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re: Merry Christmas to everyone I love the ot and everyone here, 2022 is about living

Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:58 pm to
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
44494 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:58 pm to
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my daughter

That’s why you have to keep going. Seek help, talk to your doctor, talk to a friend, talk to the OT. Talking really does help. There are people out there who can help you, both medical professionals and just people in your life who care about you.

I’ll say a prayer for you, pal.
This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 9:00 pm
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
30319 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:58 pm to
<—— at g mail

Email me and give me your number, I will talk to you right now
Posted by LSUBALLER
Louisiana
Member since Jul 2013
17483 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 8:59 pm to
Tomorrow go sit down with a profession. It is never as bleak as you think. Daughter loves you, think what it woukd do to her if you hurt yourself. Seek help, TOMMOW!
Posted by WaWaWeeWa
Member since Oct 2015
15714 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:02 pm to
There are a lot of fathers out there laying on their death bed that would do anything for 1 more day with their daughter. You have the ability to chose. You need to shift your perspective to her and realize that if you hurt yourself it will permanently alter her life. It will likely be the defining moment in her life in which everything is framed, most likely in a negative way. You have a choice wether you deliver that suffering onto her.
Posted by caill430
Da Dirty Dell
Member since Jul 2005
1139 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:02 pm to
I lost my son right before Ida. If you are still looking let me know and we will connect. Please reach out.
Posted by Cobrasize
Birmingham
Member since Jun 2013
49816 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:02 pm to
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Im just tired of living every decision I make is wrong, I would have already killed myself but I feel like suicide is to easy and I have to punish myself and living is hard, I'm just tired , the only thing that cheered me up today is my daughter looking at me at dinner time saying I love u I'm just tired


Man, as a victim of suicide, I’m begging you to please step back and just think of your daughter and how to improve just one thing at a time. My father killed himself when I was 7. I was the one who found him. No matter what went wrong, I would have forgiven him and loved him. He took that from me and never gave me the chance. I’m begging you not to do that to your child. We all screw up, just try to do better. Trying is what matters. Please just try
Posted by Doublebagger
Member since Mar 2021
960 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:03 pm to
Go visit a young escort between 24-27.

Nothing better than spending your money on.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30933 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:05 pm to
Your daughter needs you. Don’t take that away from her
Posted by lsursb
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2004
11727 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:05 pm to
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my daughter looking at me at dinner time saying I love u


That’s motivation enough to get help. That baby girl needs her daddy and you are her hero, no matter how f’d up YOU think you are. It can get better. I promise. Depression is real and it’s not something that you can “pull yourself out of”, at least long term. You have a medical issue and you need professional help. Get help for your daughter’s sake if not for yourself.

In the meantime, if you have guns or weapons, ask a buddy to hold on to them for awhile. We make really bad decisions at times like these. So, get rid of any items that can be used in desperation.

Call the helpline. I used to work at one of these agencies. They can help you!
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
13966 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:06 pm to
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my daughter looking at me at dinner time saying I love u I'm just tired


You have everything to live for. Just imagine how crushed she'd be if you were no longer there for her today I love you to.

I bet you're the center of your daughters universe.

Tomorrow is another day.
Posted by cubsfinger
On The Road
Member since Mar 2017
1612 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:06 pm to
Be thankful you have a life with a daughter. Some of us aren’t that fortunate, friend.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
17478 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:06 pm to
You are loved.

That is not the answer.

Life isn’t easy for anyone.

Please don’t go that route
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
37661 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:09 pm to
Idk you and I’m in tears — PLEASE call the number provided.

Do NOT leave that baby girl. I literally beg you.
Posted by TheBob
Metairie
Member since Jun 2005
16940 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:09 pm to
It’s never that bad amigo. Just keep breathing
Posted by DarthTiger
Member since Sep 2005
2795 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:10 pm to
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This post was edited on 1/1/22 at 5:45 pm
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
1549 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:11 pm to
Wow! Your daughter did that? You're a lucky guy. How many people can't have children or have children who aren't as grateful. That's a blessing and you're doing something right.
Posted by Kashmir
Member since Dec 2014
7991 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:12 pm to
think of your future grandchildren…nothing will bring you more joy and live than grandchildren!!
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
58229 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:13 pm to
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This attitude why people don’t seek the help they need and end up choosing to take their own life or to try to cure themselves with drugs and alcohol.

There are a lot of bad things about the state of the world these days, but one good thing is that we’ve removed at least some of the stigma around mental health disorders and the need to seek help for them.

The type comment you responded to quickly differentiates between a person who has dealt with mental health issues and a person who hasn't, whether personally or tangentially. It is good to sort those types out early and know who not to listen to. Thankfully, their numbers are dwindling, evidenced by this thread.

Reach out to someone, anyone, OP. Call the hotline, talking to someone will only cost you time. Don't let pride or the opinions of rank strangers stand in the way. What is important to you was sitting at that table tonight. I know that because if she wasn't your world she wouldn't be able to reach the place you are right now.

Reach out for help. It is there.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
43094 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:14 pm to
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Do NOT leave that baby girl. I literally beg you.

This made me tear up. My little girl is my world and when she looks at me, I always get a giant smile, she kicks her legs back and forth, flails her arms everywhere, and says “da daaaaa!!!!”. I am that little girl’s world. In her young 18 month old eyes, I hung the moon. Little does she know how often I had to frick things up to get where I am today, nor does she have any clue how often I still frick up every single day.

I have a major heart condition that could take me literally at any moment without warning and the thought of her finding her way through this dark world without me in her life terrifies me. I could not imagine considering doing that to her intentionally. I sincerely do hope and pray that the OP finds help asap and fights/claws his way through the dark time he’s currently in.
Posted by Cobrasize
Birmingham
Member since Jun 2013
49816 posts
Posted on 12/21/21 at 9:15 pm to
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Reach out to someone, anyone, OP. Call the hotline, talking to someone will only cost you time.


I’m off tomorrow. I’d be more than willing to spend as much time on the phone tonight as he needs. No judgement.
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