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re: Question for those with old school grandparents/parents...sleeping with SO
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:33 am to saint amant steve
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:33 am to saint amant steve
When my SO and I started living together (still not married), my parents allowed us to sleep in the same room when we visited. My SO's parents never cared.
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Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:34 am to LSUBoo
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My Mom never cared, neither did her family.
Her parents couldnt give two shits.
But my family is old school baptist
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:35 am to saint amant steve
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my girlfriend
Pics of her and then I can tell you whether I will allow it on either the FIRST or the SECOND night you and she would stay under my roof.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:38 am to More beer please
My grandmother might have cared, she was an old school Catholic, but she lived in Baton Rouge so we never had any reason to stay over at her place, and she passed on early in our relationship. I don't think my wife ever met her actually.
My other grandmother wouldn't care at all, but she also lives in BR so no reason to stay there.
We stayed with her grandparents early on, before we had been dating for a year even, and they didn't care that we shared a room. I wouldn't have pressed the issue, but it was never brought up.
My other grandmother wouldn't care at all, but she also lives in BR so no reason to stay there.
We stayed with her grandparents early on, before we had been dating for a year even, and they didn't care that we shared a room. I wouldn't have pressed the issue, but it was never brought up.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:43 am to saint amant steve
I don't want my kids/so in the same bedroom if htey're ever over at my house. I'm quite sure that it'll happen at their places but my house, my rules.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:43 am to saint amant steve
I never really slept at my parents house with a SO, but on vacations I was probably 23 and had been dating my SO for over a year before we slept in the same bed. Not until married with her parents. Also, wouldn't have been until we were married if we ever stayed with either set of grandparents, but I'm not sure that ever came up.
I had an aunt that was in her 50's and had been dating her SO for 10 years, and my grandparents didn't allow them to sleep together
I had an aunt that was in her 50's and had been dating her SO for 10 years, and my grandparents didn't allow them to sleep together
Posted on 9/29/15 at 10:54 am to saint amant steve
I sleep in her bed when we say with her parents, but this took one year.
We won't be able to sleep in the same bed at my parents' home until after we are married.
She stays with me in New Orleans and, obviously, my parents know we sleep together when we're in the same house.
We won't be able to sleep in the same bed at my parents' home until after we are married.
She stays with me in New Orleans and, obviously, my parents know we sleep together when we're in the same house.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:26 am to AnonymousTiger
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Your grandmothers are crazy then.
No. They have different values and were raised in a different time than you.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:27 am to saint amant steve
When we moved in together, at my parents house; when we were engaged, at her parents.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:49 am to Salmon
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once we were married
Same. Didn't even test otherwise out of respect.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:52 am to Salmon
same here
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:54 am to saint amant steve
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Question for those with backwards grandparents/parents that have conservative christian values...sleeping with SO
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:55 am to Salmon
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once we were married
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:57 am to Salmon
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once we were married
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:59 am to saint amant steve
i'm glad i'm not baptist.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 11:59 am to saint amant steve
when we first started dating, my parents asked us not to when we visited my grandmother's house. At their house, they didn't care once we started living together.
at her parents house, they were fine with us sharing a room once we started living together.
at her parents house, they were fine with us sharing a room once we started living together.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 12:05 pm to saint amant steve
My AC was out and my gfs parents let me sleep at their house in the same bed as my gf which I thought was super chill. We'd been dating like a month. They are nice people.
This post was edited on 9/29/15 at 12:06 pm
Posted on 9/29/15 at 12:20 pm to saint amant steve
I lived alone from 15 on. And every time I had a woman at the house, my maw maw would call my mother and tell her.
When she passed, and I was in my early 20s, my paw paw would call her every time a woman was over.
...until he saw a topless pool party. Kept his moth shut and enjoyed the scenery after that
When I first started dating my wife, she wasn't allowed to stay the night, about four months in we took a weekend trip and from that point on we were considered singular rather than plural.
It did melt some Amish people's heads when we showed up together in pennsylvania to buy a dog. They were less accepting.
When she passed, and I was in my early 20s, my paw paw would call her every time a woman was over.
...until he saw a topless pool party. Kept his moth shut and enjoyed the scenery after that
When I first started dating my wife, she wasn't allowed to stay the night, about four months in we took a weekend trip and from that point on we were considered singular rather than plural.
It did melt some Amish people's heads when we showed up together in pennsylvania to buy a dog. They were less accepting.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 12:31 pm to AnonymousTiger
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but I see it as them also respecting my decision as an adult and if it came down to them making a fuss about it then we just wouldn't stay over there
So your opinion is that respect is a one way street and they need to respect you.
Posted on 9/29/15 at 12:35 pm to saint amant steve
Respect the rules of the house.
That shows class.
That shows class.
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