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re: Merry Christmas to everyone I love the ot and everyone here, 2022 is about living
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:38 pm to andersBlake
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:38 pm to andersBlake
We’re all tired bro. We just keep pushing forward and make the best out of what we have with a positive frame of mind. You have to focus on YOU and your daughter. Find a great therapist, they truly do help. The human body was built to overcome everything, it’s your mind you have to convince.
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Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:39 pm to andersBlake
Yeah, posting 4 times in the "Too thick or ywhi nsfw" thread was stupid.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:39 pm to andersBlake
No matter how bleak and down things look right now. You matter. Your life matters. Get help not just for yourself, but for your daughter as well.
800-273-8255
That's the suicide prevention#.
No shame in asking for help. Godspeed man.
800-273-8255
That's the suicide prevention#.
No shame in asking for help. Godspeed man.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:40 pm to andersBlake
Checked your post history. You're a BB fan. This year is BB year at LSU. It's been magical so far. Get help, get those meds tweaked, then come back and shite post on here with us.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:40 pm to andersBlake
Your daughter loves and needs you. Please live for her, no matter how hard it is.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:40 pm to andersBlake
Get help now. Please.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:40 pm to andersBlake
Your daughter loves and God loves you! You will hurt the ones that love you more than you realize. Don't bottle it up. You told us, now tell someone you are close to and get some help!
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:40 pm to SteelerBravesDawg
1 step at a time. Call the number SteelerBravesDawg posted. Start with just that one call.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:41 pm to andersBlake
Suicide is never the answer, it may end your pain, but it will destroy you daughter and she will lead a damaged life until she dies, do not do this, you must seek help. You daughter needs and expects a warrior, you need to stand up and act like one for her.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:42 pm to andersBlake
I’ve known a few people who seriously contemplated, or attempted, suicide. Every single one thought those they care about would be better off without them. Every single one was wrong. You’re not alone. Get help <3
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:42 pm to andersBlake
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Im just tired of living every decision I make is wrong, I would have already killed myself but I feel like suicide is to easy and I have to punish myself and living is hard, I'm just tired , the only thing that cheered me up today is my daughter looking at me at dinner time saying I love u I'm just tired
Make sure your daughter's picture is the wallpaper/lock screen on your phone. Put a physical picture of her in your dashboard.
Was in your shoes 10 years ago, buddy.
What you're feeling ain't anything to be ashamed of. It's normal. Just find a way to get through each day. Imagine and really play out in your head the milestones you will miss and how it will hurt her for the rest of her life. She deserves you in her life. So, Right now do it for her and be there for her no matter how much you hate yourself.
One day when you least expect it, you'll find yourself living for you again as well.
This post was edited on 12/22/21 at 9:09 am
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:42 pm to andersBlake
With all the suicides I have had to deal with in the Army you need help now call a helpline or a spiritual advisor now.
Have you made a plan? If the answer is yes call 911 you need help immediately.
Don’t make a permanent solution to a short term problem. Think of that child they need you.
Have you made a plan? If the answer is yes call 911 you need help immediately.
Don’t make a permanent solution to a short term problem. Think of that child they need you.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:43 pm to andersBlake
My best friend killed himself in May 1984. It’s been 37 years and I think about him every damn day.
What ever you may have done wrong can be fixed but you have to be here to fix it.
ETA: It seriously fricked me up for a long time because I blamed myself. The signs were there but I didn’t speak up and get him help. I ended up moving 600 miles away to try to get away from the sense of emptiness I was left with. Our entire group of friends either moved away and some ended up dead themselves. The collateral damage was really awful.
It’s not worth it so please just hang on for the sake of the people who care about you.
What ever you may have done wrong can be fixed but you have to be here to fix it.
ETA: It seriously fricked me up for a long time because I blamed myself. The signs were there but I didn’t speak up and get him help. I ended up moving 600 miles away to try to get away from the sense of emptiness I was left with. Our entire group of friends either moved away and some ended up dead themselves. The collateral damage was really awful.
It’s not worth it so please just hang on for the sake of the people who care about you.
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 9:15 pm
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:43 pm to andersBlake
We all must suffer
But don't be selfish when you have kids
But don't be selfish when you have kids
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:43 pm to andersBlake
You are responsible for a child. The world doesn’t revolve around you anymore. Get your shite together and take care of that kid. Life is not easy.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:45 pm to BeachDude022
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We’re all tired bro.
And we all make a bunch of mistakes.
Or maybe it's just me, but I frick up constantly.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:45 pm to andersBlake
There’s a lot of that going around right now. Just hang in there longer. It will get better but if you’re gone you won’t be able to enjoy it. Your little girl needs you if nothing else.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:46 pm to andersBlake
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Member since Jul 2021
135 posts
With a post like this, I assumed you had joined around the time I did.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:46 pm to andersBlake
We all make mistakes, but we can move on from them. I will say to you what my first sponsor said to me many years ago - "Be good to yourself."
Please get help.
Do it for your child until you can do it for yourself. Please, just do it.
Please get help.
Do it for your child until you can do it for yourself. Please, just do it.
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:47 pm to Joshjrn
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I’ve known a few people who seriously contemplated, or attempted, suicide. Every single one thought those they care about would be better off without them. Every single one was wrong. You’re not alone. Get help <3
Me! When I had to pick up the second job in 2011 delivering pizzas, I had some very dark thoughts on those dark Ascension Parish roads in 2011-2012.
My most played out scenario was to pull out in front of an 18 wheeler going 65 MPH on Airline HWY while delivering pizza. I figured my misery would end and my kids would get my insurance payout as well as something from Papa Johns.
In my state, especially when drinking, this idea sounded perfectly rational.
I'm so very grateful my little fricktard kids always made me snap out of it.
One day around 2015, clouds cleared and I found myself happy about life and looking forward to things I dreaded in 2011-2012. It took me about a week of this feeling to realize I was gonna pull through. FINALLY!
Hang in there, OP.
This post was edited on 12/22/21 at 9:08 am
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