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re: Parenting question - what time should a teenager be going to bed during the school year?

Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:23 pm to
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
30714 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:23 pm to
We are an early bed/early rise family. 8:30 is usually the latest kids will stay up. Wife and I are usually 9-9:30.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
17958 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:23 pm to
They need the sleep, even when they're younger. My GF teaches (K), and had two kids fall asleep at their desks before lunch on the first day of school. My teen kids are out by 10 with 0530 wake ups, which is not enough IMO, but that's ex-wife overscheduling them. This results in my son falling asleep during a 10 minute drive, not paying attention to detail in school, etc.
Posted by Adajax
Member since Nov 2015
8964 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:24 pm to
I'm about the same age. I never had a curfew but my parents went to bed around 9:00 and it was just a lifetime habit to go to bed when they did.
Posted by UFFan
Planet earth, Milky Way Galaxy
Member since Aug 2016
4268 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:28 pm to
Let’s talk about what time the OP should go to bed.

I think the OP should go to bed right now instead of creating such stupid threads.

Like even if the OP really has a 13 year old son (which he probably doesn’t), why would he think that Tigerdroppings is the place to ask for advice on this?

This post was edited on 8/13/26 at 9:30 pm
Posted by Floyd Dawg
Silver Creek, GA
Member since Jul 2018
5795 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:32 pm to
My 15 year old goes to bed at 9:30 and is up at 6:15.
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
26058 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:36 pm to
quote:

Seems wild to be telling a 16 year old it’s bed time especially at 9


It really did- but they need their sleep and teenagers aren't known for making the best decisions on their own.
Posted by TigerTatorTots
The Safeshore
Member since Jul 2009
82372 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:37 pm to
I was going to sleep between 9 and 10 in high school and still tired as frick during class
Posted by Red Stick Tigress
Tiger Stadium
Member since Nov 2005
21887 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:37 pm to
I was always awake until 10 or 10:30.

Posted by UFFan
Planet earth, Milky Way Galaxy
Member since Aug 2016
4268 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:38 pm to
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Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3886 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:39 pm to
I don't have a set time for mine, but she's in high school with a 4.1 something GPA. As long as she continues to take care of business and has no issues with getting up, it doesn't matter to me.
Posted by holdmuh keystonelite
Member since Oct 2020
5393 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:44 pm to
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But I also have rarely heard of a 13 year old who has to get up at 6:20 am.


The hell? My 13 year old has to get up by 6:10 to make it to school in time.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
17958 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:44 pm to
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But I also have rarely heard of a 13 year old who has to get up at 6:20 am.

High school bell time for us is 0715. Elementary in my district is either 0810 or 0830, Junior High was 0855.
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
36128 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:47 pm to
9:30 on school nights. Up by 6:00, Out the door at 7:15.

10:00 PM (ish) on weekends.
Posted by UFFan
Planet earth, Milky Way Galaxy
Member since Aug 2016
4268 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:47 pm to
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Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
17958 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:51 pm to
We have to rotate the same buses across all levels. We have 46 elementary schools, 14 different junior highs, and 10 different high schools in the district.

I'm fine with the high school kids (14+) getting their feet put to the fire. Junior high teaches them they can stay up until 11-12 and muddle through, and high school rips the rug out from underneath them.
Posted by Spankum
The Sip
Member since Jan 2007
63740 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 9:56 pm to
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Without us setting limits for him, he actually decided for himself to shut down and put away electronics at 9pm sharp- dunno when he goes to sleep though



What else could a 17 year old guy do in the bed at 9:30?
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
74326 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 10:01 pm to
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TV/phone off by 1030.


Night night time after the local news ended and Magnum PI began.
Posted by X123F45
Dictated not Read
Member since Apr 2015
30258 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 10:34 pm to
I would watch TV until the infomercials started.

Unless it was Ron.

I'd watch all of his gadgets.
Posted by onelochevy
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2011
18531 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 10:53 pm to
I try to have my 9 and 12 yr olds in bed by 10 at the latest. My oldest son's phone stays downstairs and they do not have TVs in their room. If they're not quite tired enough for bed, they read a book.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Member since Jul 2018
8829 posts
Posted on 8/13/26 at 11:01 pm to
We quit paying attention to what time he went to bed when he was around 10. By the time he stayed up too late a dozen times he was managing it well enough on his own. Admittedly we didn’t manage our kids well enough. But he’s at college on his own now and he seems to do fine.
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