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re: Losing a good friend - is it worth trying to reconcile?

Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:48 am to
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112329 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:48 am to
quote:

I should've clarified - he's not fricking her, she has a new boyfriend.



He’s playing the long game. He’s definitely trying to bang her.
Posted by Skillet
Member since Aug 2006
107665 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:49 am to
quote:

You don’t have any friends



"my friend named kirk"


do you lack reading comprehension?
Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11585 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:52 am to
My best friend through high school and college and roommate afterward up til I got married hasn’t really seen me other than a couple of funerals in 15 years. That’s life. You get older. Your priorities change. Move on.

To be honest, it sounds like he might have been sticking around to be close to your ex. I’d let that ship sail right on out.
Posted by TFS4E
Washington DC
Member since Nov 2008
13180 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:53 am to
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he's not fricking her, she has a new boyfriend
These are not mutually exclusive
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
51795 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:54 am to
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 10:59 am to
It's pretty obvious what you want here. Just tell him you're fine with him banging your ex as long as he lets you eat his arse. Win-Win for everyone.
This post was edited on 6/16/20 at 11:00 am
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47383 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:21 am to
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I had to cut off a really good friend of mine on Saturday as I finally had enough of his BS. Ever since I ended my relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years back in January, he has acted sketchy at best and apathetic at worst. He has become a part of the group of friends that she is a part of, and sadly has treated me as an afterthought. He never asks me to do anything anymore, and any time I invite him out or over he makes an excuse or doesn't reply.


Sounds like he already cut off your friendship some years ago. Time to move on.
Posted by Alltheway Tigers!
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2004
7138 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:23 am to
Ebb and flow of friendships.

It does not have to be on or off....volume 11 or 0.
Posted by HogWalloper
LaLaLand
Member since Jan 2020
470 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:27 am to
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This post was edited on 5/31/21 at 10:12 am
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
65988 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:29 am to
you should bang his mom
Posted by lshuge
Member since Sep 2017
817 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:42 am to
Wake Up - he's fricking your ex
Posted by LSUcajun77
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2008
21269 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:48 am to
He’s messing with your ex 100000000%

Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34516 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:51 am to
Sometimes people you think are your friends are really not. Perfect example is an alcoholic who gets sober. His "friends" were just drinking buddies, and now that he's not into that lifestyle, they drop him. (Which is the best thing for the alcoholic anyway).

There are other people to be friends with. Find a crowd that has the same interests. Don't chase after someone who treats you like that. frick 'em. You don't need that shite.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22428 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:52 am to
quote:

e has acted sketchy at best and apathetic at worst. He has become a part of the group of friends that she is a part of, and sadly has treated me as an afterthought. He never asks me to do anything anymore, and any time I invite him out or over he makes an excuse or doesn't reply.


quote:

but I told him that I was done being his friend if he was going to continue acting the way he has towards me


If I had a guy friend say creepy shite like this to me I would stop hanging out with him immediately lol
Posted by mauser
Orange Beach
Member since Nov 2008
21589 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:56 am to
It’s simple, if he doesn’t have your back he ain’t your friend.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39011 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:56 am to
I can’t believe there hasn’t been a spin-off thread from this one. Too easy I guess.
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
10600 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:56 am to
quote:

Is he having sex with your ex?


Let's modify this sentence, shall we? So first, take the "he" in the sentence and move it to where it is the first word (don't forget to capitalize it). Let's leave the "is" in its new place, but make it a lower case "I". Now remove the question mark at the end of the sentence and replace it with a period. And there you go!!
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56302 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 11:59 am to
quote:

I had to cut off a really good friend of mine on Saturday as I finally had enough of his BS. Ever since I ended my relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years back in January, he has acted sketchy at best and apathetic at worst. He has become a part of the group of friends that she is a part of, and sadly has treated me as an afterthought. He never asks me to do anything anymore, and any time I invite him out or over he makes an excuse or doesn't reply.

This is pretty sad as I was best friends with the guy for the better part of 5 years. I'm not sure if he just decided to align himself with her/her group of friends or if other factors have led to this falling out, but I told him that I was done being his friend if he was going to continue acting the way he has towards me. He never replied to that text.

I always thought you were a guy.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 12:02 pm to
Not everyone's meant to be in your life forever. Some people just move apart and for whatever reason this friend doesn't want your friendship. Nothing you can do about that if you've done nothing wrong.

And if he's hanging around your ex then this doesn't sound like someone that should've been trusted anyway. You can take solace in the fact that he will likely get nowhere with her.
This post was edited on 6/16/20 at 12:07 pm
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34508 posts
Posted on 6/16/20 at 12:06 pm to
quote:

He's pounding your ex on a daily basis -- at least 3 times a day as she tells him how much better he is than you.


You people are so fricking lame. Where did the originality of the OT go?
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