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re: Last night i found out my 68 year old dad has a mistress...

Posted on 1/16/18 at 8:58 am to
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
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Posted on 1/16/18 at 8:58 am to
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I would discuss options with your SO and sister amd maybe a priest (but that's just me) before making any decisions.
I'm not sure what advice a priest would have to offer, unless his dad's mistress is a 12 year old boy.
Posted by KamaCausey_LSU
Member since Apr 2013
14523 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 8:58 am to
Maybe they’re swingers? Best case scenario.
Posted by Helo
Orlando
Member since Nov 2004
4590 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 8:58 am to
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what should I do? my mom has been with him for 50 years. she doesn't deserve this.


Maybe Mom has a side piece you don't know about.
Posted by wickowick
Head of Island
Member since Dec 2006
45809 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 8:59 am to
Your mom probably already knows...
Posted by drunkenpunkin
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
7659 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:00 am to
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I don't know why you care. Much less, care enough to ruin both of your parents lives.




Really? You can't figure out why this would bother someone?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108403 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:00 am to
A similar thing is going on with my aunt and her father, which led to a double reveal: he has early stages of dementia and the whore is taking advantage of it. Since he texted that to you, I wouldn’t rule this out as happening either given his age.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
105409 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:01 am to
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I don't know why you care


LOLZ
Posted by ladyluckUGA
Member since Feb 2014
6368 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:01 am to
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SG_Geaux


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You should also post this all over Facebook.


I'm not on FB.

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brucevilanch


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ruin both of your parents lives.


no, I'm pretty sure my dad takes that prize.
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:01 am to
Tell him he is a piece of shite deserving of unrelenting scorn if he doesn’t stop it now.
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
50815 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:02 am to
what did the text to you, meant for her say?
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30575 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:04 am to
Plot twist: your parents are swingers
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8141 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:05 am to
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my 68 year old dad has a mistress

Viagra is a hell of a drug
Posted by ladyluckUGA
Member since Feb 2014
6368 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:05 am to
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he has early stages of dementia


ok, this is interesting. my sister, husband and I, as well as other family members have been talking about how bad my dad's memory has been for a while. Seriously, like he'll tell us something and not 10 minutes later tell us the exact same thing again, and we're like, yeah, you just told us that a few minutes ago. and he looks totally puzzled.
Posted by GeorgeQGlass
Austin
Member since Oct 2017
297 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:06 am to
This is between them. You can't see the forest through the trees right now because, like a woman, you're too guided by your emotions.

Remove emotions from it and you'll be able to see logic/reason.

Logic and reason says, this shite is between them. Stay out of it. You have absolutely zero clue as to what has transpired in those 50 years of marriage. Hell, your mom could be fine with it and had probably gotten dick on the side. Or like many married women, quit giving up the pussy. And quit trying to play some martyr card by bringing your son into it.

Why the frick would your dad bring his side piece around your son? Your son is 7. In 7 years has your dad bought his slampiece around his grandkid?

You stand to lose out on your inheritance for what? What if you found out your mom got railed many years back by the pool boy? Then what?

Honestly, who gives a shite? Side pieces are way more rampant than most believe.

Just move on and keep your mouth shut.
Posted by JetFuelTyga
Born in desert,raised in lion's den
Member since Feb 2016
1786 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:06 am to
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my 68 year old dad


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would have celebrated 50 years next year


So they have been together all of their adult lives. Your mom is all he has ever known. It is very common behavior for those in similar situations to want to see what else is out there



ETA: or he has dementia or you're getting punk'd (my favorite possible outcome)
This post was edited on 1/16/18 at 9:11 am
Posted by GeorgeQGlass
Austin
Member since Oct 2017
297 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:07 am to
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That is horrible and an awful burden to bear. I would discuss options with your SO and sister amd maybe a priest (but that's just me) before making any decisions. It's a lot to process. And I don't blame you for cutting him off. Putting you in this position is inexcusable.


Jesus fricking Christ...

Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
2673 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:07 am to
I think there are several ways to play this but are you positive your mother does not know?

How old is the side piece?
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
58889 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:07 am to
That sucks. I hate to hear people throwing away something like a 50 year marriage for a piece of arse they have absolutely nothing invested in.

Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108403 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:08 am to
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ok, this is interesting. my sister, husband and I, as well as other family members have been talking about how bad my dad's memory has been for a while. Seriously, like he'll tell us something and not 10 minutes later tell us the exact same thing again, and we're like, yeah, you just told us that a few minutes ago. and he looks totally puzzled.


This wouldn’t have crossed my mind until my aunt told us that last Thanksgiving, but I’d look into that.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20360 posts
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:09 am to
Umm no it's not common behavior for someone that is married for 50 years to see what else is out there. That is ridiculous.
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