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re: Should I be offended by an ex-girlfriend?

Posted on 5/29/24 at 9:54 am to
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
5647 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 9:54 am to
i wouldnt worry bout it my man. honestly best thing you did was get out of the relationship anyway. Wish her good luck and find someone better.
Posted by Tha crook
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2018
1014 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 9:55 am to
God did you a favor my dude . Trust me
Posted by The Great Hambino
Madison, MS
Member since Dec 2014
116 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 9:56 am to
quote:

1. Unfriend her on all social media
2. Stop talking about her
3. Find someone else to go out with

Doing anything else is wasting precious days of your life


This^^^^^^
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
51543 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:05 am to
No, you shouldn't be offended. You should be immune to her mind games.
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
1437 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:08 am to
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No, you shouldn't be offended. You should be immune to her mind games.


I get the feeling that OP was her frick toy and someone to bide time with but the FB posts were her pining/whining about the ex
Posted by ChexMix
Taste the Deliciousness
Member since Apr 2014
25494 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:09 am to
you were the rebound baw. just tip your cap, be thankful you had sex, and move on
Posted by Lsuhoohoo
Member since Sep 2007
99839 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:09 am to
quote:


My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. We have stayed friends, for the most part, and still text from time to time (



I'll admit I've found myself here in my own past and I'd advise you to cut that shite off. Stupid idea. If you're broken up, be broken up. There's no being "friends" with an ex. If exes are "friends" still hovering around each other, it's one party pretending while hoping for reconciliation and the other party keeping them on the hook while considering other options. Get out now. You're wasting your life not moving forward while worrying about this dumb shite this girl is doing.
This post was edited on 5/29/24 at 10:12 am
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
1437 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:23 am to
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There's no being "friends" with an ex. If exes are "friends" still hovering around each other, it's one party pretending while hoping for reconciliation and the other party keeping them on the hook while considering other options. Get out now. You're wasting your life not moving forward while worrying about this dumb shite this girl is doing.


wise words, how tf did you get in here?!?!
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9889 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:25 am to
quote:

1. Unfriend her on all social media
2. Stop talking about her
3. Find someone else to go out with

Doing anything else is wasting precious days of your life


Perhaps the most straight to the point best advice I have ever seen posted on here.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
24374 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:27 am to
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ronricks


She's probably boning Jody anyway.
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
9889 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:31 am to
quote:

She's probably boning Jody anyway.


Jody seems to mainly impact the plant baws on here. I guess it is possible if he is a plant baw.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
67944 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:33 am to
OP sounds desperate if this is his pickings.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10445 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:35 am to
You should’ve stopped/blocked contact with her immediately. Find someone you genuinely wants to be with you and has a lot less baggage.
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
1437 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:35 am to
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She's probably boning Jody anyway.


Jody is a very busy gentleman
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
61420 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:39 am to
She and he did you a favor. Been in that situation a few times and there's nothing you can do to compete with history. No matter how well you treat her and the kids.

Won't ever date a woman recently divorced or going through a divorce again. Kids make it more complicated by tugging on the heart strings.

In my experience, most women with kids take years (plural) to get over their ex-husbands and move onto another long-term relationship, if they ever do.

It's usually a fools errand for a single man.
This post was edited on 5/29/24 at 10:41 am
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
47691 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:42 am to
Whiny women seeking attention from other women do that shite. My oldest friends daughter is divorced has 2 kids and goes from loser to loser. He last bf was in jail and dumped her as son as he got out. She post the same stuff, just a little girl seeking attention and pity. Be thankfully you are not with her.
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
7274 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:42 am to
Isn't it weird how humans can get so "addicted" to a specific person that they will drive themselves mad and endure ridiculous hardships.

When the REALITY is there are a shiat ton of humans on this planet, and it's not terribly hard to find another one that will have the secks with you.

I'm not immune, I remember dating. I remember anger and jealousy.
But I also remember dating when I wasn't in a relationship. It was glorious.
Posted by Miketheseventh
Member since Dec 2017
6526 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:43 am to
quote:

My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago. We have stayed friends

This will eventually be a problem for you . If you
try and move on no matter who you date she will think that they are not good enough for you and talk shite about you. Why would you want to put yourself through that. If she can’t decide whether she wants to be with you or a looser you need to run. It will never work out. She will eventually ask you for money to help pay bills or some other expenses she might have. If you say no it will be the end of your relationship then. No since in prolonging that outcome
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
25191 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:52 am to
Women never take responsibility for anything. Ever. Now social media has taught them they are always the victim.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
58879 posts
Posted on 5/29/24 at 10:58 am to
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Of course he should be offended. It’s like he never existed to her.


He didn't matter to her. She wasn't ready to move on. You shouldn't be offended by someone who doesn't matter to you.

It's easier said than done, trust me. I am the queen of taking things personally and not being able to let them go.

But I can give good advice from an outside looking in.
This post was edited on 5/29/24 at 11:00 am
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