re: NYT- Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back.

"You suck and '#MeToo' but where have you gone?"

That.

These threads are not real life.


Women are seeking men, and the ones that aren't, you dont want.

The other day in costco in the fruit cooler, my toddler reached to grab a woman's... Well let's say rather shapely backside. He thankfully missed. And as I'm explaining to him you don't do that, she says hello to him.

I turned and said, "Sorry about that, I was just explaining why he..."

She snapped..."I was talking to the baby not you!"


My response may have crossed the lines of propriety, as soft enough so the kid didn't notice, "Listen here you fricking bitch, I was explaining to my son why he shouldn't grab your arse that you have hanging out for the world to see."


Her response was mouth wide open, few guys around averted their eyes, but an older couple who heard the entire exchange both looked at me and both nodded. I apologized to the older lady for cursing in front of her, something I avoid doing as best I can.

It made me incoherently angry. The gall of someone snapping at a father disciplining his child IN DEFENSE OF HER TRASHY arse.

Women did it to themselves because they no longer try to understand men’s needs they are all about them and expect us to put them on a pedestal. And when a guy does that they don’t respect him because women are wired to want an independent man who is alpha not a beta who bends over backwards for them. But the alphas won’t give those women the time of day because we know better. We either find the few good women left who make great partners or we simply focus on our own interests and happiness.

Do they think we want a self absorbed bitch who thinks we should act, dress, look how they want and do whatever they want? Or want a instawhore who thousands of men have seen naked online and been run through by dozens of men?

As far as dating or marriage men aren’t picky. We want someone who is intelligent and fun to share our life with. We want a woman who is understanding of our needs and respects our hobbies and ambitions. We want a woman who is supportive and lifts us up, who brightens our day when we get home from a stressful day at work instead of nagging and bitching soon as we walk in the door. We want a woman who can be a good mother, who acts like a lady in public. We want a woman who cares about her appearance and a healthy sex life, don’t have to look a model just don’t let yourself go.

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"Listen here you fricking bitch,

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You shouldn't have called her that.















"C u n t" would have been a better choice.

Today the average woman wants absolutely nothing to do with the average man. If a man is not at least 6 feet tall & makes at least 6 figures he is almost completely out of the dating pool. Because a male 9 hooked up with her one night because he was drunk & bored a female 4 thinks she is owed a 9 or 10 high value man & will settle for nothing less.

Because of the combination of the IPhone dating apps, social media, the Covid/George Floyd insanity of 2020, & 3rd wave feminism we have a lost generation of women. And the show Sex & the City convinced women they could move to a big city, be boss babes & ride the cock carousel with every man they could & still think high value men would still want to date & marry them. What is going on right now is a ticking time bomb for our society & it’s not going to end well.

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But here’s what’s real: We never needed you to be perfect. We needed you to be with us. Not above. Not muted. Not masked. Just with. And you can still come back. Not by becoming someone else, but by remembering what connection feels like when it’s honest and slow. When it’s earned and messy and sacred. We’re still here, those of us who are willing to cocreate something true. We are not impossible to please. We’re not asking for performances

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This bitch is a bold faced liar. Average women do expect men to be damn near perfection. They literally are impossible to please for 80% of men. The 6's and 7's think they deserve men that are 9's and 10's. Sure those guys will frick them because it's easy for them but they'll never marry them. Bottom line women chose the bear so they need to honor their commitment to the bear and quit asking for men to jump over hoops to deal with their nonsense. If you're a single man today don't make an effort for western feminists instead go for foreign women that value traditional values from both the man and woman like the Philippines.

Also, one of the best places to meet, and get to know people, is at work. However, if a man says one wrong word, or simply encounters a female coworker having a bad day, she'll file a complaint, and the poor guy ends up in HR fighting for his job.

Now I'm not defending the office perv, or the guy with no tact who would tell a dirty joke to Mother Theresa. I'm talking about guys like a former neighbor, an auto claims adjuster, who entered an office after looking at a car in the rain. He knew the secretary/receptionist, and as they were speaking, and as he was taking off a raincoat, he jokingly said, in front of other people, that "I'm gonna get you wet like me."

That may not have been the best choice of words, but between knowing the guy, him literally just coming out of the rain, and saying it in front of other people who laughed, we're not talking about Lester the Molester. Yet my neighbor got called in because the bitch filed a complaint.

Now, here's the kicker: this happened right about 30 years ago, give or take a year, and its only gotten worse since then for men. So ladies, don't ask what happened; just take a long, hard, look at yourselves.

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However, if a man says one wrong word, or simply encounters a female coworker having a bad day, she'll file a complaint, and the poor guy ends up in HR fighting for his job.

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Depends on what you look like.

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cis heterosexual man.

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That's why you annoying bitch.