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Losing a good friend - is it worth trying to reconcile?
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:32 am
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:32 am
A non COVID or BLM/racial thread - woohoo!
Lately I've kinda used this forum as a soundboard for things going on in my life. The healthy mix of sarcasm, realism, and jackassery is pretty refreshing.
I had to cut off a really good friend of mine on Saturday as I finally had enough of his BS. Ever since I ended my relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years back in January, he has acted sketchy at best and apathetic at worst. He has become a part of the group of friends that she is a part of, and sadly has treated me as an afterthought. He never asks me to do anything anymore, and any time I invite him out or over he makes an excuse or doesn't reply.
This is pretty sad as I was best friends with the guy for the better part of 5 years. I'm not sure if he just decided to align himself with her/her group of friends or if other factors have led to this falling out, but I told him that I was done being his friend if he was going to continue acting the way he has towards me. He never replied to that text.
Is this worth an attempt to reconcile maybe 2 weeks or so down the road, or should I just move on? Again, we were best friends for the better part of 5 years. It's hard to swallow losing someone like that.
Lately I've kinda used this forum as a soundboard for things going on in my life. The healthy mix of sarcasm, realism, and jackassery is pretty refreshing.
I had to cut off a really good friend of mine on Saturday as I finally had enough of his BS. Ever since I ended my relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years back in January, he has acted sketchy at best and apathetic at worst. He has become a part of the group of friends that she is a part of, and sadly has treated me as an afterthought. He never asks me to do anything anymore, and any time I invite him out or over he makes an excuse or doesn't reply.
This is pretty sad as I was best friends with the guy for the better part of 5 years. I'm not sure if he just decided to align himself with her/her group of friends or if other factors have led to this falling out, but I told him that I was done being his friend if he was going to continue acting the way he has towards me. He never replied to that text.
Is this worth an attempt to reconcile maybe 2 weeks or so down the road, or should I just move on? Again, we were best friends for the better part of 5 years. It's hard to swallow losing someone like that.
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Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:33 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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sadly has treated me as an afterthought. He never asks me to do anything anymore, and any time I invite him out or over he makes an excuse or doesn't reply.
Bro, sounds like he dumped you, and you are just realizing it.
You didn't dump him.
Move on. Sucks.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:33 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Is he having sex with your ex?
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:34 am to VolsOut4Harambe
You should piihb
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:34 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Well you can’t go back now. Delete him from your phone and ignore him if you ever see him again.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:34 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Scruffy bets that he is trying to get with the girl you dumped.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:34 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Because he’s trying to get with your ex.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:34 am to VolsOut4Harambe
He’ll either start fricking her, if he isn’t already, or in a couple weeks he’ll apologize.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:34 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Could it be because he wants your gf?
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to SCLibertarian
I should've clarified - he's not fricking her, she has a new boyfriend.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to BregmansWheelbarrow
quote:This.
He’ll either start fricking her, if he isn’t already, or in a couple weeks he’ll apologize.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to VolsOut4Harambe
He's definitely trying to hookup with your ex...if he hasn't already
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to VolsOut4Harambe
People change, people drift apart. It's probably more front and center in light of your recent breakup. If you were focused on a relationship or were further down the road from this with a new/solid group of friends, it probably wouldn't seem as severe.
Do an honest assessment of whether you're overreacting or being reasonable, and if it's the later, you're simply standing up for yourself and getting on with your life. You'll probably reconnect later, maybe not as best friends, but at that point you may be at a different stage of life and you can turn the page/get on with it in a way that doesn't sit so negatively with you.
Do an honest assessment of whether you're overreacting or being reasonable, and if it's the later, you're simply standing up for yourself and getting on with your life. You'll probably reconnect later, maybe not as best friends, but at that point you may be at a different stage of life and you can turn the page/get on with it in a way that doesn't sit so negatively with you.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to VolsOut4Harambe
You should bang one of his exes
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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I had to cut off a really good friend of mine on Saturday as I finally had enough of his BS.
quote:
He has become a part of the group of friends that she is a part of, and sadly has treated me as an afterthought. He never asks me to do anything anymore, and any time I invite him out or over he makes an excuse or doesn't reply.
Kind of sounds like he had already beaten you to the punch here
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to VolsOut4Harambe
If he didn't respond to the text, he wasn't as good a friend as you thought. Move on
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to Scruffy
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Scruffy bets that he is trying to get with the girl you dumped.
That's my take.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:35 am to VolsOut4Harambe
He's probably banging your ex.
Sounds like he wasn't much of a friend anyway.
Time to move on.
Sounds like he wasn't much of a friend anyway.
Time to move on.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:36 am to SCLibertarian
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He IS having sex with your ex?
FIFY!
He's pounding your ex on a daily basis -- at least 3 times a day as she tells him how much better he is than you.
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:36 am to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:Doesn't necessarily mean he's still not fricking her
I should've clarified - he's not fricking her, she has a new boyfriend.
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