted to do.

I will also say that sometimes this attitude is more a symptom of depression than it is of not caring. Your daughter happy? Active? Hope things workout.

Chances favor the prepared mind.
Posted by ElroyJetSon
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2011
4018 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:55 am to
Your wife sounds like not such a great mother
Posted by ChewyDante
Member since Jan 2007
17232 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 7:55 am to
quote:

My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"


Hammond Tiger Fan after hearing this:

Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:00 am to
Love (neighbor as self, all as God)
Serve (all as God)
Remember (its all God)

Shes right.
Its all dna driven, replication.


Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43552 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:02 am to
Im serious Hammond. A wife happy with her marriage doesn't say fricking crazy (crazier than normal I guess) shite like that.

Find out wtf is bothering her.
Posted by R11
Member since Aug 2017
5674 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:02 am to
My daughter makes straight As, has since she's been in school. Just started 5th grade.
My other kid really struggles with school and like your kid doesn't really GAF, he's only 6 though so I'm hoping it's because he's a boy and doesn't grasp purpose of school yet.
He's a very intelligent little boy, but school so far just isn't his thing it appears.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:05 am to
All I know is that a woman that is sexually satisfied never wonders what the point of life is.

Good luck, OP.
Posted by RummelTiger
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Member since Aug 2004
94048 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:09 am to
quote:

My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"


Uh, I think I found the root cause. Not being a dick, but if this is your wife's attitude, then it's no wonder your daughter feels the way she does. Your wife should speak to a professional about those thoughts.
Posted by Sody Cracker
Nervous Hospital
Member since May 2016
3414 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:14 am to
Distance yourself from wife and daughter. It will make the inevitable easier. Start saving money and hide it.
Posted by IceTiger
Really hot place
Member since Oct 2007
26584 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:15 am to
I pay my kid...that's all the money he gets every quarter
$10 for AB&Cs
$100 for A&Bs
$1000 for As

It improved his grades, he's wanting expensive shite now, I said, you can mow 40 lawns for a grand or just make straight As...
That's how the real world works.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122534 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:17 am to
quote:

I agree with your wife. We all die in a very short timescale of history. We are essentially meaningless to everything but God.


Well... Didn't we take this a little too far?
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:21 am to
quote:

TV, cell phone, ipad, legos, toys, electric scooter, bicycle, hanging out with friends, etc


This is an odd paring of interests for a 12-yo.

She probably shouldn't have a cell phone and/or iPad at all...nor a TV in her room.



Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
43342 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:23 am to
quote:

My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"


Forget your daughter for now. Your wife needs serious help.

Don't ignore this blatantly obvious sign.
Posted by ZeekFreak
Member since Jun 2017
616 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:25 am to
iPad, LEGOS, cell phone.... interesting combos
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
14875 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:26 am to
quote:

Find out wtf is bothering her


He knows exactly why she said that. Giving that context wouldn't get him what he's really looking for with these types of threads.
Posted by stniaSxuaeG
Member since Apr 2014
1616 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:27 am to
quote:

My wife continued, "What's the point of all of it? What's the point of pushing her? What's the point of going to work? What's the point of having stuff? What's the point striving for more and more? What's the point of even living when you're just going to die anyway? So, what's the point?"

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Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122534 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:28 am to
What's the point? The point is to teach your daughter that her education is very important. Explain to her that you do these things because you love her and that you just want her to realize if she isn't willing to work hard, then she will not be able to have the things she wants in life.

I don't know if this is the case or not, but I see parents who get frustrated with their kid(s) which causes a communication breakdown. Tell her that she might not think so now, but there will come a time in her life when she will either thank you for pushing her or wishing she would have listened to yall. Are you aware of who she is hanging out with? shite goes down in junior high.. Ask her what she plans to do after HS and make sure she realizes that she can't frick around in school if whatever she wants to do, is what she does want to do.
Posted by SmoothOperator96
TD Premium Member
Member since Jan 2016
4151 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:30 am to
quote:

tonight we stripped her of all her privileges

quote:

cell phone, ipad, legos, toys

Is she 7 or 17?
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138862 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:31 am to
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He knows exactly why she said that. Giving that context wouldn't get him what he's really looking for with these types of threads.
you are obviously not Floyd Mayweather because that was a one punch knockout
This post was edited on 9/6/17 at 8:34 am
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37487 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 8:37 am to
quote:

Some of the comments about rich and poor being the end result of effort and education and not is something that would drive liberals crazy.

Liberals see it as something deep-seated

Well, that's because they are stupid
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