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re: Small Talk and best ways to avoid it?

Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:49 am to
Posted by SallysHuman
With Sally
Member since Jan 2025
2539 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:49 am to
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Can you tell what one of my pet peeves is?


I dunno, but you just fulfilled at least three of mine.
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
16725 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:50 am to
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excruciating small talk "what have you been up to" etc.


I've always found those with an extreme hatred of "small talk" to be persons of huge arrogance. Some people may not have the mental capacity to have deep conversations, yet I'm still polite to those "small minded" people.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
83326 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:52 am to
I understand it can be annoying

But I also think engaging in small talk/being casually social with strangers will make you a better person and make your day better about 99.9% of the time.
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
21650 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:52 am to
The amount of socially awkward people on this website is hilarious. It's astounding some of yall can make it through a regular day without having a panic attack because someone comes within 10 feet of you.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
2475 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:53 am to
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I can’t understand the younger generation’s absolute fear of having an in person conversation.

Occasionally I want to be alone with my own thoughts…but in those situations I just avoid being in close proximity to anyone.

Being around people and trying to work out how to avoid talking to anyone seems like it would burn a lot more calories than simply having a superficial, non-committal conversation. And that’s coming from an introvert.
Posted by upgrade
Member since Jul 2011
13930 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:53 am to
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When someone asks you “How are you?”


My go to answer to this question is “not unwell”
Posted by lsu xman
Member since Oct 2006
16380 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:54 am to
Don't brush your teeth in the morning. That will cut down on the small talk
Posted by rileytiger
Surfing The Gulf of America
Member since Feb 2007
3159 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:56 am to
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I can’t understand the younger generation’s absolute fear of having an in person conversation.


Amen! I like making small talk sometimes just to see their reaction.
This post was edited on 3/11/25 at 8:57 am
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
2475 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:57 am to
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My OP is mostly directed at specific people in my daily life (work related) that I have to avoid because they want to ramble, make small talk, and they think everything is a joke, when I really don't have time to engage with them.

I think your question should have been “Annoying people and best ways to avoid them”.

And I think the answer to that is to literally physically avoid them.
Posted by slidingstop
Member since Jan 2025
544 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 8:59 am to
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Small Talk and best ways to avoid it?


quit being socially awkward and an a-hole.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
102199 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 9:03 am to
Halitosis
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
41582 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 9:09 am to
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Small Talk and best ways to avoid it?


Avoid the people you would have small talk with. That's what I do. I have small talk and other talks with people I like.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21051 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 9:12 am to
I started wearing over the ear headphones in the gym and practicing less eye contact and that works for me.
Posted by Zendog
Santa Barbara
Member since Feb 2019
5586 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 9:38 am to
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When someone asks you “How are you?”


I reply with what day of the week it is, "It's Tuesday"
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
16377 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 9:42 am to
I have Tourette syndrome: frick OFF a-hole. Sorry, it’s best if I remain silent.
Posted by RedPants
GA
Member since Jan 2013
5778 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 9:53 am to
Work from home
Posted by Saunson69
Member since May 2023
6318 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 10:38 am to
If you're comfortable enough with your coworkers like I am, then I just say "Not really in the mood to talk" or "busy", then the stupid ones will ask why I'm not in the mood to talk, it's like you're supposed to frick off not ask and engage in deeper convo.
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
33108 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 10:42 am to
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I can’t understand the younger generation’s absolute fear of having an in person conversation.

I'm not scared. I don't want to talk to you.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144369 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 10:47 am to
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Small Talk and best ways to avoid it?
JFC

how some of you make it in day to day life is astonishing to me
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
38745 posts
Posted on 3/11/25 at 10:49 am to
fake an absence seizure


or try to talk to them about why you don't believe in the moon
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