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re: My life has finally begun!!!

Posted on 3/25/26 at 12:47 am to
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Geaux Tigers
Member since Mar 2026
458 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 12:47 am to
Congratulations and best wishes for a happy and healthy baby.

When you can find time, I recommend researching 529 college savings plans in your state.

Best of luck.
Posted by TheFenceGuy
Member since Jan 2026
79 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 12:51 am to
Get the book Babywise. Tremendous help and was the blueprint for getting all three of ours sleeping through the night as early as possible
Posted by Lou Loomis
A pond. Ponds good for you.
Member since Mar 2025
1933 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 1:01 am to
Don’t be gay and post those pics of her laying on your bare chest. That’s fricking gay! When I see those it makes me want to slap the shite out of the dude.

And don’t put your child in daycare. Your wife is the one who should stay home and raise your child. Unless you want some stranger named Pa’chunka raising her.
Posted by buffbraz
Member since Nov 2005
5743 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 4:01 am to
I loved my daughter the day she was born. But really the love builds exponentially as bonding experiences good/bad accumulate. Late night rocking to sleep or feedings, those first little smiles, but the real connections come from the care you give, like changing diapers, taking care of her when she’s sick. Once I was connecting on her care, our connection blossomed into the greatest bond of my life. She’s 7 now and every day is better than the last.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21652 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 4:21 am to
Take care of the wife, enjoy every minute and get the baby on a schedule
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
10186 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 4:51 am to
Congrats and best wishes for you and your family.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
139223 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 4:57 am to
quote:

you can never love anything more than this person who you created


Well, you are going to need a paternity test to be sure.
Posted by ThermoDynamicTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
1473 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:26 am to
Congrats! Huge blessing and have as many as you can
Posted by GeauxTigers0107
We Coming
Member since Oct 2009
10984 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:36 am to
quote:

I finally understand what all my friends and also strangers have been saying… you can never love anything more than this person who you created and welcomed to the world! I’m on cloud 9



Big congrats AZ. Yes sir you are correct. When my first was born it was at that moment that I knew beyond the shadow of a doubt that that was someone I'd take a bullet for. Without hesitation.

Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
9063 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:43 am to
Wow. Congratulations!

Enjoy every precious moment. They grow up fast.

Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
19237 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:47 am to
quote:

Any OT advice on the first few weeks of fatherhood is greatly appreciate


Just be fully present for mother and child. It is draining but it is only temporary. Manage the grandparent situation too. We had to tell them to gtfo after a few days at home and no privacy with the first kid
Posted by b-rab2
N. Louisiana
Member since Dec 2005
12902 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:56 am to
We ran shift work Worked pretty well.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
29451 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:58 am to
When my wife became pregnant and older guy at work told me:

"One day you will look back and wonder what you ever did before children".

He was 100% correct and it's the most fulfilling thing in life, nothing prior can compare.
Posted by NoEmpathy
Member since Feb 2023
113 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:59 am to
Do not get up with them in the middle of the night for every little peep. You won’t sleep for a year (I did this with my first). With number two….she was sleeping through the night 11-6 after the first week…..it’s ok to cry some. They are smart af, and will learn quickly to take advantage
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
11657 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 5:59 am to
Congrats man

quote:

Well folks, it took me 40 years, but my wife and I just welcomed our first child into the world this weekend.


68 at a high school graduation though, I can't even begin to imagine. But you'll have a blast any which way.
Posted by wrongRob
Tampa FL
Member since Oct 2017
1388 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 6:13 am to
quote:

Having said that…. Any OT advice on the first few weeks of fatherhood is greatly appreciated

3:30am starving baby tip. Heating up pumped milk/formula. <--(Food)

Baby bumping around screaming looking for a nipple & of course you don't have one to give while heating up food.

Give baby end of your nose until food ready. Special bond will ensue, crying will stop. My early AM bliss happened by accident. I had the AM feeding detail. Baby just happened to latch on when I was trying to calm her down.

After that early am crying baby would be picked up from crib, onto nose. No shrieking baby walk to kitchen, quiet baby until food was ready.

CONGRATULATIONS DAD!
Posted by jcaz
Laffy
Member since Aug 2014
19271 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 6:14 am to
Oh man I thought I had it bad with a newborn at 35. How ya sleeping chief?
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
32577 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 6:18 am to
It’s cliche as hell but enjoy every little moment because you’ll blink and she’s 10. You’ll blink again and she’s 18 and off to college.

I have two little girls that still run to the front door when i get home from work. Literally the best part of my day.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39507 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 6:18 am to
You will know agape love.

It is the best experience of life and you and your wife have been blessed beyond measure.

Enjoy this precious time.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
41494 posts
Posted on 3/25/26 at 6:23 am to
Had my little girl about 2 weeks before I turned 40. First baby for me too.

If you didn't do as much inside housework before, step up there. That'll help your wife. Doona stroller for the 1st year is awesome.

I'll try and remember to update this later and post some of the products that have helped us out.
This post was edited on 3/25/26 at 6:50 am
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