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Posted on 2/14/19 at 10:54 am to Datfish
We moved in before marriage. Its dumb to pay double rent and I'd never want to marry someone I hadn't lived with.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 10:57 am to airlinehwypanhandler
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Never before. Never.
You are basically giving up any leverage you have against her. The biggest arrow quiver in the man's bag is the ability to walk away. By moving in you are giving that up.
Sex will go down. Trust me. Guys move in with women they aren't married to thinking they will get sex on the regular every night. Haha. You have to remember all women weaponize and commoditize sex and use it as leverage to get what they want. Remember how i said the biggest chip a man has is to walk away? The biggest leverage chip a woman has is her vagina. Now that she knows you gave up your biggest leverage, she basically has free reign to ration access to sex.
And with common law and feminism, if you try to sever ties and move out, you are still liable and on the hook
You have NOTHING to gain from this. NOTHING.
Incel
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:10 am to ApexTiger
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I actually hate attending weddings to people who have shacked up for months if not years...
Of all the weddings I have attended I never once gave if they lived together or not
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:14 am to Datfish
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:22 am to Datfish
Before. You don't really know a person until you've lived with them.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:24 am to Datfish
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I just don't get why some people still consider it such a terrible thing.
Not only is it not "terrible", I would strongly recommend it.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:28 am to Datfish
After
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:38 am to Datfish
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I just don't get why some people still consider it such a terrible thing.
It's not. Tell them to mind their business.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:19 pm to Datfish
I think you should live together for some time before marriage. At least during engagement.
Living together is way different than dating and more marriages would last if people did this more often.
Living together is way different than dating and more marriages would last if people did this more often.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:35 pm to deltaland
It could depend on what she looks like, any pics?
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:37 pm to airlinehwypanhandler
quote:dude. DUDE
Never before. Never.
You are basically giving up any leverage you have against her. The biggest arrow quiver in the man's bag is the ability to walk away. By moving in you are giving that up.
Sex will go down. Trust me. Guys move in with women they aren't married to thinking they will get sex on the regular every night. Haha. You have to remember all women weaponize and commoditize sex and use it as leverage to get what they want. Remember how i said the biggest chip a man has is to walk away? The biggest leverage chip a woman has is her vagina. Now that she knows you gave up your biggest leverage, she basically has free reign to ration access to sex.
And with common law and feminism, if you try to sever ties and move out, you are still liable and on the hook
You have NOTHING to gain from this. NOTHING.
You have got to take a step back and do a self-evaluation
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:38 pm to xiv
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the 50% divorce rate of the past generation proves that waiting to live together till after marriage is the way to go
quote:Wow, you did it!
No it doesn’t.
You figured sarcasm out!
:applause:
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:59 pm to Datfish
Everybody has an angle.
I never lived with my wife while we were dating, but she came over a lot and we hung out at my place....but she never lived with me. In that time, I noticed she would clean the place up often (it seemed like a good thing at the time). What I failed to realize is she has OCD or OCPD. The kind that can drive someone else crazy. We are still married, but this is a very troublesome part of our lives. Had we lived together first, I would've picked up on it and bailed.
I never lived with my wife while we were dating, but she came over a lot and we hung out at my place....but she never lived with me. In that time, I noticed she would clean the place up often (it seemed like a good thing at the time). What I failed to realize is she has OCD or OCPD. The kind that can drive someone else crazy. We are still married, but this is a very troublesome part of our lives. Had we lived together first, I would've picked up on it and bailed.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:59 pm to Datfish
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but it makes a whole lot of sense financially.
Do it if it's what you want to do. Don't do it because of money.
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I just don't get why some people still consider it such a terrible thing.
It's your life man. Who gives a shite what other people think?
Posted on 2/14/19 at 1:01 pm to mylsuhat
Correlation, causation. Potato, yam.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 1:27 pm to Datfish
I vowed I'd never live with a woman unless we were married. After my fiancee and I spent every other week staying at each other's house for 6 months, it just seemed stupid. We were basically living together, but paying for 2 separate places. We've been living together since August. It's been nice.
Posted on 2/14/19 at 5:46 pm to Indefatigable
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What kind of God cares where you sleep at night?
A kind and merciful God that wrote a rule book called the Bible.
Posted on 2/15/19 at 6:36 am to Kracka
She became super controlling. We never fought fir the yr and a half before it then it was like she clicked a switch. It was a cascade of everything. Basically knew I couldn’t spend the rest of my life with it.
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