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re: My brother asked for advice advice and I have no idea what to tell him... need help
Posted on 11/21/24 at 2:54 pm to R11
Posted on 11/21/24 at 2:54 pm to R11
Take the dog for runs. It can be something he and his wife do together in the mornings. Afterwards they can have coffee and spend some time together.
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Posted on 11/21/24 at 2:58 pm to R11
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He said she complains about it bc it's bad and hyper
99% of the time dogs are bad because they aren't getting enough exercise, if its hyper that's 100% the issue.
Young dogs need to run, miles a day. You really need to walk them 1-2 miles a day and then play with them for a good hour or more. Its not easy being single with a new dog, as in it helps if 2-4 people including kids can help to give them exercise.
So that's your answer. She not only got a dog, she got 10 hours of chores a week to do.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 2:58 pm to Dadren
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It sounds like she moved out as they continued to work on their marriage…sometimes that’s actually the best way to save it. I don’t see a problem here but maybe I’m in the minority.
However, your buddy doesn’t sound like he wants the dog and neither does she…Why exactly haven’t they discussed this yet? Seems like an “easy win” in terms of a conversation that would get the marriage heading in the right direction since they both seem to be on the same page? What else are they not talking about?
Tell him you're glad he’s confiding in you but he really needs to talk to his wife more if they’re serious about saving the marriage.
Has anyone asked yet if the wife has a job?
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:00 pm to Sneauxghost
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My wife asked me to get rid of my golden and my catahoul
The real question is what time of human doesnt want a Golden and Catahoula?
I mean, this type of person cannot be happy right?
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:02 pm to ChatGPT of LA
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Meh, she moved out because she wanted to frick the other guy and see where ut goes.
It won't work unless he's weak, which, if he is, hell.lose the dog argument anyway and live in misery, as she runs shite.
He puts his foot down NOW, and says no dog, or he loses all credibility in the relationship, and bad years follow.
You'll get plenty of soft hearted answers her, or you can listen to hard truth by men like me.
He has to set boundaries NOW, in this new relationship
Would need to know if she clapped cheeks with someone else before I could even begin to decide how to end this.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:03 pm to R11
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His wife moved out few months ago.
He is delaying the inevitable.
Divorce her and move on.
He will find a new normal and it will be drastically better than whatever he had with her and it isn’t even close.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:03 pm to R11
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big to medium sized dog that probably doesn't need to be living inside
So it needs to live outside?
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:04 pm to SteveLSU35
quote:How do you know his bro works for the government?
Take the dog for runs. It can be something he and his wife do together in the mornings. Afterwards they can have coffee and spend some time together.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:10 pm to R11
Has anyone suggested for him to get a bigger dog to let her know who's boss? That's my 2 cents
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:19 pm to SixthAndBarone
No, not just no, but hell no. This has to be a clean refresh. Wife left on her terms, she has to come back on his.
Also, the dog is just going to be a constant 24/7 reminder/trigger of whatever his wife may or may not have done while she was gone. Doesn’t matter what that actually was. It only matters where that will take his mind and thoughts. He will be miserable because every second he is cognizant of the dog, his mind will revert back to the wife’s time away.
Also, the dog is just going to be a constant 24/7 reminder/trigger of whatever his wife may or may not have done while she was gone. Doesn’t matter what that actually was. It only matters where that will take his mind and thoughts. He will be miserable because every second he is cognizant of the dog, his mind will revert back to the wife’s time away.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:20 pm to R11
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His wife moved out few months ago.
They never divorced, apparently have been working things out.
Well during this separation she goes and adopts this dog. Now she wants to come back and he wants her to as well.
They have 3 kids total between them (none together)and not really a big yard or anything.
jeezus. and I thought I messed my life up.
Tell him to stop being scared of being single and try to salvage what his life has become in the best way possible.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 3:52 pm to Commandeaux
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If a woman comes back after she leaves, it's not because she gives a frick about you. It's because nobody gives a frick about that bitch. Game is game.
Promise you she took many rides on the strange dick express and had her fill and now she’s found out the grass isn’t greener…..
This post was edited on 11/21/24 at 3:53 pm
Posted on 11/21/24 at 4:28 pm to R11
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They have 3 kids total between them (none together)and not really a big yard or anything.
Trashy
Posted on 11/21/24 at 8:12 pm to ummagumma
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No, not just no, but hell no. This has to be a clean refresh. Wife left on her terms, she has to come back on his.
Then he loses his wife. Marriage is work. It’s not all perfect. I’m all for not getting taken advantage of, but if you don’t realize you cannot control every aspect, you’ve never had marriage issues.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 8:19 pm to Dadren
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It sounds like she moved out as they continued to work on their marriage…sometimes that’s actually the best way to save it. I don’t see a problem here but maybe I’m in the minority.
It’s sweet to believe this, but moving out basically always means fricking other guys.
Posted on 11/21/24 at 8:36 pm to R11
Does her snatch now smell like peanut butter?
Posted on 11/21/24 at 9:19 pm to jizzle6609
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Would need to know if she clapped cheeks with someone else before I could even begin to decide how to end this.
Well above 90% chance. She moved and lived somewhere else. There's a reason and now she wants back in.......hmmmm, I wonder what could have gone wrong, lol
Posted on 11/21/24 at 11:44 pm to R11
You are a boring person
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