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re: Mothers vs. daughters...holy shite
Posted on 2/9/19 at 4:35 pm to udtiger
Posted on 2/9/19 at 4:35 pm to udtiger
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Is this unique, or commonplace?
My mom and sister looked for things to argue about for years. It was always “god damnit” from my Dad and I when they’d start up, since both of them had to have the last word, which eventually led to either my dad and I flipping our shite in order to end the endlessly escalating bullshite.
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Posted on 2/9/19 at 4:39 pm to HempHead
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You get some prayers, too
I guess God decided I needed to spend my entire life surrounded by feelings and drama
Posted on 2/9/19 at 4:40 pm to LCA131
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I strongly suspect if they were boys the opposite would happen.
Nah, men want to defuse a situation as quickly as possible. Chris Rock put it best on why you can never beat a woman in an argument, because we have a handicap when it comes to arguing, because we have a need to make sense. Women ain’t gonna let a little thing like sense frick up their argument: LINK
Posted on 2/9/19 at 4:43 pm to OMLandshark
If y'all ever want to listen to the wisdom of the gods in regards to women, listen to Patrice O'Neal's discussions on Youtube.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 4:50 pm to udtiger
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I swear to God! It's like my wife looks for shite to fight with our daughter about. Certainly, she's a teenager and has her moments, but good Lord, it is a fricking war at the drop of a hat.
Me and you both my man, I also have a teenager daughter and it’s literarily like walking on eggshells when they go at it. I have to pick my battles and unfortunately for me I’m usually wrong.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 4:57 pm to QJenk
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Even the father/son relationship cannot compare to the mother/daughter relationship. The people i know who had issues with their dad were all because their dad were either absent or just a general pos man in the household.
Yes, big difference here. Men that hate their fathers almost always have good reason to do so, with them abandoning them, beating the shite out of them, abusing their mother, or emotionally abusing them if they don’t meet their standards.
A guy in his mid 20s is not mad at his dad for not letting him hang out with the high school deadbeats until 4:00 in the morning when they were 16. Men come to realize that that was a path to being a loser and thank their dads for not allowing them to hang with a bunch of degenerates and impregnate a girl before their 20s.
Women though, they’ll be pissed off at their mothers for years over trivial bullshite when they were clearly in the wrong. It doesn’t matter if Betty now has 4 kids from 3 different fathers, you stop her from hanging out with the cool cheerleaders or going to prom with a senior when you’re in the 9th grade, they will resent you for that for decades to come.
This post was edited on 2/9/19 at 5:01 pm
Posted on 2/9/19 at 5:02 pm to OMLandshark
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Yes, big difference here. Men that hate their fathers almost always have good reason to do so, with them abandoning them, beating the shite out of them, abusing their mother, or emotionally abusing them if they don’t meet their standards. Women on the other hand will hold onto menial shite for decades. A guy in his mid 20s is not mad at his dad for not letting him hang out with the high school deadbeats until 4:00 in the morning when they were 16. Men come to realize that that was a path to being a loser and thank their dads for not allowing them to hang with a bunch of degenerates and impregnate a girl before their 20s. Women though, they’ll be pissed off at their mothers for years over trivial bullshite when they were clearly in the wrong. It doesn’t matter if Betty now has 4 kids from 3 different fathers, you stop her from hanging out with the cool cheerleaders or going to prom with a senior when you’re in the 9th grade, they will resent you for that for decades to come.
Well shite, you just describied everything I grew up around.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 5:39 pm to udtiger
I remember back when I wanted a daughter.
So thankful that never happened
So thankful that never happened
Posted on 2/9/19 at 5:56 pm to Jim Rockford
Just buy a motorcycle and check out mentally and emotionally on being a husband and father.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 6:06 pm to udtiger
It never really ends, even when the daughters are adults. All women are insane and are only happy when they create drama about meaningless crap. It’s a control thing, and why women in general can’t work together.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 6:17 pm to Tigerhead
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Trust me. I'm not a psychologist, but I have 6 sisters, 3 daughters, and a wife who was raised in a family of 4 girls. So you could say I have earned an honorary doctorate in female behavior.
honorary doctorate
Don't sell yourself short, that's worth an honorary Silver Star at least (or Medal of Freedom if you prefer something civilian)
Posted on 2/9/19 at 6:23 pm to Broken Coyote
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It’s a control thing, and why women in general can’t work together.
I thoroughly don’t understand how lesbian relationships work. Gay relationships, sure that makes sense, but without a dude that just wants to defuse the situation immediately and not escalate it, I have no idea how those relationships can last.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 6:24 pm to OMLandshark
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I have no idea how those relationships can last.
They have the highest rates of domestic violence, funnily enough.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 6:32 pm to HempHead
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They have the highest rates of domestic violence, funnily enough.
Not surprising. Women think they can get physically violent and get away with it. Unless you were raised by a bunch of animals, men don’t have such assumptions. Plus women don’t know how to break it off, while men often think to themselves “Is there anything productive that can come out of continuing this conversation?” Women just want to have the last word in and refuse to concede to the other.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 6:51 pm to udtiger
I have a wife and 2 teenage daughters. I live this shite all the time. The girls can sometimes be minding their own business and my wife will find inane crap to argue about. Hell, sometimes she will ask them something or to do something and they will agree with her and she finds a way to argue with them about agreeing with her. It’s insanity. I’m glad we have extra square footage in our house.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 7:00 pm to Slip Screen
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My wife and daughter
Move to Arky Board
This post was edited on 2/9/19 at 7:02 pm
Posted on 2/9/19 at 8:07 pm to gthog61
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Don't sell yourself short, that's worth an honorary Silver Star at least (or Medal of Freedom if you prefer something civilian)
The Red Badge of Courage is probably more appropriate.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 8:31 pm to LCA131
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It is a well known mother/son, father/daughter dynamic. I have twin daughters and we get along very well. They argue with my wife much more. I strongly suspect if they were boys the opposite would happen.
Yep.
There's a reason why parents usually have better relationships with their opposite sex children and tend to show more favoritism for them over children of their own sex.
The stereotype of Daddy's Girl and Mama's Boy or Daddy's Princess and Mommy's Prince doesn't exist for nothing.
This post was edited on 2/9/19 at 8:40 pm
Posted on 2/9/19 at 8:34 pm to udtiger
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Do what i do, just walk away. No win for you in that situation.
That is SOP. No doubt.
good advice if you want to have huge family problems down the road that may never end.
1. your daughter will hate your wife
2. your daughter will hate you for not sticking up for her
you have to stick up for your kids even against your spouse if they are in the wrong. man is the leader of the house, fricking lead.
Posted on 2/9/19 at 8:41 pm to udtiger
The stories I could tell...........
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